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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He likes me but I'm not sure I like him. Should I give it a go and will it ever be the same again??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6187 days ago

12 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have known this boy for a couple of years and we are really good friends and he just told me he likes me and i like him too but i don't no if i really like him. Should i give it a go and if i do decide to give it a go do you think that when we end it our friendship will nev... (71 words)

What can I do to keep the relationship in tact.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6188 days ago

12 December 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - we'll me and my girlfriend have been dating for over a month now. and i really think she could be the one. but things have been feeling wierd lately and she's planning on breaking up with me and we are hanging out this weekend and she told one of my friends. (who she is frien... (130 words)

My ex has walked out of a long distance relationship with me after 2 years, supposedly because of distance, and now she's walked into another one!! Help me..

This question has 57 answers - newest was posted 6167 days ago

12 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello. it's Andy, and I'm not happy.. Tonight I finally checked my ex's profile on her facebook, after not doing so for some time. Turns out. she's going out with a guy who she used to go to college with. I'm a little taken back by this. What's worse is, there isn't a th... (390 words)

I'm 16 and he's 28

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6187 days ago

12 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - So we've sort of known each other (only in a certain context, through which we met) for over a year and about a week ago we admitted to having feelings for each other...We both know that this is a rather delicate situation and we know that there are issues with such a ... (124 words)

I'm 15 and I have no muscles/body fat

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6188 days ago

12 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Help I'm 15 and I don't have any muscles yet. this is really embarassing because i have a cousin who is completely buff(muscular). Its affecting my self esteem. I work out every day as well yet i'm still tall and scrawny... what to do...... (44 words)

I'm 15 and I'm attracted to a middle aged women.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6181 days ago

12 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Help I'm 15 and I keep crushing on middle aged women. Is this even normal? attracted to 30 year old women. any advice?... (23 words)

How could we both sort this out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6188 days ago

12 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok here goes i wrote up quite a while ago sometime back in August regarding me feeling extremely sad and helpless when i'm away from my husband andit was making it so i couldn't enjoy going to work or anything. Well you were right it did wear off once i went back in september, ... (309 words)

Why do we keep breaking up when we argue?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6188 days ago

12 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it possible to know how much someone loves you? If you love the person you are with, and feel that they don't love you as much, is that okay? Sometimes I get a feeling just by looking at him, and listening to some of his comments that he doesn't care as much, and isn't ... (151 words)

I don't want to ruin my relationship with my brother.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6187 days ago

12 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - im 17 and this guy iv been seeing for 6 months is my brothers friend and is 22! we are really into eachother and lvoe being with eachother, and want to have a nromal relationship without sneaking around!! howver i do not want to ruin mine and my brothers relationship as we get ... (59 words)

I've been seeing my best friends brother.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6184 days ago

12 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i have a live in boyfriend who ive been with for 4 years but for the last 4 months ive been seein my best friends brother i really love him and id rather be with him but how do i go about finishin with my live in partner? we have 2 kids and the only reason i dont leave him is ... (79 words)

Is it right for us to live together.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6188 days ago

12 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I have got a gf ...I knew her for the last 10 years of my age(I am 20),but we started love before a week.we are in two different campuses 5 Km apart,and as soon as we started it she asked if she can live with me in one house,and I can rent it...but do you think this is in the ... (100 words)

Confused and Hurt!! Help!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6187 days ago

12 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been dating my boyfriend for about a year and half. He's a senior in college and I graduated last year and am now working full time. This past semester I have gone to visit him up at school almost every weekend.(about an hour away) I know he's busy at school, as he is on a ... (428 words)

How do I go about NOT just being friends with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6188 days ago

12 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I need help. There's a single guy at work and I really like him. We seem to be looking at each other all the time, and he's got a great smile. We talk with each other so easily. I'm not saying I am in love with him I just think there might be a connection. Is there any way to ... (86 words)

My life was great until I met him...and fell in love! Now that he's gone-I can't get back to my old life! Help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6184 days ago

12 December 2007 (F)

age - I'm a single woman, mid fifties, - I look after myself, make the most of myself and am confident I look good. I have a great job which I enjoy, grown up children who I have a great relationship with, and a circle of good, close friends. So, what's the problem? Up until 2 ... (494 words)

