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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My ex sended me a text saying he loves me but when asking him about it he told me to forget it, what is going on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6205 days ago

26 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - my ex boyfriend sent me a message tellin me he loves me with all his heart and i love him so so much too its just when i asked him about it he told me to forget it. is it because he is afraid i will say no or just because he thought it was a mistake and i dont want to ask him ... (79 words)

I will see my crush on new year's eve and I'm thinking of pulling him aside and ask him how he feels about me, it's just that I don't know how to ask?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6204 days ago

26 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, Several times now, I've written to you asking for help concerning my crush, Ethan. Well, I've found myself needing advice about him yet again, and I thought that maybe someone here could help me out, as they have done brilliantly in the past. On New Year's... (258 words)

Me and my neice are in love and I don't know what to do, would it be ok to date her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6203 days ago

26 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - me and my neice are in love and i dont know what to do shes alot younger than me. i look after her quite alot and she flirts with me alot and on purpose does things so i get glimpses of her body by bending over infront of me so i can see down her top or sitting in a way so i ... (116 words)

I found out my bf has another gf since 2 years and now I'm all confused, what shall I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6205 days ago

26 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i really dont know what to do.. i suppose you could call me a total bitch an slut for what i'm doing, and i am actually starting to feel like one...but im worried. I've been seeing a guy who already has a girlfriend. I have done for 3 months now, but i only found out he had... (251 words)

I've told my bf I'm not ready to have sex yet, but he keeps texting me sex related texts. When I confront him he says he is only joking, what do you think?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6205 days ago

26 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - im 14 and i have a boyfriend who is turning 15 in two months yesterday i was text messaging with him and me asked if i had ever had sex, i said no. He asked me if i would like to have sex with him, i was shoked and alarmed, i picked up my phone and called him to see what the... (146 words)

I'm on the pill but afraid I might have gotten pregnant anyway, what do you think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6203 days ago

26 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am asking my question again to see if I may please get some more responses. I am on the pill and have been for a few years now. I have been having sex without condoms with my boyfriend. I am having spotting which has gone from light pink to brown off and on for a couple of ... (107 words)

I'm ready to give my bf a handjob but I'm scared I don't know how, please help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6074 days ago

26 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been with my boyfriend for 3 weeks and i am ready to do stuff. thing is i have never givern a handjob or blowjob - even tho he thinks i have! my friends say its fine, but readin some of the questions and answers on here have really made me nervous. i cant ask him how he ... (103 words)

My bother in law is getting married abroad this year and only thinking about going there makes me cry. I suffer from agoraphobia and I feel like an outsider in his family, how do I live through this??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6204 days ago

26 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My husbands brother has announced he will be getting married abroad later this year, and naturally we will all be expected to go. It will be two weeks with my husbands family which is going to be really hard. I am very different in every way to them and I have always felt like ... (194 words)

I'm so messed up over this guy screwing with my head! I don't know how to handle this pain, how do I move on from him and start controlling my emotions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6205 days ago

26 December 2007 (?) age 30-35 - I'm 18, in love, and f***ed up to be honest. I'm not very good at controlling my emotions or sorting out my life and I really need to. I like this guy but we're not even going to go there anymore because he's screwing with my head but i think i love him, and im trying ... (215 words)

My bf suddenly dumped me after 4 months and I'm afraid it is because I suffer from acne? How do I get my self confidence back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6205 days ago

26 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - iv been going out with a guy for 4 months and he suddenly dumped. the thing is i suffer Acne do u think this is the case and how i get my self confidence back! x... (36 words)

His ex came back on scene and he dumped me and now I feel dirty for having given him a blowjob, what shall I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6205 days ago

26 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi im 14 years old and have been going out with a guy for about 4 months. He used to really like me and i didnt like him that much but grew to love him. we had been going out secretly at school so no one knew about it because of his race. i know it sounds horrible but i would ... (106 words)

My gf loves handjob me and she likes me touching her, but she never shows me anything, why?

