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I don't like the way things are going.

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6 December 2007 (M age 36-40 - Hi!! As my name would suggest I am an Indian guy in the US, Im 22 years old, virgin, and with no real contact with girls thru-ought my life so far, so sometimes, I am really pissed off with this, and dont know how to deal with it, I think I am quite good looking, but I d... (68 words

He says he's made a big mistake but I don't know what to beleive.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6194 days ago

6 December 2007 (F - This particular story is very hard for me to talk about, and this is one of the first times i am writing everything i feel. Me and my boyfriend have been together 6 months and although im only 15 i really really love him. However on saturday night he got extremley drunk ... (249 words

Family war

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6 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - his family never have a nice work to say about me. they are always slagging me off within my earshot. its putting an awful lot of strain on mine and my boyfriends relationship. and my family found out about my boyfriends' sisters slagging me off and now in a way both famili... (72 words

I'm 13 and have issues with the way I look.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6158 days ago

6 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - IM 13 years old. And i have issues with the way i look! I play softball for three different teams, YET im tipping scales at 215... and im only 5 7 so its like not porportioned and my boobs are huge and its annoying and i dress nicely so i can hide it sorta.. so tha tmaybe ... (128 words

I told my best friend I loved her, things havent quite been the same since, are we drifting apart?

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6 December 2007 (M age 41-50 - please tell me !! well i had been in love with my best friend and i told her that i love her and her responce was like i am shocked and i only believe in friendship you are my sweetest friend and love is a very complex thing so please let this question be unanswered .. at... (303 words

My mum yells at me, I hate her, I try to be nice, I don't know what to do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5433 days ago

6 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - Im 13 years old. And i never thought that i could hate my own mother. And its not the hate when you get mad its the deep sincere hate that you cant fix. She yells and screams liek she owns me. And ive hated her ever since she left me and my brother almost 5 years ago. T... (178 words

What are the chances of an affair starting with the sister in law

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6193 days ago

6 December 2007 (M age 36-40 - my ex-wife's sister moved in with her sister and her husband about 6 months ago. the husband and wife have two daughters. the wife and the daughters work everyday and get home around 4 or 5 pm. the husband gets home around noon everyday. so he is at home alone with the ... (107 words

Should I run from this guy, he seems a little too good to be true?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6194 days ago

6 December 2007 (F age 51-59 - Ok ! I PRETTY MUCH know what im doing when it comes to men . I was married to the BIGGEST and WORST kinda PLAYER in the book ! I got involved with him at the age of 15 and married him at 18 and divorced him at 33 im now 36 . Ive learned ALOT and been through ALOT being married ... (428 words

I feel like he is too old for me. Please advise.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6193 days ago

6 December 2007 (F age 51-59 - I am going out with this man right after my divorce. He is 18 years older than me. I feel wanted and loved which make me feel really good. Two months on I start to feel he is too old for me. He's got false teeth, dozes off on the sofa during the day and always talks about ... (99 words

I made him choose between me and the dog and he picked the dog.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 6190 days ago

6 December 2007 (F age 51-59 - My husband and i recently separated, mainly because i gave him an ultimatum, me or the dog. He did choose the dogs. I miss him desperately and would consider going back, but he says that no one is more or less important to him than his dogs. I said surely i mean more to hi... (101 words

Should I let him know how I feel or will this ruin our friendship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6193 days ago

6 December 2007 (F age 51-59 - I have been friends with a guy for approximately 15 years, when we first met we did have a little thing going but he broke it off because he didn't want to get between me and the guy I was seeing. It ended we remained quite good friends, through everything we have remained ... (104 words

How can I overcome my fear of rejection?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6194 days ago

6 December 2007 (M - dear cupid i seem to have a major problem in asking girls out and cant seem to get myself to. i seem to have this fear of not being good looking (chek out myspace n tell me you think myspace.com/mohamed1991, but plz dnt post nothing ther if u cn) and getting rejected. how co... (164 words

