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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My expectations are too high because I look at porn and beauty magazines. How to abandon the idea of "perfect woman" ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6217 days ago

13 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Im addicted with the perfect woman! I look at porn on the net and in mags, and all these women are made to look better that they actually are, so wen i go looking for a girl, i guess my expectations are too high. Im not the most attractive looking guy in the world, but not the ... (66 words)

What aftershave attracts girls?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6217 days ago

13 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - What aftershave is the best to wear to attract the girls?... (11 words)

Worried that my porn addiction is out of control... I keep wanting more and harder stuff!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6216 days ago

13 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I need help with my porn and masterbation addiction!! I have to masterbate atleast once a day, sumtimes more. Also wen i go looking for porn my fantisies get worse and worse, first it started with the simple tits and pussy, then it went on to anal, next was bondage but ... (93 words)

Where can I find a girlfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6216 days ago

13 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey I need sum help! Where can i find a gf? Im 18 and have never had a gf? And obviously a virgin then. I have no confidence in going up to girls and talking to them. But wen i do find sum courage they usually go for my more attractive mates. What can i do?... (62 words)

Worried I've become to fond of a girl I've only met online...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6216 days ago

13 December 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I really like a certain young lady, who i came across on the internet, she has said that she really likes me as i have to her. I have not yet met her in "real life" however we regularly speak on the phone, i feel a bit stupid being so concerned about weither a girl i have ne... (246 words)

I'm dreading seeing him again, but I have to. How do I approach him without either of us feeling embarassed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6216 days ago

13 December 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Tomorrow I am going to be meeting up with a work friend that I haven't seen for quite some time. We both had feelings for each other but never did anything about it. I left the job to go to a different office and we texted each other a few times after I left. The last text I ... (226 words)

Feelings for a member of staff at my uni! How should I proceed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6218 days ago

13 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - hi everybody, heres my problem- i'm 26 and am in my last year of a degree, and saw this really gorgeous guy in the canteen of my uni about 9 weeks ago. i was pretty impressed and after that i think i saw him randomly when i was getting off the train in town too. Imagine my ... (676 words)

Is it normal, to want to taste his own sperm? (kissing me immediately after I perform oral)

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3722 days ago

13 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend likes to kiss me after i gave him blow job and swallowed cos he likes the taste of himself. It is not just my assumption, he actually told me. Do any other guys like to taste themselves? Do you think it is normal?... (45 words)

I respect her wish of remaining virgin until marriage but I'm tempted to cheat. What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6217 days ago

13 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i'm having a problem with this girl i'm dating, she's a 27 years old virgin who never been touched by a man ever. we are together for 4 years now and i have never seen her naked! i respect her wish of remaining virgin till marriage but it's killing me! i started considering ... (74 words)

Should I give it some time or what?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6217 days ago

13 December 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - my girlfriend is having thoughts about breaking up with me. she says that her heart is telling her to but she trying not to listen to her heart. and i don't know if I should just end it or what. cuz i don't know what to do and i don't want to make the wrong choice. cuz i really ... (97 words)

My girlfriend suggested not getting Xmas presents this year... is she going off me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6208 days ago

13 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend suggested not getting each other christmas presents this year. I was quite hurt. She's not into the whole buying gifts cos TV says so, she hates valentines day. Birthdays are her thing, and thats fine with me. But we did xmas fine last year and i never knew sh... (248 words)

I want to end the attraction for my own mother. Please help, I'm ashamed of myself.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5936 days ago

13 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi guys i'm a guy and just turned 16 last month i live with my mom after my parents divorced i have a problem which i can't tell anyone, i'm attracted to my mom sexually. it's been 2 years now i love going through her underwear, smilling, playing and wearing them i alwa... (116 words)

Do relationships between different genders exist without expecting more from any of the parties?...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6218 days ago

13 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend has a lot of friends who are female. They have a close ralationship and keep calling and meeting up for coffees etc. Some of them may be in relationship some are married or single. He doesn't have any close male friends. I am quite jealous of his friends because I ... (109 words)

