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Archived questions from: 25 December, 2007 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Should I stay in my marriage or should I make my own life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6174 days ago

25 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm married and have a son, but lately I have been unhappy. My relationship happened so fast. I was having fun when i meet my husband and i never thought i would marry him. But then i got pregnant and everything changed. Lately i can't picture our future together. And he really ... (235 words)

I have feelings for my friend and she's recently single, should I make a move?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6173 days ago

25 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Ive recently had feelings for a girl ive known for a few months. Shes a year younger than me (im 18) and we generally get on quite well. She has recently split up with her boyfriend and has started to talk to me a bit more than she used to. I dont know how to approach her... (153 words)

I'm 20 and have never had a relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6174 days ago

25 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - hi I'm a 20 year old guy from England and I'm getting worried because I've never had a proper relationship with a girl, only some near misses when i was 15. I think my complicated life is perhaps getting in the way of natural progress. My mother has manic depression and... (191 words)

I love my boyfriend but my family are pressuring me to meet him, and I'm worried about some issues they might have

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6172 days ago

25 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so here's my problem...would like everyone to keep an open mind. I'm a 17 year old gay guy...comfortable with my sexuality and all that. So about a year ago i started seeing an older guy. I've always known i liked older guys (hey, it's just the way i am..can't help i... (462 words)

He's hot and cold, how do I handle this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6170 days ago

25 December 2007 (F)

- Hey, I'm upset and confused. I have been with a boy from college for the good part of two months so far, and I care for him so much. We've not known each other long, probably a few months at the most, and we started off friends. He made it so obvious he wanted more and ... (423 words)

My friends chose my ex over me to spend Christmas with

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6173 days ago

25 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - my best friend's have left me and went over my ex's on christmas day!!!! they havent asked me what i was doing all day they dont care anymore... what can i do apart from sit here crying!!!... (37 words)

What could these mixed signals mean??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6174 days ago

25 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Heyy. Im 15. I'm just wondering what this guy i have known since i was little is thinking. Lately i have met up with him for the first time since i was about 4 years old. I am attracted to him and love his personality. When we met up he looked at me a lot, asking me question... (143 words)

What are her intentions? Please help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6174 days ago

25 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm in the military and married my high school sweetheart whom I am more in love with today than I have ever been. We have been together about 7 years and married for almost 4 years. We both cheated when we were "kids" and just dating, but we have moved on and that was merely a ... (421 words)

No contact for 2 months then I get a message; Merry Christmas. I love you. What does this mean?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6134 days ago

25 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I broke up with my bf almost 2 months ago, but he wanted to remain friends...we just basically needed a break, but he slowly lost contact with me and began ignoring me...then he moved in with his new gf...its Christmas and I haven't heard from him in almost a month...but today ... (66 words)

I am in love with my step niece. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

25 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - My step niece and I are very close in a relationship and we are so crazy about each other! I don't know what to do because the families will disown us if they find out. I've never been so happy in my life! Please tell me what I can do it would really mean a lot. If we would ... (68 words)

I love him but.......He is 25 and I am 16.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6175 days ago

25 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Well I was just going by life (like always). But then I went over to my friends house and her aunt's wife had her best friend down from a different town. And well we just always had a connection with one another. But then I didn't come over for a couple of weeks. Then when I ... (191 words)

She won't have any further contact with me after six years. What should I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6172 days ago

25 December 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend of 6 years just left me 5 weeks ago. She was with me all the time right after work and weekends. She seemed fine and same as normal. On saturday night she came over then went to baby sit like she always did now and again. I spoke to her later that night and she ... (340 words)

Should I continue talking to customers outside of work, or will that be considered inappropriate for business purposes?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6174 days ago

25 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I keep attracting older guys, like in their 30's, I'm 17. I work at a family business and get noticed by a few older guys a couple times a month. Sometimes they give me their myspace, phone number, or just...call up the store and have a little conversation with me. I've b... (236 words)

Erotic humiliation...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6174 days ago

25 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I am a dominant female and my boyfriend is very submissive and because of this our relationship works well. I like to dress him up in my underwear and tease him and he quite clearly enjoys this. In fact he enjoys cross dressing completely at home and wears wom... (213 words)

Is she ready to make such a commitment?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6175 days ago

25 December 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Questions I have Im in a serious relationship I love my gf to bits. But I see problems before there coming and she cant seam to see them . My trouble is that her sis lives next door and her mum live 30 seconds away. I think its nice in a way to be honest but there ver... (334 words)

I feel all over the place at the moment and have no idea what to do.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6175 days ago

25 December 2007 (F)

- I feel all over the place at the moment and have no idea what to do. Theres this guy who I have been friends with for about 5 months now and he likes me I think and I like him a lot too...hes really nice, funny, charming, interesting, he respects me and always knows the righ... (306 words)

I don't know if I should I make the first move?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6172 days ago

25 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Heya, the thing is that i have been meeting a guy on and off for about two years. He'd be the guy that id always be able to talk to and have a laugh with. We have both had other relationships in this time aswell. There have been a few times when we could have hooked up for a da... (313 words)

What are the laws on oral sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6174 days ago

25 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, im really confused... i'm 15 and my bf is 17... is it illegal if we have oral sex, as I'm under the age of consent, but he's over it? Thanks!... (31 words)

Should I continue having an affair or be sexually stressed?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6171 days ago

25 December 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been married for 7 years. Both of us are 33. I love my wife a lot and she is very good wife to me. We have two kids. However, our sex life is almost dead. In most cases once in two or three months. I have high sexual derive and sexually stressed for all these seven ... (170 words)