How long do guys normally last

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6193 days ago

6 December 2007 (M age 41-50 - Once you get past all foreplay etc, once intercourse has started- how long is the avg time before a guy ejaculates??... (21 words

Anything meant by this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6194 days ago

6 December 2007 (M age 41-50 - a woman i have seen a few times who works in a cafe, that has glanced at me not a lot before.........started glancing at me today, a lot! thing is she hasnt spoken to me or looked at me like that before......she sort of looked at me and then walked around to stand next to me... (98 words

She says she can forgive me but I need to earn her trust. How can I win her back totally?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6194 days ago

6 December 2007 (M age 36-40 - I have been with my current girlfriend for 10 months and when we were together for 4 months i stupidly kissed another girl at a party i also met up with her once but did not sleep with her,last night i confessed to her last night and our relationship is together by the skin of ... (133 words

I want to stop the swinging now, how can I convince my wife to stop too?...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6194 days ago

6 December 2007 (F age 36-40 - hi i'm 43 years old male married, my wife and i started swinging 3 years ago with a couple, the sex was good and we enjoyed it, the problem is the couple split 2 months ago but the guy keeps coming, i allowed it cuz my wife enjoys it. i want to stop swinging now, how can i c... (74 words

I have just had a mental blockage and cannot remember what I learned in preparation for the GCSE. Please help.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6193 days ago

6 December 2007 (M age 30-35 - i am very seriously worried i have my gcse examinations on mondai i am sudying 15 subjects and i am a higher teir student meanin i expected to get a-C grades i have jus had a mental block i cannot think of anything or remember what i learned , wat can i do ? help please... (60 words

What to do to increase my libido?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6193 days ago

6 December 2007 (F age 36-40 - Hi am having some problems with my body, i havent been feeling horney if a guy touches me or i talk with my boyfriend on the phone or anything, can you tell me what i can use to make my self fell horney again, its a really big situation in my life... (56 words

Do you think we have a chance of getting back together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6194 days ago

6 December 2007 (F age 36-40 - hiya i broke up with my boyfriend in august this year as i wanted to think about our future but he is worried about commitment, we tried to remain friends but in the end i decided to stop seeing each other for a while so we could sort ourselves out!!! Recently i sta... (325 words

I have a major fear of rejection and become nervous when he is around. Ideas?

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6 December 2007 (F age 36-40 - I really like this guy he isn't someone i go for but then again the people i go for turn out to be pricks, and he is the complete oppposite. i just feel really nervous around him like i have i like you on my forehead. i would love it for us to be together but i dont know wher... (74 words

Can anyone make sense of this and help me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6193 days ago

6 December 2007 (M age 30-35 - this is complicated but i NEED to find this out. so me and this girl like each other. and I was going to ask her out but I waited a few weeks. after the awhile she seemed to loose interest...so I became worried and confused. then this week her best friend told me she doesn't ... (107 words

Am I short for this age? Any resources to grow thinner and taller?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6090 days ago

6 December 2007 (? age 30-35 - im 5"4 and im 13. I cant help but feel i am small for my age and cant find a reliable source on google to clarify that im not. I cant help but feel veryone else towers over me. i get really frustrated about it cus im almost in danger of becoming overweight. will i have a g... (105 words

Helppp what do I do ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6193 days ago

6 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - I'm 16 and this boy is 17. Theres this boy and we started of being best friends . Then we got close and hugged a lot and saw each other loads . Real sweet, then a couple of days ago , we had sex and afterwards he said he'd call me but i didn't get a call , so i txted him asking ... (153 words

Does he lie about other things?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6194 days ago

6 December 2007 (F age 36-40 - Yesterday my bf was on his psp, and i asked him if he was looking at porn. (I know he does, he says he doesn't) anyways.. he told me no. So today i was going to use his psp for the internet because the net on my computer wasn't working right. And guess what pops up. some girls ... (149 words

How do I get more affection?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6194 days ago

6 December 2007 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend only ever cuddles or kisses me when he wants to initiate sex. Whenever i try to talk to him about it he turns it into a joke. I'd love him to show me he loves me more because I know that he does, I'd just like some more affection.... (51 words

