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reader, jlove  +, writes (17 April 2008):
 go down. and do it good. swallow your pride (and her too...)
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reader, TELLULAH  +, writes (16 April 2008):
 That was a joke by the way! Who really gets off picking out a dress. he! he!
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reader, TELLULAH +, writes (16 April 2008):
How about a whip or electrocution standing on a wet floor in very uncomfortable high shoes, without rubber soles?.
Also works for me!!
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (15 April 2008):
 Have her show you how she does it for herself. If she doesn't know how, you're not going to be able to do it for her. And why not just buy a vibrator?
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (15 April 2008):
 Boots then!
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reader, salvation +, writes (15 April 2008):
well fist off try lasting longer its possible withthe right breathing exercises seriously and more attention to the clit. Women can fake orgasm but look for a redness in the chest to be sure they cant fake that. Oh and they will look flushed.
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reader, CaptainBritian +, writes (15 April 2008):
CaptainBritian is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for help am goin to see her 2moz i am relaxed just teh fact she always says she wants to so i try to, also nither of us own a vibrator and she doesnt like oral sex so cant use those tips...oh and the shoes thing wont work shes not tht sort of girl she couldnt care less about shoes ad stuffs lol also were both sadists (well im a sadomasochist) does the body stop orgasms in the presence of pain?
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reader, birdynumnums +, writes (15 April 2008):
TELLU! You are a nut and a half! OMG!!!!!!!!!
I don't know if you are just having penetrative sex alone, but LESS that 20% of women can climax that way. Most need other stimulation, directly on the clitoris. Try giving her oral and use a vibrator inside her simultaneously. Use a lot of lube. AND don't give her too much pressure about the whole thing - that can be part of the problem - relaxing. Don't worry, she will get there eventually.
AND the shoes should be Prada...
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (15 April 2008):
Stop trying.
She is lying there thinking "Oh god, if I don't do it he's going to feel awful." She can see how hard you are trying and will be picking up on your stress.
And that, is not sexy. If she's not feeling relaxed and sexy, it won't happen.
Just concentrate on enjoying being with her, moan along, show her how much you are being turned on by her pleasure and just enjoy yourself.
It will happen once you both chill out about it all.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, TELLULAH +, writes (15 April 2008):
Hi,
You could try promising to buy her a new frock or shoes, just when she is just about there.
Works for me!!
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