We firstly broke up as he was jealous of my friendships, then without any explanations - days after he mentioned marriage! Have I been played for a fool?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6217 days ago

13 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. I recently split up with my boyfriend of some time. He gave me the reason that he was suffering with a great deal of jealousy over my friendships with other people and the fact that we had never had the kind of relationship I have with my friends. This wasn't due to w... (386 words)

A regular pregnancy test compared to a blood test?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6218 days ago

13 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i was wondering if a regular pregnancy test is the same as a blood test? and witch one is preferable? because I get all the symptoms of being pregnant and my belly is growing but the pregnancy test came out negative what should i do?... (47 words)

I just met him. Did he lose interest?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6217 days ago

13 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Met this guy the other night, chatted. Next weekend bumped into him again. He came over, started flirting and kissed. He asked for number and when can he see me again. Replied with 'who knows' but gave him number eventually. He text me the next day. Chatted over texts. ... (146 words)

People tell me this is my ex's trying to get close to me, to see if there is any "spark" left. I don't know what to believe.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6218 days ago

13 December 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Me and my ex have been split up for over 3 months now. Thing's were going good we werent communicating at all. Then one day she comes up to me at the gym and asks if I will be coming in the morning's . I was, so I said no problem. Well later on that day I get a call from her ... (251 words)

Should I wait for my bf to say is over before I take any step with the new guy? (I love my current bf but he is harsh and uncommunicative)

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6217 days ago

13 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi,i've been going out with my guy for almost a year,it seems he doesn't care about me anymore. He doesn't call but when i call him, he talks to me in a harsh tone. i've now meet a new guy who has an interest me and wants to introduce me to his parents.should i wait for my bf to... (100 words)

What might be wrong with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6217 days ago

13 December 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Look this is not easy for me to talk about and infact its not something Ive discussed with anyone but I really could use some kind of input and opinion. I am a 37 year old man who has never had a girlfriend or even been on a meaningful date with a girl. I am a popular guy an... (377 words)

Girl fight, and he's pushing me away.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6217 days ago

13 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Im really mad at this chik cuz she keeps flirting with my boyfirend but everytime i try to talk to him its like he pushes me farther and farther away..............what should i do about that?... (35 words)

I can't get over my teacher...and its tearing me apart

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6037 days ago

13 December 2007 (F) age 30-35 - i cant get over my teacher. he taught me 2 years ago and has even left the school now but i still cant move on. now ive fancied a lot of people before but this is different....fancying someone makes you feel good but this is just tearing me apart! at school i act the same as ... (165 words)

Ok.. so he probably doesn't fancy me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6217 days ago

13 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - ok, i've kind of given up hope, i really fancy him but i doubt he fancies me, i need to get over him right? It will be difficult but how do i do this. I've been thinking of doing the whole writing a letter and burning it thing but will it work or will i find my self still ... (80 words)

I want to tell him now, instead of rejecting him later.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6213 days ago

13 December 2007 (F) - Okay, I really fancy one of my best lad mates. We talk every day at school, he walks me half way home, we stand literally millimetres apart from each other, text each other every night. I really like him and have known him for about 8 years. Rumours have been going round he... (161 words)

My best friend (16) is pregnant with my Maths teacher's baby... What should I do?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

13 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - omg! iv just found out that my best friend is pregnant with my maths teachers baby. this has come as a complete shock to me because i had no idea theyd even slept together! shes really worried cos her parents will just freak out n shes also really worried about his reaction ... (107 words)

Should I stay or go. what should I do about this relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6216 days ago

13 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I'M STUCK! This is my first "real" relationship. I fell in love with my boyfriend 3years ago. It was a really fast hot and heavy type of relationship. And niether of us could stand being apart. Early in the relationship I became pregnant and we moved in together ASAP. And with ... (351 words)

He said he'd cut her out of his life.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6217 days ago

