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writes:I have this majour guy crisis right now. i really like this guy, and i guess he likes me back. And i went on a band trip with him a few days ago and he finally asked me out, which is great. Then the day after he broke up with me.But he told me not to tell anyone we broke up. And then today he asked me if i would be mad if he and this girl, that he's completely in love with, hung out this weekend when she came in from vernon. And i told him no. But then i asked him why she was mad at him a few nights ago, i knew this because she told me. He said that she was really mad and upset that he was dating me. Which me wonde if thats part of the reason that he broke up with me.. Anyways, she had told me and him that she was over him. Turns out she wasn't and he wants her not me. But i love him, and i don't know what to do. I broke down in front of one of my ex's but he's like a brother to me so its all good, he told me not to worry, cause if he finally realizes that shes just not meant for him he'll go for me. But now everyone thinks where going out and its super awkward. Please help me out here, cause i don't know who i can trust with this...
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reader, love girl  +, writes (16 April 2008):
 you shouldnt be someones second choice , dont be mad but this guy is not for you , if you are his second choice it means that if you hooked up with him someone else will be his second choice so when he breaks up with you he can date her
in my opinion GET OVER HIM because he's only going to hurt you and waste your time , find someone who deserves and appreciates your love ...
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (15 April 2008):
This guy has you wrapped round his finger.
He's keeping you on as a semi-girlfriend incase the girl he really likes turns him down.
Are you really happy being his second choice? His Plan B?
He is being SO disrespectful to you and it is NOT RIGHT. I know you love him sweetie but do you think he is going to respect you and love you when you let him treat you like a doormat?
He's told you he likes this other girl more than you. So you have to be strong and hold your head up high. If he comes back to you then you then, turn him down because he told you he didn't like you the most. If he wants you then he'll have to work for you, and show you he really does care about you.
It will hurt so much, but I have seen what happened to my friend who let a guy use her because she loved him. It is not good. It really messed her up.
Be strong single and independent for now. Guys should have to beg to be with you.
Good Luck!! xx
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