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male
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes:Look this is not easy for me to talk about and infact its not something Ive discussed with anyone but I really could use some kind of input and opinion.I am a 37 year old man who has never had a girlfriend or even been on a meaningful date with a girl. I am a popular guy and have many friends of both sexes. I own my own home and drive a nice car, good job and all that, but honestly there must be something I am doing wrong as I get no interest from women at all.For sure I am hopeless at reading the signals if there are any. I guess your thinking I am seriously ugly or unattractive but whilst I know I am not the best looker I am a fit, slim reasonable looking guy for my age. You see I am trying to convince you that there is nothing wrong with me but I know there must be, but I am damned if I know where this has all gone so horribly wrong. I have no lack of sexual desire and am ready and willing to get involved but date sites, speed dates, blind dates and nothing works and is getting no better.I begin to wonder if I need some kind of counselling and perhaps something happended in my past that has held me back here because it puzzles me whilst all around others have familes and enjoy dates I cannot crack it at all. I am beat now and whilst I admit to being a slightly shy type who takes a little while to get to know I am not a shrinking violet and have decent people skills.What could be stopping this happening? I feel cursed by this but I have no clue where I am going wrong and what I need to do to stop what is now a quite monumental rot, a lifetime of poor form with women.Any input would be helpful and please dont take the p*ss because I know its ridiculous but dont know which way to turn.
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reader, woainiiloveyew  +, writes (14 December 2007):
oh my brother had the same problem...he's 35 and now finally have a gf...you see...its not how you look...what you wear...its more about...have you had that chance to meet that special someone because its like...if you never meet that person...you will never get that chance...i think you just need to wait...i am sure there is nothing you are doing wrong or that there is something wrong with you...its just you need to go out more and hope that girl will come by...hope that helped...
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