Is this kind of fighting my fault?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6173 days ago

25 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in a loving but emotional rollercoaster of a relationship that can get verbally abusive and extremely hurtful. It's been 3 years and we are both tired of it, recognise the problem, but somehow haven't worked out a way of dealing with it. Let me give you an example that ... (967 words)

I have been seeing a guy in secret...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6175 days ago

25 December 2007 (F) age 30-35 - I am seeing a guy in secret. He is 12 years older than me and i've been with him for 6 months. I really love him and i we have just had sex for the first time. It was my first time i've ever done something like that and now i can't stop thinking about it and i long to do it ... (82 words)

Very confused!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6175 days ago

25 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Is emotional cheating as bad as physical cheating? Here is the issue I am away from my husband as we only communicate via messenger but most of the time we have nothing to say. I met someone who I love to chat with he knows I am married. He is not. We talk about EVERTHIN... (89 words)

Boyfriend lies about watching porn

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6149 days ago

25 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I know that my boyfriend watches porn sometime back. But when I asked whether he still watches, he denied. But I discovered from his browsing history, he still watches on a regular basis, at least once a week. He told me these are pop up sites. But from his browsing history, I ... (84 words)

How do I resist the temptation to cheat?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6174 days ago

25 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - How do i resist the temptation to cheat? I have been with my girlfriend for four years and i have always been faithful but every now and then a very very tempting offer comes up. A couple years ago a gorgeous girl started working with me and we would flirt a lot and she even ... (547 words)

I feel confused because my ex is acting all nice towards me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6020 days ago

25 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Before i went out with my now ex boyfriend we had a very good friendship for about a year. We started dating but it didnt work out. So after a very nasty break up he has chosen to ignore me. Only recently has he started talking to me but flirts outrageously with me when hes ... (118 words)

Why is he telling me about her and is she real??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6175 days ago

25 December 2007 (F) - My ex fiance called me and left me a nasty message saying how his family and friends think I am so heartless for not returning his calls. I broke up with him because he was emotionally abusive and manipulative and told him never to contact me repeatedly. I think it's strange ... (395 words)

Vaginal piercings!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5692 days ago

25 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm 14 and this is weird but i was having a conversation with a close guy friend of mine about piercings and i have had my belly button, nose, tongue and nipple pierced but what i want to get pierced is my clit he says if i did that it would be gross and no guys would want me ... (75 words)

How can I get him to "push my buttons" more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6174 days ago

25 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok i have a bit of a problem i love me b/f but sometimes i swear he has no clue about anything now im not sayin he is stupid but he just knows how to push my buttons and say the wrong things at the wrong time.....how do i drop a hint about how i feel with out being mean and ... (71 words)

I want him to come and visit me to see if he is interested in me, an older woman.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6174 days ago

25 December 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Not long ago I wanted to get away so I booked a cruise. I thought it would be something good to do by myself and get away and think. I enjoyed it. While I was there on the first evening during the get acquainted activities I met a younger man. He was traveling with his family. ... (222 words)

I don't want to be "touchy" with her...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6174 days ago

25 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - ok, me and my girlfriend are both 14. we have been together for 2 month's. and we are in love with echother. we know this from other people telling us. and i like her for who she is. she has had a harder life then most. sexual abuse/living on the street's/bad bad bad relation... (316 words)

Is there any way I can stimulate her to the point of orgasm without actually having sex with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6175 days ago

25 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and soon to be finance Kristin and I are getting married in Dec '08. Well she wants to wait until we are married to have sex (including oral sex). She does become very aroused whenever we kiss and I caress her beautiful body. Is there any way I can stimulate her ... (67 words)

Torn between my two ex's.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6175 days ago

25 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently got back in touch with my ex fiance after 2 years who i think i still love but he has a girl friend and a very interfering family. He says he still loves me an wants me back and he is going to finish his girlfriend. but his family caused loads of trouble last tim... (140 words)

Boy Problems...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

25 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Theres this boy, ive been sort of seeing him for 2 years, and he was madly in love with me back then i was'nt so sure, but now this time we have been together for nearly 5 months and im madly inlove with him, and he has broken up with me? theres absolutely no reason for it, i ... (123 words)

How can we show them it is for real and how can I find out if all he wants is sex??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6175 days ago

25 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok I'm 14 and he's 14 we have been together a lil over 3 months, we met through my ex and he and my ex are really good friend but while i was with my ex he asked me out and at first i didnt know what to do but in the end i broke up with my ex to go with him. I'm so glad i d... (167 words)

Do you think our relationship will work this way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6175 days ago

25 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, I would like to ask you for advice please. Me and my girlfriend are dating each other a year and something. We always had different friends. She hates alcohol thats why she would never hang out with my friends again. Now, she goes dancing pretty often but without ... (207 words)

I am so down and don't know how to pick myself up. Any advice would be appreciated.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6174 days ago

25 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone...Merry Xmas to you all. Hope yours is better than mine. If anybody could offer any help or advice, I would really appreciate it. I am so down and I don't know what to do to pick myself up. I was with my ex boyfriend for 4 years, all the way through uni, and... (480 words)

Please help me and tell me what to do exactly.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6174 days ago

25 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 18 and he is 21. i actually like this guy from 6 years. we were at high school together in year 9 but now we are in a different countries cuz i moves to USA but he is still in my home country. he is doing his bachelors and so am i. i liked him but i never told him about it ... (380 words)