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writes:Ok lets start out with this i'm 17 so is my boyfriend and he's so sweet but has ADHD and he gets on my nerves alot but ya o well I love him alot but he really not my first love if you know what I mean my ex ( first love ) came to my window crying last night and he lives 2 hours away from me but his mom want him to move back and his mom is my neighbor so he was crying barely getting out any words that he really wanted to say but when I calmed him he said that he loved me and always have and he wants me back so bad thts its killing him and he tried to have someone else but it didn't feel the same....ok well let me give you a lil back round check on me and him we were together all of our baby up to like teen years ok we went out for lol if you count when we were lil bout 4 years but when we knew wat going out really meant it was 2 years but ya I gave my heart to him and he still has half but my boyfriend now has the other half...so my ex and I broke up not because we didn't get along or anything but he had to move in wit his dad but we kept in touch like everyday an dfinally decided that a long distance relationship wasn't right so we broke up and now he wanted me back and I don't know wat to do cause I love both of them and my ex said he was going to come back for the answer friday and THATS TOMORROW so please help soon!!!!
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reader, Fairy_Lu  +, writes (13 December 2007):
 Well you do have to choose so who do you see a future with who do you think about most who gives you butterflies in your stomach when you kiss/touch/see him? If you know that then you know who to choose
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reader, Blue_Angel0316 +, writes (13 December 2007):
 You have to be strong enough to choose. Ultimately you are going to break someone's heart. If your ex is crying then he is very emotional. You must weight your love for him against you new love. You must think about what is best for you in the end. If you present bf is getting on your nerves you must figure out if you can deal with this long term. What do you have to loose or gain when you choose either? The choice is yours and you must make it.
When you take the time to think about the relationship that you have had with both of the guys you hopefully can come to a decision. Sometimes there is no real answer but to that of the heart. Seek carefully and pray for the best.
God bless you and give you the strength to choose wisely.
Godspeed.
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