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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I look after my parents and can't move to my bf..what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6219 days ago

8 December 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello I am 38 years old and still live with my parents as i cant afford anything else, and as i am an only child and with no family close by i am my parents carer. The problem is that i have met somebody who lives a round trip of 100 miles away, my boyfriend has asked me to ... (161 words)

Should I not have asked my ex to forget me, since he can't accept the break up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6222 days ago

8 December 2007 (F) - I told my ex to forget me because he won't accept the breakup, and he says he can't bring himself to do it. But, then again, I don't want him to completely forget me. He still loves me and I love him, I just broke up with him because I wanted him to change into a person who ... (141 words)

My ex seems to expect me to simply be her friend after all the hurt she's caused me... But her Father died today. Now I have the chance to be a friend, but I'm worried that I may hurt myself. What can I do?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 6204 days ago

8 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I posted a question earlier today, but there has been a serious and tragic twist since this morning. My girlfriend broke up with me almost 6 months ago after she decided our long distance (240 miles) relationship was too much to bear with. We were together fo... (625 words)

Her period is late! And I 'm concerned...advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6222 days ago

8 December 2007 (M) age 30-35 - I just started having protected sex with my girlfriend and we use a condom She was due on her period on tuesday ish and she still isn't on. what is going on? is it anything to do with sex? I mean its protected and everything but could she be pregnant :S I'm only 16... (60 words)

Is there ONE quality that prevents you from ever going out with that person?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6222 days ago

8 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm curious: males: Have you ever liked a girl, and to you, it seemed like you had alll the qualities the girl wants in a guy (humor, personality, friendliness, etc). But you always wondered, why won't that girl go out with you? or What do the other guys have th... (487 words)

Will he always put me 'after' his Mom and sister...am I to be the last place gf?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6222 days ago

8 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriends sister is coming to visit in two weeks. When we were discussing where she was going to sleep he said in our bed. He does not want his sister to sleep in the guest room because he doesn't want his sister to have to sleep in there. He stated that she will sleep in ... (172 words)

How can I approach him and tell/show him how I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6222 days ago

8 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 15 years old girl and I like this guy who just turned 17 and I just know he likes me back. Although he never said so. We went on a sort of 'date' one time and well no kissing or so (although I wanted it)we just had a good time. And on a trip with school we hugged made som... (155 words)

I'm insecure about my breasts..should I tell my bf?

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8 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i have an insecurity about my breasts and my boyfriend wants to know what it is, but i don't want to tell him because im afraid he will think less of me or think im wierd because of it. should i tell him or not?... (45 words)

Trapped by this feeling that I'm disgusting to women. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6222 days ago

8 December 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I feel so bad about sex and intimacy that I haven’t so much as kissed a girl in 3 years. My only sexual experience was 5 years ago and was really bad. She didn't seem to "hot" and I just couldn't do it, lost my erection and it was over and she left. A few days later she told me ... (186 words)

Is it possible to love someone unconditionally?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6222 days ago

8 December 2007 (F) - Is it possible to love someone unconditionally? My ex says that he loves me unconditionally no matter what I say or do. I broke up with him since he was emotionally abusive, but I still love him. He says he is willing to put up with me complaining about all the hurt he has ... (97 words)

How do I get him to be more physical? Any tips?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6220 days ago

8 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hey! ive been going out with this guy for about two months and we havent really become physicaly close. i mean we're only 13 so im not looking for full on sex just a cuddle or kiss. hes given me a peck on the cheeck once but were going to the cinema and i was wonderin... (120 words)

What can I do to show him I've moved on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6221 days ago

8 December 2007 (?) age 41-50 - Do men like to see their ex girlfriends in pain after dumping them. I found out he cheated when I was pregnant he dumped me and stayed with the girl then broke up with her and tried to win me back. When unsuccesful he went back to her and she took him in with open arms. Now he ... (558 words)

Does a mistress respect a man who leaves his family, for her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6218 days ago

