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36-40,
*s. Intuition
writes:Does appearance really matter to guys? I am 1.6 metres tall and weigh only 46kgs. I live in a country where (belive it or not,) plump women are preferred over thin one. I have tried everything to gain weight but i cant. I have a boyfriend and as much as i know that he likes the person i am, i dont think he's attracted to me. I knw. There probably western women readin this thinking about wat they'd give to be that thin but i tell you, in my part of the world, it is a curse. Do appearances really matter? To make it worse, i'm an A cup. And am soon turning 20 Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2008): All I can say is you're one lucky lady!! Ice cream seems to work wonders or anything with a lot of sugar and fat, or fat & carbohydrates as a combination work good as well like fried potatoes. Happy eating!!
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (15 April 2008):
 My Doctor put me on a diet to gain weight when I was 12. Prune juice and Whole Wheat Bread. Eating a lot of protein, especially beef, helped. It worked, I don't know how, but I gained weight.
I wouldn't bend over backwards to please anyone else but yourself and whatever weight that you are comfortable with. The most important thing is to be healthy. Appearances are always improved by a great sense of self-esteem, confidence and a big smile. That usually attracts everybody!
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (15 April 2008):
 Don't worry: you will get fat as you age. That's a given. Look at all the big people around you: most of them weren't like that when they were as young as you are. You just have to eat regularly, with little exercise, and your metabolism will take control of the problem.
Appearances really matter to everyone, not only men. If you're smart, however, you will realize that looks are not the most important thing at all.
I don't think your boyfriend is not attracted to you. He wouldn't be your boyfriend, then :-).
Tell your boyfriend that there's a Mexican song that goes like this: "bones are the best part of the soup".
Take care.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2008): Do you have burger bars in your country? If so pig out on them and be sure to sit on your ass all day. We have thousands of folks that use this method in our country and it seems to work fine.
Good luck
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