13 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been best friends with my current boyfriend for three years, and have always had feelings for each other even though nothing happened. After one drunken night (whilst we were both single)we hooked up and have been inseparable ever since. The only problem is his e... (211 words)

We have a brilliant relationship and hot sex life, so why does he need all these virtual chats?...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6211 days ago

13 December 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - why is my husband addicted to chatrooms and online flirting? why can't he realise what he's doing to me. i've caught him many times and every time he says it will stop. we have a brilliant relationship and hot sex life, so why does he need all this virtual stuff?... (50 words)

I miss my gf. She left after I told her I cheated on her with my friend's wife!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6216 days ago

13 December 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I cheated on both my girl and my friend with his wife. so guilty i cooled things with my girl and she moved out, cant stop thinking bout my mates wife but miss my girl. so confused tried to keep both happy now have lost touch with friends wife but not sure i should stay ... (83 words)

I want to do something special, just to show him my love. Suggestions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6218 days ago

13 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everyone, i am wanting to do something nice for my boyfriend just because i love him. he has been working out of town and i just wanted to show him that i love him. any ideas or suggestions? thanks... (46 words)

I'm in love with my teacher, telling him could make things awkward

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6218 days ago

13 December 2007 (?) age 30-35 - hi i know you have heard loads of people say this but i really am in love with my teacher. i love him because to me he is perfect though he has faults but i love them anyway. when he smiles at me it makes me want to smile and i feel really happy and high around him. i have ... (369 words)

What should I do about the bloke from work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6216 days ago

13 December 2007 (F) - iya.. i no to most after reading this you will think i am a complete plank but anyway i have worked in this bar for a while now and a new bloke has just started, i was the first person who actually spoke to him and we started chatting and started flirting and having a banter. i ... (220 words)

My bf never calls me by my name. I find this strange.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

13 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi everyboby,i have a problem me and my boyfriend have been together for little over a year,the problem is he haven't said my name yet.this is very strange and driving me crazy.every time i ask him.he gives me some stupid answer.i dont know what to do...... (47 words)

Concerned about the way I look. Would a girl poke fun at these potential physical imperfections?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6218 days ago

13 December 2007 (M) - dear cupid i am 16 years of age and i get very paranoid about the way i look n the concerns are as follows: i would like to know, do girls get turned of by boys that have man boobs when they have sex? i ask this because i keep on getting scared that they might make fun ... (104 words)

I am trying to conceive but every source provides different information about the most fertile period.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6217 days ago

13 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Helllooo I am trying to conceive. The only problem is i have no idea when i am fertile. Every website tells me a different date. I have only been trying for 2 months now. I have been off birth control that long as well. Any suggestions on what to do? Or how to speed this pr... (64 words)

Eating problems, constipation, stress. Any recommendations, please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6218 days ago

13 December 2007 (M) - dear cupid i am currently having a problem, when ever i eat, i always seem to vomit what i ate, this is to the fact that i do not want to gain weight and this has caused me to become constipated, and also the paranoia of my man boobs increasing and stomach increasing. does... (63 words)

How likely is it be that I could be pregnant?... How do antibiotics affect the protection system provided by the contraceptive pills?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6218 days ago

13 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am taking the contraceptive pill and had also been on antibiotics. I had unprotected sex but when this took place I hadnt taken any antibiotics for over 24 hours so i am not sure if they were still in my system and therefore affecting how my pill might have worked. When I had ... (94 words)

Am I a lesbien and should I tell her.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6132 days ago

13 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I work at an all girls school and this has not been a problem until now. I have always been in straight relationships, but recently - since the start of the year - I have had feelings for one student in particular. I can't understand it as I am sure I am straight, but ev... (153 words)

Should I not trust her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6218 days ago

13 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I just need a second opinion on this one because I'm not to sure myself. My g/f is attending college and recently she had admitted to flirting with a classmate. I was very unhappy and she knew that I would be upset by them continuing to hang out. A few days later I learn that... (235 words)

My teacher is being mean to me for no apparent reason.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6218 days ago