8 December 2007 (?) age 41-50 - I have heard of some women dating men who are not available. How does a woman feel if that man left his wife and kids for them. Do they respect that man and does the relationship usually work out?... (39 words)

He left me and the kids for another woman..will he ever see what a mistake he made?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6214 days ago

8 December 2007 (?) age 41-50 - Just want to know the art of love and seperation. Is there a grieving process for the guy who left the relationship as I know that the one who has been dumped goes through many emotions associated with loss. Do you believe in karma? what goes around comes around. my ex is... (164 words)

Breaking up gently...dettaching...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6223 days ago

8 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been dating a guy for about two weeks, and during those two weeks we've seen each other basically everyday. At first I thought it was great, I thought this is what I needed, someone to share my life with. But lately, I've realized that perhaps I'm better off alone. I ... (191 words)

He says he misses eating with me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6223 days ago

8 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex and I broke up three months ago but have kept in contact. He called me while I was away on a holiday last month and after I got back. He said he missed cooking for me and eating with me? Whatever does that mean? ... (46 words)

After loosing virginity, I don't think of sex much.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6153 days ago

8 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright, I'm wondering why I haven't felt so eager about sex and whatnot recently... A few weeks back I lost my virginity, and since then I've been sexually active with another girl too. The thing is though, before I lost my virginity I thought about girls and sex all the ti... (146 words)

Is my new best friend in love with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6219 days ago

8 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - me and a guy have just became best friends, im 17 and so is he but i dont know weather he is bi or straight, he has a g.f but is he attracted to me? i like him but i dont know if he likes me back i think he does because lately he has started: flirting with me kiss... (169 words)

It feels like I'm being stuck in the middle all over again.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6221 days ago

8 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - i have recently broke up with my boyfriend and ive become really good friends with his best friend, he has also just broke up with someone so he can understand what i am going through but i KNOW i have fallen for him, he has just got together with someone and they basically ... (429 words)

My friend drives me crazy! She copies me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6223 days ago

8 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend is always telling me what shes doing and I really don't want to know. She is always acting very immature. Its Like I tell her something I want to do and then she goes and does it. Like for instance I said I was redoing my room, well she redid her room. Whenever I go ... (81 words)

Can't stop thinking about him...should I text him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5949 days ago

8 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i was only been with this guy for 3 weeks then we split up,but i cant stop thinking about him,even tho ive not heard anything from him him since we split i really want to text him,is this a good idea or not?... (43 words)

Does she need time/space or is it over for good? What do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6223 days ago

8 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and my ex have been together, on and off for over two years, but the last eight months we were solid, truly in love and best friends. This was both our first proper relationship. We both became unhappy that I might be moving soon and may have to break up and also in time, we ... (356 words)

I found sexually explicit messages on my young brother's phone. Do I tell my parents, or talk to him firstly?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6220 days ago

8 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently found some sexually explicit messages on my younger brothers phone not only from him by a number of girls some even younger than him. I am really worried about his emotional and physical state as he has been really agressive lately. Is this linked? What should i do, ... (62 words)

To boys: are you afraid of being turned down by a very pretty girl, therefore prefer someone "in your league" ?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6222 days ago

8 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Guys please help me. Is it true that some guys are scared of being knocked down by a very pretty girl and that you go for someone who is slightly more in your 'league' ?? I have friends who are told they are pretty the whole time and are not shy but the girls who are le... (109 words)

I feel invisible and just don't know how to start talking to women! Advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6222 days ago

8 December 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - ok so here goes, im a 24 yr old male who since his last gf nearly 4 yrs has not been with a female and i suffer such low confidence that its a vicious circle of telling myself im not good enough and nobody will want me. I feel invisible and just dont know how to start talking ... (78 words)

Best friends but...will we ever fall in love?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6123 days ago

8 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - there is a guy whom i love like mad...he really cares for me..but he says love is too complicated for him...n says i'll b his best friend forever...do you think that he will fall in love with me some day...... (40 words)

There was a lot of nastiness on both sides, but I would like to stay friends with my ex. Can anyone see a way forward?