How do I get my feelings off my mind?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6194 days ago

6 December 2007 (F age 36-40 - Ok, Its been a while. Nothing too major except I have felling someone but I am not sure if they fell the same way. I don't know how to tell them about it. We have known each other for about a month or so. We have never talked about dating but all of a sudden this morning I ... (80 words

My girls wants a threesome!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

6 December 2007 (M age 36-40 - My girlfriend wants us to have a threesome with another woman and I'm not sure if I want to. I think it would be fun, but I'm quite a jealous person when it comes to her, and I think I might even get jealous of her with another woman. She really wants to do it, and I'm worried ... (74 words

Why can't he see a future with me?

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6 December 2007 (? age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for two years now and we love each other alot, but everytime I talk about the future he says he doesn't want to get married or have kids and to enjoy right now together. He says he wants to achieve alot in life, but I understand that and I want to ... (120 words

Should I keep my mouth shut and risk losing out?

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6 December 2007 (F age 36-40 - Hi... I'm a single lipstick lesbian and have recently started a new job which I absolutely love. The work is really fun and the people I work with are really lovely... I like one girl especially and I'm finding hard to read if she's gay or not? She is a very private person a... (233 words

Am I wierd?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6192 days ago

6 December 2007 (M age 30-35 - Okay, well heres the deal.. Im an 18 year old guy.. and I recently made friends with an 13 year old girl.. but theres more to it than that. Basically I saw this girl on MySpace, and it said her age was 19.. she looked abit younger but i thought maybe shes 17, 16 at a push so i ... (205 words

I messed around all night - could I be pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6191 days ago

6 December 2007 (F age 36-40 - i am a college student and one night a little over a month ago, when i got beack to my dorm room, my roommate had some of her friends over, there wsa this really hot guy and we messed around all night and we were drinking too...but im worried about being pregnent because after ... (182 words

How do I get rid of stretch marks?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6105 days ago

6 December 2007 (M - dear cupid is their any way to get rid of stretch marks, as i have lost a bit of weight,(man boobs still visible), but what turns me down is that whenever i pull my shirt up to show people the weight i lost, the stretch marks are always their, purple/red marks, that embr... (112 words

Am I the perfect size?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6194 days ago

6 December 2007 (M age - Does size really matter? Recently in a coversation about penis size my fiance made a remark that bigger was not better. i naturally replied that she sounded like she was speaking from experience. bad response cause she said she did not want to lie. Of course this meant that ... (167 words

Is my wifes' self esteem really the issue?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6194 days ago

6 December 2007 (M age 41-50 - My wife and I have been married for 4 years. We have been together for the better part of a decade. My wife has been sexually and emotionally unattentive to say the least, for a few years now. I understand that sex declines with the length of a marriage but I am 28 and she just ... (739 words

How can I stop feeling like this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6194 days ago

6 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hiya i have a problem. I haven't had a bf since i was at junior school and have now left school so its been along time. Its just i met this lad at college when i joined back in september we are in every lesson together and hang out at dinner and breaks. its just afew weeks ag... (261 words

I say "no" when asked out cos I don't know how to snog!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6194 days ago

6 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - hey im 14 years old girl lot of lads keep askin me out n i keep sayin no just because i dont know how to snog..... im realy need a help with this........ (34 words

Will my girlfriend using a "strap-on" on me cause any long-term problems?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6192 days ago

6 December 2007 (M age 41-50 - After it came up in conversation six months ago my girlfriend and I bought a strap-on dildo, to spice things up. I had tried it before and wasn't worried about using one. She hadn't used one before and was very excited. After the first few times of getting used to it with me ... (133 words

How can I distinguish whether he loves me or my image?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6194 days ago

6 December 2007 (F age 41-50 - How One May know and separate when One is really in Love with him/her or just with the image One represent? Are there any tips that can be applied to be sure? I think my Bf is in Love with the image of me,But not actualy with Me. Why im asking this? Firstly, he is confuse... (114 words

