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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost two years, living with eachother for nearly one. When we started dating him and his ex had only been broken up for about a month or two months tops. In the beginning of the relationship she constantly tried to get him back. She was constantly calling and texting telling him to leave to to get back together with her. We actually ended up having a physical altercation. He claims that the only reason they broke up was that he lost his physical attraction to her, she was a great person but he was just no longer attracted to her. To make our relationship less stressed he did stop talking to her. Recently one of his friends commited suicide and he had gone to her instead of me to talk. His reasoning was that she had lost a good friend a few years back and had dealt with this kind of issue before, and she also knew the kid, so he felt that she could offer him the best advice. We had also went through a rough patch where he felt that I was not there for him. We decided to work things out, and decided to leave what happened in the past in the past. But when this happened all that flew out the window and said that all he could think about was how he felt that I wasn't there for him. I feel very unconfortable with her having any contact with him at all. I trust my boyfriend and know that he wouldn't really do wrong by me. In a way I understand where he is coming from but still feel very unconforable with the situation because I know that if he wanted her back, which I know that he does not she would take him back in a heart beat. I also feel like she only wants his friendship in a way to get him back. We are supposed to be getting a new place within the next month and a half. We have not signed a lease yet. What should I do?
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reader, salvation  +, writes (15 April 2008):
if she knows the person that died and has been through it befor he might be telling the truth instead of worrying about it you should be there for him and be happy he is finding comfort as long as he aint having sex etc with her it shouldnt bother you.
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