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8 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I broke up with my boyfriend of eight months two months ago. There was a lot of nastiness on both sides. I have tried apologising to him for my part in this (I had to do this via text because he would not answer the phone) but he has so far not replied. I have seen him in the ... (101 words)

We had great holiday sex but havent since we came back...any advice??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6223 days ago

8 December 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Ok, here is my problem, me and my boyfriend have a great and varied sex life. We went on holiday recently and had sex twice everyday which was great. He told me it was more sex than he had ever had throughout his marriage. This was a major compliment for me, he also told me ... (128 words)

My ex's mixed signals are driving me insane.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6221 days ago

8 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Basically my ex broke up with me 3 months ago. We were together for 2 years and i'd been madly in love with her for a year before we got together, when we finally did everything was amazing and she was in love with me just as much as i was with her. But when she moved away to ... (307 words)

How often should I change my pad?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6222 days ago

8 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I just got my first period 3 days ago i was wondering how often should i change my pad?... (19 words)

I want to, and at the same time don't want to be with my ex, because of his inappropriate/harassing behaviour. What do I do?

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8 December 2007 (F) - Last night I told my ex that kept harassing me about going skiing with him today not to pick me up, that it was over, and not to contact me. He texted me back saying "ok, no problem, I already had someone else who wanted to go anyways, just figured I'd ask you." He does this ... (348 words)

Am I staying with him because I'm afraid to move on.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6223 days ago

8 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - hi everyone, please can you give me some much needed advice im 32 years old married with 3 young children. i met my husband 14 years ago weve been married for 10 years. i fell for my husband because he was a good looking guy and played hard to get he hurt me loads when we first ... (335 words)

I can't just drop my ex...how can I go and see him without my bf getting in a mood??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6223 days ago

8 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am still good friends with my previous boyfriend who I was with for a year. He has some personal issues such as depression, and as one of the few people that he really trusts, I like him to know that I'm there for him. However, my new boyfriend who I love and am living w... (200 words)

I just want to be a better girlfriend....any ideas?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6221 days ago

8 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help. I am 18. I have trust issues i think. My boyfriend and i have been together for 2 years now and we love each other so much and all the rest, we are with each other all the time. Around about the 1 year mark, i just changed. After we'd been together for a while. I... (613 words)

I don't feel like I have done anything wrong...so why should I apologise??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6223 days ago

8 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I was seeing this guy on and off for 3 years. It ended badly with me never wanting to see him again. He kept trying to start things up again and I gave in about 3 months ago. Things were great, we have been dating and having a great time. I finally thought we'd got over all... (208 words)

How much can she love me if she is still cheating and keeping these friendships which hurt me inside??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6216 days ago

8 December 2007 (M)

age - My wife maintains mostly men as friends. They are mostly coworkers. She also had sexual affairs with some of them. Her frienships with these guys make me very uncomfotable, and she knows it. I have asked her a few times to cool down those male friendships. She still keeps a ... (376 words)

My nipples face in the opposite direction? Is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6223 days ago

8 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My nipples face in opposite directions and im really worried that my boyfriend will think im wierd if he sees them. Is it normal, please help me!... (27 words)

I caught him flirting online....but hes apologised and deleted his accounts...should I forgive him??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6223 days ago

8 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been going out with my boyfriend for about year and a half. I recently caught him flrting with girls online, he said he was sorry and did not know why he did it, he said he was really stupid because he did not gain anything from it, and he deleted his online account and ... (83 words)

How can I get other people to listern to my worries??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6219 days ago

8 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I really have feeling im comunicating with my comp.or books..Its not that im not trying to do it with people,i have much aquantiances and friends but every time I want to express my feelings thoughts or whatever,im put in the position of listening other people concerns,and ... (116 words)

All of a sudden I'm obsessed with my age, mortality and grey hairs. Is this normal for a guy my age?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6216 days ago

8 December 2007 (M)

- Do you think its possible to be having a midlife crisis at 34??? All of a sudden Im obsessed with my age, mortality and grey hairs... Is this normal for a guy my age?... (38 words)