My boyfriend is a tightwad - what shall I do with him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6128 days ago

6 December 2007 (F age 41-50 - Ok.This is my situation,for which I Kindly please ask for any advice/opinion.I do not doubt that I love my man,as i do not doubt he Loves me too.I broke with him,Becouse of his inconfidency and inconsistancy.Im Urban Girl He is Village Boy.My parents are both Educated,his are ... (312 words

I left my guy of 7 years

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6190 days ago

6 December 2007 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend of 7 years chatted to women on chat pages, joined a sex chat site and looked at porn.I found out cus i snooped. I left him. Moved back to mums,gave my car up, the lot. Several months later, he promised to try and put things right. He didnt. Just worked all... (102 words

He didnt include me in his statement about family. He put me separate and I am hurt. Am I being oversensitive?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6194 days ago

6 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - This question is to all the boyfriends out there...if you are truthful and honest to your girlfriend, and you really love her, wont u say she's a part of your family? My boyfriend didnt do that. We were at a cookout that his friend was having. And they brought up the question, ... (123 words

He dumped my yesterday and wont return any of my calls

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6 December 2007 (F age 36-40 - i need help,my boyfriend dumped me yesterday afternoon and wont return any of my calls. i txt him saying im coming round his house. he then txt me saying he was out. i know he was in cuz i saw his lights on, which he then switched off. i then got a txt saying there was nothing ... (107 words

We are too embarrassed to buy condoms and don't know where we could get privacy, but we want to have sex.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6191 days ago

6 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - Me and my bf have been going on and off on our relation ship i want to have sex with him and he wants to have sex with me we are both ready but neither of use want to go buy condoms let alone he is to embarrassed to go get them and neither of us knows how to tell our parents ... (118 words

My ex, my new love... I love things about both of them!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6193 days ago

6 December 2007 (F age 41-50 - Hi, I'm confused.... I'm not sure whether to listen to my head or my heart. I am 29 years old and met my first love when I was 16. We went out for 3 yrs until I was 19. They we broke up and got back together when I was 22, we went on to buy a house together and have... (309 words

My long distance boyfriend broke up with me, but says he still loves me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6193 days ago

6 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - My long distance bf broke up with me. He said that he was getting too down and upset because he couldnt see me and that cause my mum wasnt letting me go down for another 2 years said it was going to be too hard as he wouldn't be able to see me every month. I understand why he ... (230 words

My husband has sex dreams every night and I am upset!

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 2939 days ago

6 December 2007 (F age 51-59 - My husband has strange bedtime habits - insight would be greatly appreciated. When he falls asleep he very often starts moaning, making noises like he's enjoying sex, occassionally he mutters something, and he is clealy in a sexually arroused state. He will often stroke his ... (216 words

He asked me to coffee. That was a month ago and I never heard from him and we never went out!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6186 days ago

6 December 2007 (F age 41-50 - hi i've known this guy for about 4 years now. His family knows my family and mine know his but we're not very close.i've always had a crush on him but always played hard to get and stayed aloof because he either just got out of a relationship or had a girlfriend and didnt seem ... (233 words

Pregnant with body issues!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6194 days ago

6 December 2007 (F age 41-50 - Hi everyone i am 18 weeks pregnant with twins. these will be my first. I already have quite a big bump, although I haven't changed from the back. I just feel so unattractive, and so worried that I'll never be the same again after they're born (and I wasn't exactly kate mos... (108 words

My current girl doesn't like me being friends with my ex from 5 years ago

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6180 days ago

6 December 2007 (M age 41-50 - Hi. I'm still friends with my ex-girlfriend from 5 years ago and like to go to clubs with her a few times every year because we like the same music (it might be worth mentioning that I don't get drunk or take drugs or anything, we just go for the music). But my current ... (122 words

Is this the end of the road??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6191 days ago

6 December 2007 (M age 30-35 - hi, Me and my gf/ex-gf had a break a month or so ago, we've tried 2 remain close. We've had fun being friends and its even come to the occasional kiss and cuddle, now i hear, and am certain that she's been seeing another guy although we said we wouldnt until we put the full... (107 words