13 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i am 14 and my english teacher is being mean to me for no apparent reason she said she is going to move people down because they cant do the work and when she said this to the class she looked at me all the way through it and i can do the work so why is she doing that. there ... (155 words)

I want to spice up sex, what can I do? (neither of us lives alone)

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6218 days ago

13 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - been with my boyfriend now for three and a half years although sex is ok it need spicing up i want to do something really out of the blue that will turn him on straight away but its hard because he lives with his mum - and so do i, so the house is never free..... what can i ... (60 words)

Is it wrong to be with a guy you get along with perfectly but he does not pay attention to your sexual needs so you obtain the pleasure elsewhere to balance your life??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6211 days ago

13 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am just about to cheat on my boyfriend of one year because of the lack of sex and affection from him. I am so disappointed as he is just such a nice guy and I love him so much and in any other ways he is perfect and I do not have any problems with him. He is not willing to ... (1038 words)

I'm feeling broken, any advice.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6218 days ago

13 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - o.k. time to spill:: i have been with {umm i'll call him "j"} for almost 2 years now! Things aren't going so great anymore since his car wreck because he is too controlling and stuck up my butt 24/7. + he's jealous over me! and i'm tired of it. So there's "r" the x he's ... (132 words)

How do I know if there's a chance she might like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6218 days ago

13 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I have this friend thats a girl. Im starting to really like her because we have so much in common. We went skiing for the day together and had a great time. She also planned to go somewhere for my bday after she gets out of work. Is it possible that she may have feelings for me ... (62 words)

I have been ignoring his calls. Am I being rude, or smart?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6218 days ago

13 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - There's a guy who I worked with for 6 yrs., and I never really liked being around him because he would throw fits and get mad for no reason, and start throwing things and punching things at work which the boss did nothing b/c he is afraid of him. He is a huge guy..well, we ... (391 words)

Could my french teacher fancy me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6204 days ago

13 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 15 and I have a crush on my french teacher. A friend of mine told her and she went red in the face. Now she knows everytime I look at her she quickly looks in the opposite direction but she stares at me constantly when I don't look at her. Do you think she may fancy me as ... (60 words)

How can I help my boyfriend learn to give and receive compliments?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6218 days ago

13 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of nearly 6 months never says nice things to me or compliments me. Now, before you say dump him I should like to make a few points before you write him off as a loser. I think it is because all his life he has received negativity from people, such as his Mum, ... (525 words)

My ex wants to see me. Should I tell him to take a hike, or go see him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6218 days ago

13 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - hi all ok so last month i met this great guy whos 22 and im 26 and we get on great and really like each other , ive met his family and we make each other laugh , the age gap between us doesnt bother me or him at all anyway a few days ago i got a call from my ex form 2 ... (206 words)

He said we are 'too differant', I think we are perfect!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6217 days ago

13 December 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Well, last night he told me that he thinks we are "too different" and that he doesn't think it will work out. I am crazy about him. He's a carpenter. I am a corporate professional and I think that the disparity in our incomes bothers him. He wanted me to stay with him after ... (403 words)

He had a lap dance and wanted to 'lick' her. I consider this cheating, he doesnt.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6218 days ago

13 December 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Has my husband cheated? how many would consider this to be cheating, my husband went to a lapdancing club unbeknown to me at the time, and had a private dance, full nude.I since found out by accident, heard him talking to somebody else who had been there with him that night, I ... (256 words)

How soon can I take a pregnancy test?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6218 days ago

13 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - hi all ive got a question now my boyfriend and i had unprotected sex on the day i finished my period 2nd december , and from then we been having sex and the condom spllit inside of me , now im worried as i keep thinking could i be pregnant ? is there a chance ?? and is it to... (69 words)

He loses his erection a bit when I go down on him. Whats wrong?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6218 days ago

13 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey everybody. I want to start out by wishing you all happy holidays!! Anyways, I have a problem. Everytime I go down on my boyfriend he always goes a bit limp. Not completely but it goes down a bit. Everything is fine when we have sex. He has no problems in that area. It's ... (187 words)