We had a one time passionate kiss. If I see him again should I pursue him or forget it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6188 days ago

12 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - About a week and a half ago I was at a conference, followed by a pretty posh dinner followed with a pretty good afterparty. All the way through the conference, I kept making eye contact with a guy, we'll call him James. Kept catching him looking at me, lots of flirty looks, ... (408 words)

He said girls are attracted to guys who are mean to them...is this true?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6188 days ago

12 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi. i am at uni and really like my flatmate. however,he is always constantly mean to me..like he exerts his power over me, making m feel small. For example, if he says something to me and i walk or look away he's like: 'I'm not done talking to you' or 'look at me when i'm spea... (251 words)

What are these 2 lumps on my vagina?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6187 days ago

12 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, i really need some help, i know you are not doctors and stuff, but i have noticed a lump, about the size of 2 peas entwined, on the right hand side of my vagina, it isn't painful to touch but i don't know what it is. i am not currently sexually active but was at the ... (86 words)

How do I cope with my fears about my future?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6188 days ago

12 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello i am from lebanon 21 years old in a seriours relationship with a girl for 1 year we love eachs others so much and we live in same country all this seems good even i cant see her alot cz of her parents and the distance ... i am studying accounting and i still have 2 years ... (239 words)

Should I believe the rumours about this teacher, or just think of it as gossip?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6188 days ago

12 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, their has been rumours that have been going around my school for so many years, infact too many years. My boyfriends big sister who left school 15 years ago even told my bf when he was going into first year about them. Bascially its the usual gossip about a teacher.... (626 words)

A lot of questions about our first time sex experience...advice needed.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6131 days ago

12 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, My bf and I have been dating for over a year. We love and care about eachother. We enjoy spending time together. We like to make out and kiss. We are both virgins. We have been talking about sex. I think we will end up doing it. We have both spoken of an interest in s... (270 words)

I can't stop thinking about girls and it is affecting my concentration!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

12 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 15 and I can't stop thinking about girls help me please because I can't concentrate on my work...... (19 words)

She's my husband's psycho ex fling and she won't get lost! Should I have a talk with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6188 days ago

12 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Here is my case: Everyone has an ex, some get along great some, well, they don't. A couple of months ago I found a letter, it was from my husbands ex, it was disturbing and upsetting, reason being, apperantly he did not know this girl (we had gotten some mail in the past, an... (191 words)

I am stressed about my exams...any tips to help me study?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6184 days ago

12 December 2007 (M) - dear cupid i am currently under stress as i have my AS level exams coming up in January and i can't be able to get the work. i am not able to get the work as i get distracted easily and now i am scared of failing. is their any way of me getting the stuff into my head?... (63 words)

Is it normal to bleed after first time sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6180 days ago

12 December 2007 (F)

- hey there people in dear cupid land... me and my boyfriend have been together 6 months yesterday :) and we decided to have sex ( he's 18 and im 17) it was a fantastic end to the eveining but... is it normal to bleed a little bit after sex im really worried that i did it wr... (109 words)

Regret doing what I did and I want her back! Advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6181 days ago

12 December 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - hi... i've been going out with my gf for the last yr... before this we knew each other for 9 yrs ... we got engaged were suppose to be married july 5 and then it happend i gave her an ultimatum... sorry bad spelling.. i regret it very deeply... she left right after i said it ... (155 words)

My Ex split with me after 4 years. I need to vent!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6185 days ago

12 December 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - My ex split with me 4 weeks ago after 4 years together. The sex has been phenomenal and mutual and we have always got on very well. We didnt live together but saw each other every weekend because we had jobs in different areas. She got a new job 2 months ago and was commuting ... (1117 words)

There's an age difference between him and I and he 's boring!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6188 days ago

12 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - there is a age difference of 7 years but been toghether 6 years and have 2 kids im 22 but he wants to be a bore and stay at home constantly and be like a old man and moan all the time, im at my witts end i dont think i love him because of the moaning what do i do ... (61 words)

I worry that my gf is texting other guys! How do I deal with my insecurities?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

12 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - i am a guy and i have issues with insecurity. i get worried when my girlfriend texting other people, just incase its another guy, it wouldn't be the first time a girl has cheated on me. my past two exes hace both ended up going out with my best friends straight after me so i'm ... (109 words)

