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writes: Okay, I really fancy one of my best lad mates. We talk every day at school, he walks me half way home, we stand literally millimetres apart from each other, text each other every night. I really like him and have known him for about 8 years. Rumours have been going round he fancies me and he admitted it to me earlier. I really like him but I don't think I want to go out with him in case it ruins our friendship. We are so close and I don't want an 8 year friendship to end through a break up for whatever reason.How do I tell him that? I don't want to see him unhappy, he means a lot to me, and I don't think I can face tellig him, but I'd rather tell him now than him asking me out and having to reject him. Help? Thanks in advance.Katy
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reader, Amy2007x  +, writes (18 December 2007):
 um... i dno if u should :/
me and my best boy mate are really close =]
ppl even say we are going out lol its funny really
he calls me his big sister and i think of him as my lil bro
we text constantly and are always having a laugh its brill
jsut think wht if it doesnt work out? would it be worth it?
if u arent best mates go for it but if use are then id think about it more coz really good best mates are hard to find
soz if i have put u off
:S
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reader, laurens  +, writes (14 December 2007):
dont leave it too late.
ive been in the same situation but left it until the guy made a move. he then stopped tlaking to me for a year because he felt like i was leading him on and then just messing with his feelings.
if you value his friendship tell him how you feel. otherwise you may loose his friendship anyway
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