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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Met this guy the other night, chatted. Next weekend bumped into him again. He came over, started flirting and kissed. He asked for number and when can he see me again. Replied with 'who knows' but gave him number eventually. He text me the next day. Chatted over texts. Before bedtime he text again. He said good night. Monday night I text 'night'and started texting againg. I said battery flat. Good night. Haven't heard from him since. Not willing to be the first to text. Did he lose interest? Is it a case of out of the eye out of the heart? Should I text him or just wait for him to make the first move again?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2007): Personally I hate text messaging. Did you know that technology always precedes the need in the marketplace? Telephone companies are telling you what you want and what you must have and then it becomes habit...and a need instead of a want.
But seriously, don't you think texting and waiting on an answer to judge the depth of someone's interest in you is just plain sad? Pick up the damn phone and call him and ask him to call you, say you don't like texts, they are meant for emergency use only to get a message about something when someone can't come to the phone, as in they are in a meeting....
He may be a bit shy, he may not be interested. I don't think there is anything wrong with making the first move, ask him for something during the day, like coffee or lunch, and then wait for him to contact you, by phone, not email or text...make him step up to a real relationship with you, or you are not going to waste your time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2007): What if he is feeling the same way about this situation? I think someone should have the courage to step up and say " hey, how ya doin'?" or else your just going to be left with the " what if" feeling. Maybe theres an explaination. Give him a chance. Text him and see whats up. Thres nothing wrong in messaging someone to see how they are. Give it a chance and good luck. You've got nothing to lose but rather more to gain.
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