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writes:I just mopved in with my bf of 11 months about a week and a half ago. I work two jobs..one full and the other part time. The full time one I get home by 5 when I work both I get home around 11. My bf normally works til 8. My problem is since we moved in he's been visit our guy friends apt everyday. Sometimes i go over others I'm working or exhausted. I just feel like were not having any 'us time' because he's always over there. It just makes me wonder how long it can last like this before our relationship breaks down. In a relationship you need your time together and i don't know how to get that into his head without making it sound like I don't want him hanging out with our friend?
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reader, angelblueeyes  +, writes (13 December 2007):
 Hi,
You have to just tell him that you miss your 'alone time' with him, say to him can you make arrangements that he goes to the friends house only 1/2 evenings a wk so that you can have some time alone together, Make sure you make him aware you dont want to stop him going out but its just that you miss your 'quality time' with him.
Every couple needs at least a few hours together a week the same as we need time apart from each other to make the relationship work well
Hope you get it sorted
Lu x
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