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writes:well a close friend of mine is bisexual and he recently got a new friend, but they became closer, now fancy each other and are now doing sexual things. This other person expects to come out with us EVERY day. When me and my friend went on holiday he expected a phone call off him. My friend says he is coming at 1pm and im going at 3pm. So they can have 2 houres to themselvs. Im sick of being treated second best. "The gooseberry". and They tell me to go down for drinks as well so they can have their alone time. But before they got sexual i said 2 him i dont want him taking my place and he said he wont. But he has! what can i do??
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2008): You're his best friend not his partner - so of course you come second. Deal with it. If you have a husband one day would you like your husband to put his best friend first and you second!!?? I bet not.
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (15 April 2008):
 Unfortunately, when people become "Couples", they do tend to go through a honeymoon period. I expect that you would be doing the same thing that he is if you were at the start of a relationship as well because we ALL do that when we are first "In Love"! It doesn't mean that you aren't friends anymore, but is is going to cut into your time together. That just they way it goes, I afraid. A good friend will stick around and wait for their new relationship to calm down a bit, and I'm sure that you'll all be friends in the future. Just don't nag him now, and I'm sure that HE will give YOU your space when you are head over heels in love! Take the time that you have now and expand your circle of friends a bit! That's what I would do!
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reader, daniellexxxx +, writes (15 April 2008):
 well i wouldnt feel good but you and he should make time for eachother like a just you and him not the other guy. Talk to him and tell him how you feel you sound really upset which i'm sure talking to him can make it better.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhow would you feel if you had a friend and they ditched you for someone else!
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reader, daniellexxxx +, writes (15 April 2008):
stop being so selfish your friend had found someone eles and you should be happy for him not jelouse. He seems to be happy so you should be happy for him, are you sure you dont have feelings for him. Let your friend get on with his life and stop being selfish and thinking of your self. Hes still thinking of you so there shouldnt be a problem only you are the one with the problem
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