My ex keeps trying to be my friend but she broke my heart...what do I do??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6223 days ago

8 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - What am I suppose to do? My ex just can't seem to leave me alone! She broke up with me almost 6 months ago after she decided our long distance (240 miles) relationship was too much to bear with. We were together for 2 years. Over the past 6 months, I have had to endure one of t... (527 words)

Why is he talking to me with his wife so close...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6220 days ago

8 December 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Met this guy a little over a year ago, became friends, then lovers about 4 months ago. He said if he got feelings he would cut them off. I never asked anything of him as we are both married. Never said love but both say there are emotions involved. At 1st he did everything to ... (165 words)

I don't want to be known for grass.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6215 days ago

8 December 2007 (F)

- My ex finished with me for someone else a month ago and has hurt me so much. I cant describe how it feels but my whole life has turned upside down. I love him so much and cant stop myself. The thing is, in the last few months of our relationship he began to deal drugs. Now Im ... (113 words)

He thinks I don't trust him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6223 days ago

8 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i recently asked amother question about my boyfriend being a rent boy , you see the thing is that ive been reading his texts and he now knows that i have and he thinks i dont trust him what do i do ???... (43 words)

How do I stop thinking about my ex's cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5938 days ago

8 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex boyfriend cheated on me with different girls all through our two and half years together. We broke up nearly three months ago, but I still can't seem to stop thinking about his cheating- and I desperately want to! Can anyone help me stop thinking about this?... (48 words)

I want to give him another chance

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

8 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - my bf and i broke up(long distance of 300 miles he 20 been together 4 months knew each other for another 8), we both found it very hard and he said he wants to be friends but a day later he asked me back out again i told him i dont think now is that right time and that maybe we ... (236 words)

Getting along great, then nothing.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6223 days ago

8 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I met a guy about a month ago, we'll call him Jamies. We really hit it off, laughing, joking, flirting, evreything. So we swapped numbers and chatted back and forth for ages. Found we had loads in common - we both work in the same type of job, hence how we ended up meeting ... (131 words)

A present that suggests eternity for my boyfriend. Any suggestions?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6223 days ago

8 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay well as you all know, Its almost Christmas. And i have to get my Boyfriend a preset, very soon. But i have no idea what to get him. We're both Fifteen. So we're still in highschool, so i dont have that much money. So it can't be that expensive. I could easily get him some... (136 words)

How can I get the "NEW LOVE" feelings back?

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8 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband seems uninterrested in me...I've tried the love notes,cookin' his fav.meal,showering w/him,going on dates...etc. How can I get the "NEW LOVE" feelings back? ... (24 words)

I gave my phone number to an on line acquaintance, he initially said he was 18, then admitted to be much older and asked for a date in matter of days. Should I keep this "friendship" ?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6223 days ago

8 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so we were chatting in a chatroom and I am right now fifteen. I ended up giving out my phone number to this guy who said who was eighteen. We did have good conversations for a while and then today he admitted that he's actually 25!!! And he says he likes me... (221 words)

Need advise in my long term relationship.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6077 days ago

8 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - ok ive been with this guy for almost 3 in half years. we have been together ever since we we're young. i havent had a normal teenage life. ive never been able to go out and party with my friends or even hang out with any of them. he doesnt likeme going on the computer cuz he ... (218 words)

I'm getting married and worried about my figure

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6223 days ago

8 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i m 23 years old.my hight is 5'.3" n my weight is 45 kg.i m slim smart girl.i m going to get married but i m woorried about my figure...........acctually i hav small brest,my bra size is 32,i hav to use paded bra 34.i m worried will my husband like m figure with small brest?is ... (110 words)

My-bf and his friend have seen escorts while we were broken up. I am determined to stop our relationship. Any advice?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6223 days ago

8 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Well I feel unbelievably jaded right now. My boyfriend and I had broken up. I broke up with him for GOOD reason. And no he hadn't cheated on me. YET. Anyways we got back together about two and half months after breaking up. Two days later I found out he and a friend had seen ... (545 words)