My boyfriend chooses his mates over me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6218 days ago

13 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend chooses his mates over me, what does this mean? does he love me enough?... (19 words)

I am ready, but he doesn't want to marry me...yet!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6151 days ago

13 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I've known my boyfriend for 3 years, and we've been dating just over two and a half. Though we've had our ups and downs it's been a good relationship. We both discussed marriage and decided on a year half- 2 years. He has recently said he thinks this is too soon, and he isn... (212 words)

My ex has half my heart, but my current boyfriend has the other half

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6218 days ago

13 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok lets start out with this i'm 17 so is my boyfriend and he's so sweet but has ADHD and he gets on my nerves alot but ya o well I love him alot but he really not my first love if you know what I mean my ex ( first love ) came to my window crying last night and he lives 2 hours ... (295 words)

Query on female anatomy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6218 days ago

13 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am very confused and need some help. Does every girl have a clitoris and clitoral hood? Or is it possible to not be able to see them? thanks... (32 words)

I need to know how to give her the big 'O'

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6216 days ago

13 December 2007 (M)

- I've been with my girlfriend now for a year. Although we both care for each other, a situation arose last week. We started having sex about 2 or 3 months ago and have sex 2 or 3 times a week. One day when I had to go out to get something, I came back as I forgot my wallet. ... (131 words)

What did his parting words mean?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6218 days ago

13 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I broke up with my bf.There were so many misunderstandings and confusion and unwilligness to open communication on his side,so that our separation came as logical solution and even relief.However i feel depressed and im sure he feels the same. nonetheless our relationship ... (149 words)

Is it possible that she'll contact me again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6218 days ago

13 December 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I recently got dumped by my girlfriend. At the start she was still in love with her ex and i started out cautiously. The first 3 months were great; we had loads of fun. She lived a good bit away from me and since i wasn't driving at the time she travelled 40km just to see me. ... (773 words)

Should I accept that he receives sexual pictures from other men??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6218 days ago

13 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - hi, i have a bit of a problem. Me and my partner are in a long distance relationship. We have been together for 18 months and 6 months ago i moved to a different country to work. We love each other more than anything, we see each other about twice a month. We just came bac... (252 words)

I would like my friend to introduce me to her collegue

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6177 days ago

13 December 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a female friend working on a local copmany, the problem is I am attracted by her collegue and she don't know me we never met before with her collegue I just saw her on my friend photo album bt I am not stop thinking her what can I do to get know each other? Julius... (60 words)

My wife can't reach climax through intercourse

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

13 December 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I was married this feb. Since then my wife has never reached climax during intercourse but finger fucking works each and everytime. She doesnt feel any pleasure during intercourse but likes foreplay. She neither likes oral sex, which i like very much, nor uses any sex position ... (53 words)

My roommate sabotages my love life

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6217 days ago

13 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently met a guy when I was out with some friends, including my roommate, who was one of my best friends at the time. The two of us hit it off right away, and he spent the entire night by my side, talking and joking with me. He walked me home to the house I shared with my ... (402 words)

Her Grandma is trying to break us up

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6215 days ago

13 December 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I m in love with lady who is having my sweet son, the problem is her both parents are passed away and her grandmother she don't like me without a reason, I am afraid if i lose her she will suffer as she is unemployed what do do?... (49 words)

How can I rebuild my relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6216 days ago

13 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am having problems with my boyfriend. We live together and have done for the last couple of months but we are arguing alot lately and the physical side and is pretty much dead (for me anyway). Can you help me re build my relationship. ... (45 words)

Why would she bother to contact me now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6215 days ago

13 December 2007 (M)

age - Take a deep breath . . . i am wondering why an old girlfriend has contacted me?, after 26yrs has gone by, i still loved her at the time but she bunked off with another guy, so i had to leave, we was working together, it was the stress and strains of the job, in catering... (231 words)

How do I help him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6218 days ago

13 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I fancy a guy who's being tormented by his ex, how do i help him to move on?... (18 words)

How can I get it into his head that we need some time together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6218 days ago

13 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I just mopved in with my bf of 11 months about a week and a half ago. I work two jobs..one full and the other part time. The full time one I get home by 5 when I work both I get home around 11. My bf normally works til 8. My problem is since we moved in he's been visit our guy ... (141 words)

She's 'turned off the tap' and sleeps in the other bedroom. Can anyone help?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6217 days ago

13 December 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been married for 6 years and have a step daughter and we have had a child who is now 17 months old. My wife has recently told me that she wants to leave me to have some time on her own. She will not say that she wants a divorce but she won't commit to being with me. We ... (182 words)

How do I avoid this 'friend'?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6218 days ago

13 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My "friend" is getting married.Im happy for her,but the problem is that she asks for help with her dress and stuff... She seems ok now, But since we know each other wich is about 3 years,i ve never ever counted her as my close friend. Firstly, becouse she is opportunist and i ... (142 words)

I don't want to blurt it out, but how do I find out if she's more than a pal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6218 days ago

13 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Basically, I am in love with a woman who's also a mate of mine. At the moment we are just mates I think(well as far as she is concerned??). But I want so much more. Has anyone any tips on how I could figure out what she may want, without actually blurting it out??? I'm so ... (59 words)

How do I get my husband to open up to me sexually?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6217 days ago

13 December 2007 (F)

age - How do I get my husband to open up to me sexually, I have asked him to tell me what turns him on, all he says is "shut up" I have worn stockings and suspenders and not told him, let him discover it for himself when he felt my legs, then all he said was "you shouldn't be wearing ... (394 words)

Does my dream mean that I don't trust her?

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13 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, Me and my gf had a breakup for about 5 months which in that period i know she only kissed one guy and tells me thats all that happenned. As much as i trust her there is a part of me which doesnt beleive this. Anyway back to my problem. I keep having this dream where... (126 words)

Should I get back together with my wife or move on?

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13 December 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Hello, about a month ago I decided to move out of the apt. that I shared with my wife of eight years. I decided to break up with her because I felt I could no longer trust her; but now I'm having second thoughts about what I did and I'm contemplating taking her back. The ... (322 words)

I don't want to pay to meet someone - any good sites that you can recommend?

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13 December 2007 (?) age 41-50 - Dear agony aunts and uncles, I would like some advice about online dating sites. I would like to know if any of you have any recommendations about what sites are good or what might be scams. I would prefer something free since paying to meet someone just doesn't feel rig... (160 words)

I'm ashamed of my big clitoris!

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13 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a woman of 25 and I have big clitories. I am so shy of this to have a relationship with men. I have shown to one of my girlfriend the other day and she said I have to see a doctor so they can circumsize it. do you think it is a good Idea?... (56 words)

We're both shy. How do we get the ball rolling?

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13 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - OK. I've liked this guy I work with for a a while now and have been too shy to tell him. Recently, he confessed to my friend that he likes me too and is too shy to tell me. Obviously, my friend told me all about this, but he still doesn't know that I know he likes me. It's ... (103 words)

What does he mean when he winks?

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13 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My coworker tends to wink at me a lot. What does it mean when he does this?... (17 words)

It turns me on when I imagine him with another woman. Am I screwed up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6212 days ago

13 December 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - My ex husband cheated on me when I was 9 months pregnant he didn't tell me about the infidelity. I found out through work from our boss since we both worked at the same place. We were separated for 7 years and finally divorced 4 years ago. We have 2 children from our ... (357 words)

I was often an ass, is it something she can get over?

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13 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I recently broke up with my girlfriend after 1.5 years. We had had 3 break-ups through-out the relationship, all my fault, she caught me flirting with some girl when i was walking out of class, then she caught me sending e-mails back and forth with a co-worker, and the last ... (343 words)

In relationship with best friend....need advice badly

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13 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - What do you do when you're in love with your best friend who loves you back but she is doesn't want to commit to anything because she is confused about how she feels? I know she loves me back but she says there are bits missing and that she is not sure why and that she still ... (259 words)

Worried I'll aim for the wrong entrance when I try and have sex... is it hard to find?

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13 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - hi im chris and i am a virgin. i have turned down many opportunities for sex bacause i am scared i will stay limp or not be able to find the correct entrance.. is there any easy way to find the right hole when your in intercourse? Chris... (53 words)

How do I show her that real relationships are based on friendship?

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13 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Her and her BF just broke up. How do I do this right? So this girl that I've liked for a very long time broke up with her bf after 3 moths. It was a bad relationship. She knows I have feelings for her but we still remain really close friends. It was mostly because s... (217 words)

I fantasise about guys, not girls. Does that make me gay?

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13 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi yeah i am only 16 years old I like girls but when i get horny the first thing that comes to my mind is gay sex, but when i am not horny anymore my mind tells me i am not gay,but i start to think and want guys in my life sexually everyday.....i dont even get that much ... (73 words)

Does sperm have protein in it? Is it healthy to eat?

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13 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - well sice we give head dont we get spmthing out of it. i mean if we swallow dont it have protein in the sperm so we canbe healty,well idk if it does but i would like to know so i would givehead more often or not..... (48 words)

Do I have the right to feel insecure about him and his ex?

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13 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - This is somewhat of a story, so anyone that bears through it, thanks for feedback. I have my insecurities about one of my boyfriend's exes. I am fine with all his others and any other girl/friends he may have except this one in particular. It is because after he broke u... (632 words)

How should I act when I'm around his family?

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13 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok here is the thing my boyfriend is part black and his moms side of family is black but i am not racist i just don't have many black friends next year my boyfriend has invited me to his moms family reunion and i don't know how to act. I met his cousim and aunt but there is... (127 words)

My husband's friend slept with my husband's younger sister... despite being warned away!

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13 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband's best friend is a well-known womanizer. My husband has made it somewhat clear that it wouldn't be a good idea for him to "date" his younger sister. He even expressed this concern to his sister. She agreed that she would steer clear. But we've recently discovered ... (144 words)

Was I mis-diagnosed as having Bi-Polar disorder?

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13 December 2007 (F) - Did my psychiatric nurse misdiagnose me as having bipolar? My dad was verbally abusive growing up, and then, I dated two guys in college who sexually assaulted me. So, I went to see a psychiatric nurse last summer. After talking to me for about 15 minutes she said I might have ... (427 words)

Does this seem like harmless office flirting - or is it more serious than that?

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13 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm attracted to my male boss. He is one of a few people who supervise my work. I had a mild crush on him in the beginning, but now, it has grown stronger by the day. I think it is a purely physical attraction and I'm not sure if I'd want any kind of relationship to come out of ... (306 words)

Should I ask my friend to message her for me?

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13 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I met this girl at a friend's party. I didn't know anybody there, but when she said hi to my friend i noticed she was staring at me, so i introduced myself and she said "who are you friend's of?" so i told her and she asked me why i hadn't hung out with them before. We spent ... (217 words)

Will her ex think I'm taking his place?

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13 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, i'm in a dilema...i've liked this lass for a while now and well recently we have got close, we speak all the time and have such a laugh! Theres a few big problems...a) she has a child with another man but she's seperated from him, b) he gets jealous and violent towards ... (120 words)

Is it safe for guys to choke the chicken in the shower? Or could it make subsequent lady users pregnant?

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13 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Is it safe for men to masturbate in the shower? Like safe for ladies who use the shower?... (18 words)

I lied (and lied) to a man I met online...

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13 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i lied to a man i met online. i lied about almost everything except my views on certain subjects, my feelings for him, some things about my past,my clumsiness and "dorkiness", things like that. i didn't want to lie to him, but something inside me kept doing it, and then i had ... (100 words)

Do men fantasise about their exes?

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13 December 2007 (?) age 51-59 - Do men still fantasize about their xgf after a year being apart? ... (12 words)