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*ove girl
writes:hi everyone hen i first talked to my boyfirnd it was great but i lied to him about my past and he got upset so things went bad between us , since then we've been having fights every day and everytime we have a fight he curses at me , threatens to break up , screams and he almost hit me , and he also doesnt let me get out of the house the problem is that i lost my virginity with him , in my secoiety thats not a god thing , when a girl is not a virgin she doesnt get married , so when i tried to break up with him he got upset and threatened to tell everyone in town about my secret, i need to let him break up with me but no matter what i do , it doesnt work so what do you think i should do i love him so much and he proved that he loved me but its not going to work
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reader, love girl +, writes (15 April 2008):
love girl is verified as being by the original poster of the question thank you so much for your answers , i'm going to take your word and leave him , i'll tell what will happen
thanks a lot guys
what you said cheered me up a lot and made me feel better
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reader, friendleyness  +, writes (15 April 2008):
hello I agree with everybody leave the fool, but do it very discreetly, because if you do while he's there he could hurt you both emotionally or physically.but call one of the authorities and or friends and family.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2008): Hi Hunny
Leave him now, Dont look back he is bullying you and if he says a word hunny its your word against his to be honest, He is using your culture as he knows only to well how easy it is to scare you. Get away and tell your parents if you can he was hurting and bullying you..As laura says dont be afraid of his threats this is all he has to keep you...Leave and dont look back we learn as we grow hunny everyone makes mistakes, Stay and the mistake continues leave and you will be free of this person you trusted and cared about and has turned out to be not the person you thought you new hunny...TAKE CARE OF YOU SWEETHEART WITH LOVE AND PRAYERS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, salvation  +, writes (15 April 2008):
i think you should leave him he is trying to controll you it can only get worse and seriously i think u would most likely get married with someone not from your village(assuming its smallish) + if you do get married the person will find out at some point
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