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writes: iya.. i no to most after reading this you will think i am a complete plank but anyway i have worked in this bar for a while now and a new bloke has just started, i was the first person who actually spoke to him and we started chatting and started flirting and having a banter. i later found out that he has a girlfriend who has a little boy with him. i was completlely devestated, and so i backed off but he continued and he later mentioned his little boy and the gf, saying that when she was 2months gone they split up and she was saying that she would have the kid and he would never see him again. the bloke told me straight the only reason he is with the gf is because he wouldnt be able to cope with being a weekend dad. he has also told me he really likes me and he knows i like him too. here is the spanker in the works.. i have an abusive bf and the bloke from work's gf's mum is involved alot at work and so is the gf with my boss. i intend to dump by bf, but the question is what should i do about the bloke from work????thanks alot xxx
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reader, Oddball.x  +, writes (16 December 2007):
 Wait until he leaves his gf.
When he does, dont rush into things.
Just wait afew weeks beofre going public.
But if he cant dump her for you, hes not worth it hun.
And you really need to dump that bf of yours.
Be safe.
Hope it helps.
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reader, love_on_the_rocks__h3art  +, writes (16 December 2007):
First of all.
GET RID OF YOUR BOYFRIEND.
No man has the right to treat any woman bad.
And you are so much better than that.
As for the guy at work...
I personally think that you shouldn't get involved.
His girlfriend probably loves him and he has a kid as well! Too much baggage with him. Plus, not only would you possibly be ruining his girlfriends life, but a defenseless kid too. I know it's a little far fetched, but still.
Find a nice single man who will treat you good!
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