I have some problems and I need to talk..can you help?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6187 days ago

12 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm worried and anxious all the time over a range of problems i seem to have at the moment and they are... i have just graduated from university and i went to a pretty prestigeous university for my degree but come out of uni with a great result but now i feel lost, confused... (548 words)

Should I tell this guy's wife, that my ex gf is cheating with her husband?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6187 days ago

12 December 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I've known for a while now that my ex is seeing a guy who's married with kids and I didn't really think anything of it. Now my brother has made me feel like I have some sort of responsibility to tell his wife what he's up to with my ex. My ex started seeing this guy while we ... (93 words)

Saw my ex but didn't talk to him. Should I make the effort,next time I see him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6186 days ago

12 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi i saw my ex boyfriend for the first time since we split last night down the pub and i really wanted to talk to him but was to scared,he was the one who wanted to split he said he did not feel the same and that we should stay mates. but the thing is i went all clammie when i ... (144 words)

Two women, one big choice!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6188 days ago

12 December 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi there, It's the old story: two women, who to choose? Just want some perspective. I met a girl Rachel (28) in June this year online. She is a pretty girl. We talked on MSN for a month or so and on the phone. She said that she wasn't ready for a relationship because she... (577 words)

I was up... then I wasn't. Did I wait too long to stick it in? What happened?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6188 days ago

12 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - me and my gurl tried having sex again we were in the bed kissing touching and everything all that gud stuff and while doing so my penis was hard as a rock but when it came down to doing the do i couldnt get on hard to save my life y is that? did i wait to long to try to have ... (74 words)

He has a gf but there's something between us. Is he playing around with me or what?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6168 days ago

12 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, I'll try not to be vey long, but I have a guy I have developed more than "friendly" feelings for. We've known each other for two years and about a year ago he got himself a girlfriend. Now, I know that this is territory I shouln't invade, but he's been giving me mixed ... (362 words)

Why does knowing about her 16 previous partners bother me so much?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6188 days ago

12 December 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - OK I'm going through something really silly. It's bothering the hell outta me. My current gf who's 30 years old told me that she had 16 previous partners before me. I've had 7 before her. But it's bothering me a lot! The strange thing is that my previous girlfriend of 3 ... (364 words)

I do see a future with this girl but feel like having a gf is holding me back.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6188 days ago

12 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been with my girlfriend for nearly 3.5 years now. We began dating in my Sr year of high school; she is a year younger than me. We now attend different colleges that are about 6 hours apart driving so we do not get to see each other too often. We have been talking ... (767 words)

Should I try to work this out and trust him or not??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6178 days ago

12 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Well heres the deal, me and my long distance bf are on a break, was his idea. He says he still loves me and i still love him but on his profile on bebo he is talkin to all these girls and askin for msn addys and meetin up with an old ex and ignorin my texts. I confront... (232 words)

I don't think he trusts me anymore after he broke off our LDR.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6187 days ago

12 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for just over a year and as things may seem great to others. I'm not happy. We only chat on a chat site cos he lives about 2000 km away but he comes to visit me every holiday. He is really sweet but when we apart all we do is fight. He is te... (140 words)

Flirting gone way, way too far... should my husband's co-worker be told?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5971 days ago

12 December 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband is in love with a co-worker. She started working at his company in August 2006. He shared with me that he was in love with her in May 2007. He has always been an incessant flirt, and she probably doesn't realize how much he "gets off" flirting with her. After he ... (209 words)

Sexual texts and secret meetings but he said they did nothing.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6186 days ago

12 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'm glad i found this site as ive got no one else to talk to. About a month ago my fiance of nearly 4 years an who i have 2 kids with got a new job and started sneaking around and was guarding his phone. It went on for weeks so i looked at his phone when he was sleeping.... (121 words)

My wife says no sex until I loose weight! Am I wrong to be thinking I shouldn't have to lose weight to save my marriage?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 6181 days ago

12 December 2007 (M)

age - my wife married met me, married me, and great sex with me, i was a big man when she met me....now we've been married for 5 years and fot the last few years, she dosnt want to have sex with me anymore becasue of my weight, she says i need to lose weight if i want a sex lfe with ... (151 words)

My husband is ruining my self confidence by constantly critizising me, how can I deal with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6188 days ago

12 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am newly married n staying with my husband from August. we had a made a choice of our own through matrimonial site.ours age is same(31 yrs) except he is a month older than me. My Problm is after i hv joined him he continues on critisising abt all the things that i do... (211 words)

How long do I wait for him to figure out if he knows 100% that I'm the one?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6188 days ago

12 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my wonderful boyfriend for just about 1.5 years. It has been the best relationship I've ever been and I know that I want to marry him, although the time is not quite right. There are things we both want to do, for example I want to finish my Bachelor's degree ... (375 words)

My boyfriend is going in the navy and I need help and advice on how to get through this!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6112 days ago

12 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is going in the navy in february, and i am so upset, i keep crying and then getting angry. When we first got together he said he was going to find another job so he could be with me. now a year has passed and he's going in. i really want him have a good career ... (116 words)

He says he will brake up with his girlfriend of 7 yrs but want to wait till after the holidays. What do you think, will he be lying to me too? (I'm 21, he's 35)

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6185 days ago

12 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Im kind of seeing this man whos 14 years older than me, he asked me out and we got drunk and had intercourse, the next day he told me that he wanted to be honest with me, that he has a girlfriend and said he would brake up with her soon, but he needs time, I told him that I ... (185 words)

I don't know where I stand or if he likes me as much as he says.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6188 days ago

12 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I met a guy nearly 3 months ago and he wasnt sleezy, asked me out for a meal, we went back to his, had a great night and for the past few months its been fantastic! he rinses my clothes twice cause i hate soappowder being left on them, he told me how he took ages dec... (710 words)

I want him to do something out of his life so we can move in together, but I'm afraid I will be nagging. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6188 days ago

12 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i have been with my boyfriend for 7/half months. im 19 hes 24 and still lives with his parents, ive mentioned that we get our own flat but he puts it off, he doesnt even have a job. its seems that he wont help himself, he recently passed his drivivg test but cant afford to ... (110 words)

Am I losing my skills or were there enviromental factors affecting the situation which were beyond my control?...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6188 days ago

12 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm normally great at picking up girls in clubs and pubs, but last night I just kept getting rejected. Girls were like, "talk to the hand loser!" I think I was a bit drunk so my suave was probably not on top form, and also there was a bad ratio of decent women out. Still I ... (87 words)

How can I stop getting so wet??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6186 days ago

12 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I get really wet during sex. I don't know if this is a problem. I have asked my boyfriend and he says he likes it but sometimes I hardly feel anything because its so wet. Is there anything I can do to maybe reduce this?... (45 words)

He wont go down on me until we are married but we aren't even engaged.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6188 days ago

12 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my man for a little over 2 years and he won't go down on me, he has NEVER gone down on me or anyone else for that matter. He says he'll do it when we are married (not that we are even engaged yet!) but sometimes he teases me and says he'll never do it! Do you ... (153 words)

New feature: Keyword + phrases links

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 6187 days ago

12 December 2007 (M)

- Hi There are over 40,000 questions here on dearcupid and some absolute gems in amongst them. Problem is it has been hard to make associations between similar questions in order to get the most out of the site. So, I've introduced a new feature that picks up key words ... (149 words)

My girlfriend wants me to give up porn...and I would choose her but I refuse to pretend to be something I'm not.

This question has 37 answers - newest was posted 4062 days ago

12 December 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Before anyone chips in and says that I don't understand this from the female perspective, please hear me out - because I have read posts, and heard views from the female side - and believe me they are pretty mixed. My girlfriend and I have been together nearly 2 years now, and... (225 words)

I think my dad is cheating on my mum...what should I do??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6029 days ago

12 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I think my Dad is cheating on my Mum and i don't know what to do. I am sure he loves my mum and our family but i saw some searches on the internet for escorts all around the world and for things like 'worldwide sex,' he is away on business a lot and each of the cities he visit... (133 words)

Should I leave the sweetest guy in the world for my sons father??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6187 days ago