Her Facebook messages seem to indicate more than she admitted...can I trust her again??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6189 days ago

6 December 2007 (M age 41-50 - My fiancee and I have been together for just over 3 years, but for the last 6 months I have been very depressed which has affected our relationship. She has to commute quite a long way for her job and so stays over at least once a week in a hotel. Last week I looked at her f... (274 words

Friends doesn't seem like enough...do I like him more than I thought??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6194 days ago

6 December 2007 (F age 36-40 - I have a male friend who told me last year that he liked me. It came completely out of the blue and i wasn't really sure how i felt so i spent some more time with him. The more i got to know him the more i liked him and we get on really well. He didn't push things with me ... (153 words

I am at the end of my teather....how do I sort my life out??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6194 days ago

6 December 2007 (M age 41-50 - I'm at the end of my teather with everything and I don't know what to do any more. End of September my partner left me for a younger, fitter, healthier, more intelligant guy. I then left my job because I couldn't face seeing her at work. Then she quit too so me leaving ... (326 words

Why do I fly off the handle at the smallest thing??

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6 December 2007 (M age 51-59 - Hi, I am a 40 year old man, my partner is 28. We met at work nearly 10 years ago, at the time I was going through a bad split from my wife, and we had two small children, we had split a few times and got back together but it was not working. Meeting my new partner was like... (363 words

Torn between two guys who want to marry me.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6194 days ago

6 December 2007 (F age 41-50 - Two guys in my life: one educated, has money, basically of good status been dating for close to one year, but not caring, loving ever busy, no time for us. The other one, not educated, not well off. 10 years older, has kids but separated with mother of kids. He is loving, ... (69 words

Does this online guy seem like a player??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6183 days ago

6 December 2007 (F age 41-50 - I'm 32 and a single mom, been on my own for 4 years (kid is 4.5), had been with ex for 12 years on and off (emotionally abusive relationship). So 3 months ago I met a guy online. Since then we've texted couple times a week, and he calls every other week. Last time he even tal... (304 words

How can I lose my man boobs?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6194 days ago

6 December 2007 (M - dear cupid i am a 16 year old boy and i have the following concern which i need major help in: i have man boobs and i tried losing them but have been unsuccessful, through this proccess i seem to have also seen that one of them is upper than the other by an inch. is it ... (120 words

I just want to be friends.... He Doesn't. Now What?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6187 days ago

6 December 2007 (F age 41-50 - Hi. Ever since I was about 16 years old, I've had more guy friends than girl friends. I prefer it this way, but it comes with it's pitfalls and one is that I have had more than a few male friends declare their romantic feelings for me, which I haven't mirrored, and then the ... (167 words

How do I get a new boyfriend?

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6 December 2007 (F age 41-50 - Hi ya! people I'm kinda broke right now..my boyfriend just left me because I did not went cruise around with him at night...the reason for that he just want to take control of me what I mean is..he want us to have a time alone so that he can take my virginity which it is... (78 words

My penis is 5.5. Is this wierd?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

6 December 2007 (M age 30-35 - Hi, I am 17 years old, a virgin, and I am unsure about what to think of my penis size etc. It's 5.5inches long, and 5.5inches in girth... Is this weird/normal and what would girls think about this? Also, I have tried on a regular condom before, but it was way too tight, i... (108 words

He thought I was 16 turning 17 but in truth I'm only just turning 15!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6184 days ago

6 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - *Sigh* Do you know anyone who looks/acts older than their age? Well I'm one of those kids. I'm 14 years old about to turn 15 on Saturday. Not to brag, but I'm more mature than people in my age group. I think its because I was abused and shifted from house to house during my ... (393 words

Does size matter? I'm 5-11, he's 6-5 and 225 pounds!

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6 December 2007 (M age 41-50 - I have been dating my gf for about a year now. I recently saw pictures of the last guy she dated. He is 6-5 225 pounds and in shape. I'm 5-11 and in avg shape. