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writes:Tomorrow I am going to be meeting up with a work friend that I haven't seen for quite some time. We both had feelings for each other but never did anything about it. I left the job to go to a different office and we texted each other a few times after I left. The last text I sent said "I miss you, I miss talking to you." That was 6 weeks ago and he never responded to the text. I did not send another text after that as I figured our friendship ran it's course or that he didn't feel the same about me.This man doesn't know I am coming but I will be meeting with him to complete a work project. I need to know how I am suppose to react to seeing him. I am very afraid he will be aloof or uncaring and on the other hand I don't want to get into discussions on why he didn't respond to my text. You should know that 4 weeks ago I went to my old office and I went out of my way to avoid seeing him because I thought I misread his friendship as something more and I figured he did too. I was embarrassed. This time I can't avoid him.
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reader, rockelle +, writes (16 December 2007):
 Great, I am glad things went well.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks, the meeting did go well. He was very friendly and kind saying that he was very happy to see me again. It was really such a relief to get the face to face over with and now I know we can still be friends. If I see him again it will be a nice treat and eventually given the time, we can go back to being the friends we once were. I think.
You are very kind to have answered my post.
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reader, rockelle +, writes (14 December 2007):
The best thing for you to do is to face him. You will feel like a load has been taken off of you once you see him. If he mentions it just tell him that the text was meant for someone else, and you mistakenly sent it too him. But to be honest I do not think you have to lie, he probably wont mention it and you both can pretend that it never happened get the project done and move on.
Good Luck.
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