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26 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - well me and my gf been going out for about 5 month and she always love going down on me and handjob me but she like me touching her but she never show me nothink im not to worried about it just wondering why this is.... (46 words)

Since my thrush cleared up I don't get wet anymore...any ideas why? I don't want my boyfriend to think I'm cheating or don't fancy him anymore.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6205 days ago

26 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been with my boyfriend for nearly 10 monthes, and between september and november i had thrush but now i know the cause of this it was from perfumed soap, but it has cleared up now... anyway since it has cleared up everytime i have sex with my boyfriend i dont get wet ... (100 words)

I dumped my new boyfriend when my ex who I still loved told me he wanted to be with me again. He then immediately dumped me again and now I'm all alone and miserable and can't get him out of my head! Please help, what do I do??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6096 days ago

26 December 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - well i know people say that i'm to young to be thinking about love but i don't think age matters cause you cant help loving some-one can you ? ok so i was going out with a boy since october 22nd , and then he dumped me for another girl a lil while back , and i went out with ... (436 words)

When coming home early from a hunting trip I found a used condom on our bedside table! Should I confront her? And what about the extraordinarily amount of semen, does that mean she has a much younger lover?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6205 days ago

26 December 2007 (M)

age - My wife and I are in our 50's in age. To my knowledge there has not been any extramarital encounters that I have been aware of and no reasons to think otherwise until recently. My wife works late night shifts and I arrived home early one morning after a short hunting tr... (400 words)

I've been in a relationship with my cousin for the past 4 months but now her family is getting argumentative about it, what shall we do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6204 days ago

26 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been in a relationship with my cousin for the past 4 Months'. We're very happy together. But her family is getting very argumentative about it now. I was just wondering if anyone can advise me on what I should do?... (41 words)

My boyfriend has been logging on to chatlines giving them his phonenumber to share sexual text and pic messages, what shall I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6066 days ago

26 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend and i have been together for almost a year,the last three months we have been having a lot of problems. he has been logging on to chatlines giving these females his phone number and then they share sexual text and pic messages back and forth i don't know what to do ... (55 words)

He says he loves me, do you think he likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6205 days ago

26 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 13 year old girl and this boy who is in my class flirts with me. My friends(including me) and pple I know think he likes me. He has said I am pretty and he has called me baby. He has even hugged me and put his arm around me. He says he loves me? When he says that it makes ... (95 words)

Can I increase my willpower against temptations so that I can keep a diet?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6205 days ago

26 December 2007 (?) age 30-35 - Before I start, can I please ask not to have a load of scientific cobblers about willpower not existing. I am 14, and I have always been paranoid about my weight, and according to BMI tests, I am not overweight, but almost in danger of becoming so. I do NOT have a lot of su... (202 words)

I met a guy I like, but things got in the way for us to meet up again, now I'm wondering where to go from here??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6205 days ago

26 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - last Monday, i met this really cute guy in a nightclub. we hanged out most of the night and his other friend had hit on my female friend. we had lots in common and he was really polite and asked if he could but his arm round me, in which i let him. i got the impression he was ... (315 words)

I'm confused about my girlfriend's behaviour, first she seemed like she didn't care anymore, then suddenly she wanted to move in together. How do I know this is the right thing to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6204 days ago

26 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm kinda delicate now so go easy... My girlfriend and I have been going out for three years last September, and even before that we had been friends for about six years. She went away to University when we had been going out for two years and even though things were hard to ... (550 words)

I'm 11 and worried about my first kiss, how should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6204 days ago

26 December 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - im 11 and worried about my first kiss and what should i do please answer me ... (19 words)

How do you have sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6205 days ago

26 December 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - how do u have sex?... (5 words)

He knows how important the holidays are for me, yet he chose to go on a trip with his friends and leave me behind, what shall I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6205 days ago

26 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i have been dating this guy for 3 month he claims he is madly in love with me and would do anything for me but he wants to go with his friends to another country for the holiday and leave me here. Even though he knows how important the holidays are to me.... (53 words)

