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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I have been best friends with my current boyfriend for three years, and have always had feelings for each other even though nothing happened. After one drunken night (whilst we were both single)we hooked up and have been inseparable ever since.The only problem is his ex, who happens to be his best friend. She reguarly fakes suicide attempts and talks about how depressed she is just so she gets 100% of his attension. she has a on/off boyfriend and always talks as if its MY boyfriend she wants. Shes done it with his ex's and they have always broken up with him in the end because of it.I love my boyfriend to pieces and we talk about marrage, but i can't cope anymore. She seems to be the third person in our relationship, so much so, i refuse to meet her and often accidentally slag her off to my boyfriend.He's offered to cut her out of his life, which i know he would hold against me for the rest of my life, so i can't accept him doing that. I really need some help. I can't cope with it anymore and I really hate her!
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reader, pollard527 +, writes (14 December 2007):
 hey im going through a similar thing.. only he's chosen to stay with her because of her suicide threats, and her supposedly depression.. also his daughter begs him to stay,, he is very soft and loving person, and has pulled right away from me..
im so confused.. your lucky you got this far.. his ex can be a very nasty person.
regards.. karen
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2007): Get him to push her into the background, dont get her cut off completely, just background music.
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