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writes:Hello! I am wondering what to do next. There is this man that I have known for a very longtime. We went to high school together and then had a few classes together in college. In college we studied together a few times. One night he made a pass at me and we kissed. After that I ignored his calls and ingnored him in class. I didn't see him after that, till now, five years later. I ran into him two weeks ago and gave him my number and told him to get ahold of me. Last sunday he texted me and asked me to go grab a drink with him. I had some errands to do and told him I would call him when I was done and meet up with him. I called him a few hours later and he said he had some things to do and he would call me in a hour and we would meet up. He never called. It makes me sad because I really think he is someone I would like to get to know again. He was so smart and so kind. When I saw him my heart fluttered a bit. Should I make the next move or wait to see if he contacts me agian? I don't want to mess it up this time. I made that mistake once.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (15 April 2008):
 Hey, don't worry so much about him not calling; anything could have happened. I'm sorry he hasn't called yet. Why don't you wait until tomorrow or Thursday and then call him with a cheerful voice and ask if he'd like to have that drink with you this weekend? Pick a specific date and time so that he has a chance to say no. If he doesn't suggest an alternative if he says no, then let it go...
But be bright and breezy, not too forward, if you know what I mean. Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2008): well he will call back trust me dont rush in to any thing
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reader, daniellexxxx  +, writes (15 April 2008):
 Make the move because he probably thinks you dont like him as you said you were busy so he played the game back now he thinks your not interested call him or text him asking him if he wants to go for a drink you will soon know if he wants to know.
Good luck,
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