My friend likes me and follows me around everywhere, but I don't like him like that, how do I turn him down without hurting his feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6204 days ago

26 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend has liked me for two years, but I REALLY don't like him. He follows me everywhere, sits next to me when possible, and always talks to me about sexual things. I liked him for a little while in 8th grade, but that was 2 years ago. Now, he's just annoying. One of hi... (118 words)

I'm 14 but I feel very old. Yet I get considered a kid by everybody so why do I feel like an old foggie then??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6203 days ago

26 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i am 14 and i feel like i am very old yet i get considered a baby by my parents and a kid to others mainly because i am the youngest in my house why do i feel like a old foggie am i old?... (45 words)

I'm confused here, is he only joking around with me, or is he serious?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6205 days ago

26 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Well there is this boy that lives right across the dirt road from me and he is outside almost everyday and his sister is my best friend so i have been inside her house alot ans stayed the night a few nights. I really like him but my problem is i dont know if he likes me. his ... (307 words)

My boyfriend is going on a trip to Florida and didn't invite me to come. I'm thinking of maybe breaking up with him, but I'm scared to make a mistake then??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6204 days ago

26 December 2007 (F) - my boyfriend is going away to florida for a week with his friend who is turning 21. They're going to stay at his other friend's apartment when they get there. We've been together for three months now and i do love him a lot but i don't think it's right that he's going to ... (188 words)

I've never had a boyfriend and I'm really shy, how do I approach the guy I like?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6204 days ago

26 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I've never had a bf and I'll be 16 in 2 months. There's this guy I like but i'm really shy. How do I get him to like me? I don't want to hear "Be yourself" or "They'll come when you least expect it." ... (44 words)

How to control an obsession and depression due to a forbidden love? Does any one understand what I feel?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6203 days ago

26 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am married, total time together 10 years. We have a beautiful and sweet 9 months old daughter. Unfortunately, right after stoping the pills to get pregnant I fell madly in love with a younger guy from work, it was 2 years ago. We never touched. For a while he felt something ... (503 words)

I think I may be pregnant, could the Pill do harm??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6205 days ago

26 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I might be pregnant, which isn't a bad thing. But the baby could have been convieved several weeks ago, and I just now realized that I could possible be pregnant... So here comes the issue. I have been taking birthcontrol for several years...if I was taking it after the bab... (62 words)

I need a more toned tummy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6205 days ago

26 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hiya im 16 and weigh between 9-9 n half stone. I used to weigh about 8 n half a year ago. Now my back has always seemed to arche in further than others and so my stomach sticks out but for about 6 months ive really been noticing it n its really getting to me. Have any of you ... (112 words)

I love him but he loves his ex, do I wait for him to get over her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6166 days ago

26 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost 8 months now. Having been out of the dating scene for 9 years and being a mother this time around, seems to complicate things a bit. My real question at this time hinges on the fact that he is still not over his ex. ... (214 words)

I'm 11 and my period has been very heavy, should I be worried?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6205 days ago

26 December 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 11 and I got my period October 10. It skipped in the beginning of November and my mum said it's normal. Then, I got it right on Thanksgiving! For December, I got right on Christmas! Weird! I think their's something wrong though, because last night, I put on 2 maxi pads b4 ... (126 words)

I'm in love with my female best friend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6204 days ago

26 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I have just come off a long term relationship and quickly after the break up i got a new girlfriend. Every Xmas Eve, me and a selection of close friends spend Xmas Eve together eating Chinese takeaway watching a movie. The new girlfriend came along and got on great with ... (256 words)

He says my weight puts him off

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6205 days ago

26 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a relationship for almost a year with a wonderful man that I have known since high school. We lost touch and then found each other again. When we met up again, we fell in love. It has been wonderful, but lately I have been unhappy. I have gained 20 pounds ... (233 words)

My husband spent the whole night out and didn't tell me, and doesn't see this as a problem!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6204 days ago

