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writes:I'm hurt I've been in a relationship with this girl for a year and now she's just moved on I want to get over her can you show me how? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWe was in a long distance relationship which was about 8 hours away i guess she said i smoothered her with too much love and she needed space and i didn't give it to her and she got mad and said we are friends now and then my lil sister started talking shit about her how she used me and stuff then she last text me a week ago. Look just leave me alone for now and if we become friends we will later, take care of urself.... it's sad that i was there for her now she just up and leave my heart and don't even care no more.
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reader, daniellexxxx  +, writes (15 April 2008):
 Find a new hobby or something that can take your mind of her. Or go out with a few mates am sure they will be able to cheer you up and make you feel better, it will take time but eventualy you will get over her.
Goog luck.
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reader, jordrodg +, writes (15 April 2008):
You need things to look forward to. Whether its a holiday in the summer or a few beers at the weekend, keeping yourself busy will not only take ur mind of your ex but also mean you are 'out there', socialising rather then pondering on things past by yourself. If it really is over, which it does sound if you're saying she has moved on, then don't expect her to come running back once she realises you're moving on aswell - do this for yourself not her. Keep in touch with your friends by sms, phone calls and in person; if they are good friends they will have time for you right now.Finally try channeling your time somewhere else, perhaps joining a gymnasium or go swimming if you do not already. Not only will this fill time and keep your mind off of her but will also benefit your body and mind positively.
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