12 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 22 i've been with my boyfriend for 9 months(we've been friends for 5 yrs. I love him and he loves me and my son but i'm not in love with him, and i just ran into my sons father after 10 months. I still love him but when i wanted a relationship he wasn't ready (we were t... (107 words)

She's talking like we are back but she acts different. What is going on??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6188 days ago

12 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey, Well my girl had broke up with me a few weeks ago, but I wrote her a heartfelt letter and drove 60 miles and put a tiny christmas tree on her car. She called back real happy the next day and the following day we went out to dinner and she said she'd give me another ... (347 words)

My new man is so much better and I have everything I could need or want...but I still can't get my ex out of my head.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6188 days ago

12 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, please can u help me? I met a man last year and i finished my 3 year relationship with my ex for him. Anyway my new man treats me better than i could ever wish for and he is everything i will ever need in a man and i love him so much. However i miss my ex so much and i th... (206 words)

Is my penis too small??

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5962 days ago

12 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a thirteen year old boy and was wondering if my penis is to small. It's only 5inches when fully erect and 3inches when small. Is it to small?... (30 words)

Is this possible? Penis fracture during sex when certain positions are assumed? (e.g. cowgirl) Also, can it be recuperated?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6022 days ago

12 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi all, I am a 23-year old virgin who has read up quite a bit on sexual matters. I have heard that the male penis can snap when certain positions are assumed (e.g. cowgirl), under certain level of intensity. May I know how this can be successfully prevented and if it happen... (68 words)

I paid for us to go away but now we have split up he won't pay his share. How can I get him to pay?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6186 days ago

12 December 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I recently bought tickets for my bf and I to go on a trip out of the country. He had no intention, it turns out, of paying me back, and now that we've broken up, I have a feeling I'll never see that money again, but IF there is a chance of getting it, it's all about persuasion. ... (121 words)

I'm not sure I want to be friends with this girl anymore but I'm scared of what she will do.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6188 days ago

12 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all, A few months ago i had a one night stand with this guy, and the next weekend when me and all my girly mates were supposed to go out one of them cancelled on us saying she was going to this party. Later on i found out from another friend that this girl slept with the s... (259 words)

My first sexual contact 7 months ago was painful and I am still in immense pain during sex. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6188 days ago

12 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i am 18 and have been in a relationship for the past 12 months. I lost my virginity to my boyfriend around 7 months ago which was really painful. I still however still cannot have sex without bein in immense pain. This is now becoming an issue in our relationship as we both ... (120 words)

When is it time to tell her I like her? Should I let this to be discovered naturally?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6188 days ago

12 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, so theres this girl in my college class that I really like. She always sits next to me in the class we have together and laughs at my jokes. We've been on a few dates but its nothing serious. Is it time to tell her that I like her or should I just let it happen naturally? ... (61 words)

How do I keep up the conversation without seeming I'm interrogating him? (He's good at asking questions to discover more about the other.)

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6188 days ago

12 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I recentlly met a guy through evening rugby practices. We haven't been goign out, but we've been conversing a bit. HOWEVER!! When we converse, its always him asking all the questions, which I dont' mind, because he's good at it...and it allows me to talk more about mysel... (119 words)

He's seen me naked but we haven't had sex yet and I'm scared about progressing...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6162 days ago

12 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a virgin, and my boyfriend is coming back from college, and I haven't seen him in 3 months. I've never done many sexual things. He's seen me fully naked, but I'm kinda scared. He asked me if we could go ahead and have sex. He has way more experience than I do, and he's ... (112 words)

We made plans to go out together but I backed out as I didn't know if were going as friends or dating. Starting to have feelings for him, should I tell?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6188 days ago

12 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I work with this guy for a little over a month now, and were friends and that's good. But we made plans to got to the movies one night, (i backed out), then we made plans to go out to eat (i also backed out). I don't know if it's because, i don't know whether or not if we're ... (142 words)

I hurt someone I love so much...what should I do??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6188 days ago

12 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - My ex-girlfriend and i were broken up this summer. this was our 3rd break up in 1.5 yrs. We decided to get back together before the summer ended. When we officially got back together, i went to Europe just after and had kissed 2 girls in that time... i felt shitty. When i ... (214 words)

We maintain an innocent friendship but I reason it can be much more! What to do? We already go out but they're not "officially" dates.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6188 days ago

12 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 17. I met this girl 2 years ago, who I've liked for a very long time. We've maintained a pretty close friendship since. We talk to each other almost everyday! When we hang out we talk about personal things. We're relatively shy and we only maintain eye contact when talk. We ... (114 words)

I am falling in love but don't want to ruin my best friendship.

