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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I've always masturbated using a chair and it never fails to give me pleasure. However recently I got close to a guy and we got intimate. He masturbated me with his hand it felt good. Then I tried rubbing myself up and down his leg but I didn't get the same gratification as when I use a chair. He was telling me to do more until I cum but I couldn't. I got tired and gave up lol. Is it maybe because I'm too used to using a chair? Reply to this Question
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (15 April 2008):
If its the first few times you've been with this guy then of course you aren't going to be totally relaxed like you are when you are alone.
It felt good so concentrate on that. Don't expect to cum, just enjoy it without any pressure and then you probably will cum.
The best orgasms always come when you aren't expecting it. My best one came with my husband, not when we were in a romantic hotel with champagne and chocolate, but when we were just doing it on the quiet in his crappy little bed at his parents house one time, with dusty starwars figures on the shelves from when he was 12. Haha.
Good Luck!! xx
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