26 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am so mad at my husband and I am almost ready to call it quits. I would really appreciate some opinions on my situation. On Christmas Eve our neighbors were having a party. We were not invited and had no intentions on going as they are new neighbors and we don't even know ... (731 words)

I'm sleeping with my housemate behind my boyfriends back...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6203 days ago

26 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 25, nad have been with my bf for 5 years, known him for 7.hes gone away for 4 months abroad,and i've been living with a male housemate. the thing is that i am sleeping with him and havent told my bf. my housemate wants to marry me, and said he loves me etc. the problem is... (168 words)

Would it work, me and my sister living together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6205 days ago

26 December 2007 (M)

age - my sister and i would like to know what harm it would do to our personalities if we lived together and had children. cricisms of su ch relationships usualy are in terms of law,custom, or genetics. but these seem distant from how we will treat each other and other people... (52 words)

I would like men's opinions on his behaviour

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6205 days ago

26 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - OK im writing this where i can get as much help from any men as possible. I recently started seeing this guy who i really liked. then i few weeks ago hes mate asked if i could take him somewhere then drop him back at his house, which i did i also went in in which nothing ... (224 words)

My army boyfriend has found someone else and I;m heartbroken

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6205 days ago

26 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hey everyone and merry xmas hopeit wasa good one.. unfortunatly i spent most of mine crying.. i recently wrote my ex boyfriend a letter (as he is in the army) tellin him i love him and would love to try again (3rd time round.) i first met him nearly 2 year ago and we were ... (274 words)

My husband makes me feel useless and bullies me, I had a horrible Christmas

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6205 days ago

26 December 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Yesterday (Xmas Day) I spent alone with my husband - we had decided to avoid family pressures and have a quiet time. My husband woke in a terrible mood and this did not improve all morning despite the lovely breakfast I prepared and I gave thoughtful presents. After a walk in ... (281 words)

I don't want to lose him, please help me !!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6205 days ago

26 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 18 and he is 21. i actually like this guy from 6 years. we were at high school together in year 9 but now we are in a different countries cuz i moves to USA but he is still in my home country. he is doing his bachelors and so am i. i liked him but i never told him about it ... (378 words)

My relationship with my daughter is strained because of her boyfriendf, and he ruined my Christmas. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6205 days ago

26 December 2007 (F)

age - Hello and Happy Holidays to All, I have a very heavy heart at this time, due to my daughter and her so called boyfriend. On Christmas eve they were at my house along with my son and his girlfriend, and they both have 1yr old boys, my grandsons are the love of my life. Anyways ... (281 words)

We are physically close, but not emotionally, how do we change that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6205 days ago

26 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - we have been in a relationship for 4 months and we are not comfortable. we just dont share personal stuff and even if i try to ask he changes the topic and he never even asks me anything personal maybe its due to lack of communication but we are not emotionnaly close. i dont ... (67 words)

We've been trying for a baby for 4 months an nothing...!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6202 days ago

26 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend have been trying for a baby for 4months now and nothing seems to be happening and i am beginning to get worried....am i over reacting a bit, and is there anything i can do to improve our chances..help please.... (43 words)

I have been with him 7 years but he's abusive and hurtful to me and my children

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6205 days ago

26 December 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - hello i have been with my partner for 7 years and it can be good at times but mostly it is argumentive he has a drink prob and always thinks he is right he is always picking fault with my children from my previous marriage and is very abusive and hurtful to me at times i am ... (135 words)

I am on the pill but have noticed spotting and strange discharge, what does it mean??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6205 days ago

26 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay.........I am on the pill I will say just to start off. On Saturday, I noticed that I had some slight spotting. Now, I have a light brown discharge. Do you have any idea what this could be?? There is NOT a foul smell or any other problems. ... (51 words)

I think I still love my ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6090 days ago

26 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I think i love my ex boyfriend. I have always talked to him ever since we broke up a year ago and we still have a close bond. I no he still loves me, and we may just be kids but we did really love eachother. It took me most of this year to get over him but now my feelings for ... (102 words)

We're friends but very different, he wants a relationship, do I go for it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6205 days ago