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12 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I have somewhat of a problem; I think I'm falling for my gf but I don't know how to tell her. She's one year older than me which means that after next semester she's off to college and probably out of town. We've been close friends all of highschool and I've never wanted ... (128 words)

How long do I wait for her to "find herself" before she is ready to committ? She says she knows I'm the one she is going to marry but needs time!

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12 December 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I met this woman a year ago and she is the most incredible woman I have ever met. From the first moment I saw her she took my breath away and the first time we talked she amazed me. We met under circumstances that can only be explained as fate bringing us together. Over the ... (491 words)

Do other people go through these kind of feelings getting out of an emotionally abusive relationship?

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12 December 2007 (F) - This is probably a silly question, but sometimes I feel like I never should have explained to my ex why I couldn't be with him (because he was emotionally abusive) because in a weird way I would be very jealous if I showed him the light, he changed, and treated some other girl ... (130 words)

My dad works at nights, my mum is an alcoholic and has just been arrested, my bf cheated and I've problems at school. Please advise me.

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12 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey. I'm going through deep depression right now. I'm already seeing a physcologist right now, but i also need some other ways to help me. I feel like i have too much stress on me. All the time.. School is way too much right now, but i don't want to quit. And i'm always home ... (217 words)

How to make my husband last longer during intercourse?

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12 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid. I have a question about my husbands problem. We have an ok sex life but he only last a couple seconds its no longer then 5 min. We tryed all the sprays to last longer and even got him off befor sex but he still dont last long can anyone please tell me what els... (85 words)

Why have I fallen in love with someone that scares me so much??

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12 December 2007 (F) - I can't stop feeling so stupid that I gave my ex a second chance. We met two years ago and I had just gotten out of a relationship and so had he. Many times I told him we should just be friends, but he kept insisting and I finally gave in. We were just dating and had only kis... (471 words)

How can I gain confidence?

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12 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a very shy person, especially when it comes to girls. I am very confident and creative when i text them, weather its flirting or not. Unfortunately, as soon as i call them or attempt a conversation in person, i either freeze up or feel like everything i say is stupid. It's ... (83 words)

Desperate for Answers!

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12 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm facing huge dilema, although it may not seem so huge to some, but I can't figure out how to get over it. It all started out as innocent fling/crush type of thing. My friends and I were always talking about how great our teacher is, and how good he looks. We all th... (343 words)

I can't make sense of his actions

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12 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - this is over two almost three years with my bf's roomie. I live five hours away from school. First year he liked me a lot, flirted with me and said he wishes he found me first. I ignore this because I love my bf Year later he gets a gf in the same town who he wants me to... (379 words)

What can I do to spice things up for him?

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12 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm afraid my boyfriend is getting bored with sex as is. It's good, but we have been doing the same three positions for 4 months now. And I'm not very confident in being on top--but I'm willing to try new things for him. What can I do to spice things up for him?... (53 words)

Please advise , would really appreciate it

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12 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm ready to be in a relationship. What am i doing wrong which is inhibiting me from being in one ? I'm 18 and live in London with an active social life, going to university and previously went to a mixed school. I think I am quite attractive, but not to everyones... (208 words)

I don't think my grandmother likes me.

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12 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this may not sound a big deal, but recently my cousin told me that my gran hasn't liked me for the past few years. However recently was starting to think i was "ok" because my cousin "must have a good influence on me". This has really upset me because I haven't done a... (116 words)

I really want a baby. How to speed it up.

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12 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i realy want a baby but i seems like its guna take ages for me to get preganat . is there any way u can hurry up gettin preganat ??... (30 words)

He lives 20 miles away-will it work?

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12 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently met up with a guy, and we just clicked. I hadn't felt like that since I had broke up with my ex and I couldn't find one fault in him. One problem, he lives in a different city, although it is only 20miles away, it is much more of an effort than if he lived next do... (94 words)