My husband is a deployed military, I need his economical support, he didn't help me. Too proud to ask specifically. Are American men like this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6182 days ago

8 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello Dear Friends, Let me tell you a little bit of my situation. In the month of June I got married to a military (USAF) I am Mexican and he is American, in the month of August he was deployed to Korea, I came back to Mexico were I was living before I married him, I h... (331 words)

How can I minimize damage? I had a friend forge my mom's signature about a grade slip.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6223 days ago

8 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I had a friend forge my mom's signature about 7 months ago. She just found out about it. I'm not sure how. Anyway, It was a signature on a grade slip (which doesent matter anyway because they can check grades online any time). And I didn't even turn in the fake signature f... (84 words)

I've asked her a thousand times if she has cheated on me and she denies it, however I still have suspicions. Any way to monitor her online and other activities?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6223 days ago

8 December 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I met my girlfriend online. She lives about 3 states away from me. I suspect that she is cheating on me. We onl get to talk by emails, chat rooms, etc. and she isnt comfortable about her giving me her number. Whenever she does get on, its already night time. Shes christian and ... (143 words)

Fallen for a girl I work with.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6223 days ago

8 December 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I have totally fallen in love with a girl that I work with. She is everything that I could ever want and is the person I have been hoping to meet all of my life. Of that there is absolutely no doubt in my mind. I know this because we sit opposite each other and have spent a lot ... (414 words)

What to do with emotional black mail

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8 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 19 - and have just broken up from a one year relationship - I'm glad to be out of it but now am developing feelings for another guy. But I'm still haunted by what happened between me and my ex, I have lost alot of weight because I feel sick all the time, and find i... (440 words)

I always do what I say I'm not going too.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6223 days ago

8 December 2007 (F) - What is up with my ex? I broke up with him about 2 months ago, and he is back in town. He keeps asking me to go skiing tomorrow and I keep saying that I don't want to and that I don't want to be his friend or get back with him or anything because he is disrespectful. Well, ... (502 words)

Talking to them doesn't help.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6222 days ago

8 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I think my flatmates hate me. I've made such an effort, but they are always so rude. The main problm is with two guys (I am a girl at uni). They are always so rude and selfish. They are always so rude to me, like always teasing me and shouting at me. Worst of all,, they expect ... (275 words)

When I eat I sometimes get sick.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6223 days ago

8 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 16 i have been getting really stressed at home with my parents,they are blamin me for things i havent done and i have been kicked out twice now.my mum is refusing to feed me because i am not in work at the moment i am in an collague course.and that im not bringing her ... (128 words)

Am I being used?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6223 days ago

8 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I started dating my ex 2 years ago, and we had a relationship for about a year. I screwed things up and then we were together on and off for another year. The thing is, i am always falling for her. Recently we kissed at a party and then she told me the next day ab... (241 words)

How can I be myself around guys, I'm too shy and I hate it!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6216 days ago

8 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi im 14, and very shy.its mostly around guys. everyone always says that your shyness will decrease in time, and that i should just be myself around members of the opposite sex. well i just cant be myself. i always feel as though i have to be someone im not when im around g... (107 words)

My boyfriend is almost perfect...but I don't think I am attrated to him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6223 days ago

8 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been with my bf now for 2 months. things have started up really well. i can be very shy around guys but with him i feel i can be myself and conversation doesnt just dry up like it did in my previous relationships. he has the nicest personality and always tells me how ... (187 words)

How do I know for sure if I love him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6223 days ago

8 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am even more confused now then when i first posted a question like this. Ok, heres a brief introduction to my stituation. I really like this 17 year old who also really likes me. We talk all the time on msn and i see him 5 days a week which is brilliant, if i dont see him ... (397 words)

How do I find out if her needs are genuine?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6223 days ago

8 December 2007 (M)

age - I am 59 years old, married for 28 years till wife died 7 years ago since then have had 2 serious relationships neither of which lasted. When on a business trip a couple of weeks ago I meet a lady aged 41, this was in the Philippines. We chatted on the plane and exchanged ... (152 words)