26 December 2007 (F)

- I have a friend who I like alot (we are both 19) and I know he likes me too, but Im not sure if its worth giving us a go. The reason I think it may not be is because we are soooooooo different. He is a very out going, flirty, sociable person, who loves to drink, party and go c... (326 words)

His ex text him saying she missed him on Christmas Dayt, they've been split up for a year, what does it mean?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6205 days ago

26 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together a year and he broke up with his ex a year and 3 months ago. She never really accepted that he moved on, and even up until 2 months ago she was causing upset in our relationship. I've just seen a text on his phone saying she reall... (120 words)

I have feelings for 2 guys

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6205 days ago

26 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been seeing a guy for ten months now. Hes amazing. Hes always taking care of me and i know he really really loves me and does not want to ever lose me. However, i started to date him insted of another guy at the begining of the relationship. I basicly chose him over t... (367 words)

She wants me to be more touchy feely, but I don't want to offend her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6205 days ago

26 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, me and my girl friend are both 14 year's old. im 15 in april. im not looking forward to it. we are in love, i know this for a fact. you can tell me we are not go ahead it wont do eny good. im not trieing to sound rude. but my problem is touchynes, im not being touchy a... (240 words)

What is sticking sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6204 days ago

26 December 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - plz tel me what is the sticking sex...? or meaning of sticking sex....?... (13 words)

He's given me an ultimatum or he won't marry me, stay or go??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6205 days ago

26 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in a deep predicament. A few hours ago my boyfriend of 3 years talked ( there are a lot of underlying issues in our relationship at the moment) and a lot of things came out. After hours of discussion what evolved was basically an ultimatum, or sorts. He says that I ne... (445 words)

The guy I'm dating doesn't want children, but I do. Should we stay together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6198 days ago

26 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 20 and my boyfriend is 21 years old and we have been dating for about a year now. We fell in love quickly and have casually discussed marrying once we both finish school, but are both aware it is not in the immediate future. We agree on most things, except he is positive ... (144 words)

Help me get over my ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6204 days ago

26 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and this person broke up about two weeks ago and I can't get over them. I have talked to one of my friends about it but it makes me feel worse. I really need to know how to get over that person.... (43 words)

What can I do when all hope is gone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6205 days ago

26 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i was an a relationship for five years almost we recently had our baby girl 4 months ago he left this december saying he was living because of my attitude we talked after and told me we can be together in the future but know he cant i feel so stress out and heartbroken what do ... (61 words)

I am dating my step neice but scared about our family finding out

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6139 days ago

26 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - my step niece and i are very close in a relationship and we are so crazy about each other! i don't know what to do either because they will disown us if they find out. i've never been so happy in my life! what should I do?... (47 words)

Stuck in a love triangle...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5999 days ago

26 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so im 13 and well my friend and i like the same guy so he wants to date me but my frined is the guy i like best friend. and she syas that i shouldn't date him because if we break up he would hate me and so will she and i dont want to loose them so please help!!! Dulce... (67 words)

He said he doesn't like me but has been sending me mixed signals, how do I take it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6202 days ago

26 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Theres this boy who i like. I had my friend ask him if he liked me and he said he didn't.And i excepted that. But recently he's been kinda sending mixed signals. Every time we talk he looks straight into my eyes. And every so often i see him looking at me. And sometimes I can ... (196 words)

I have feelings for my friend, should I ignore them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6203 days ago

26 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - So im friends with this lad,we have been for about a year now.We are really close and i would class him as one of my best friends.The thing is i have started to fall for him.I cant get him out of my mind and really wish we could be together.One of my fiends told him how i felt ... (113 words)

My ex text to say Merry Christmas, does this mean she is still interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6205 days ago

26 December 2007 (M)

- I haven't really been in touch w/ my ex gf, in the last 6 mos..however, recently, we've been running into each other alot.....so, today, she sent me a text out of the blue wishing me a merry x-mas...question: why? i know why, but why? i wouldn't have sent her a text, because ... (105 words)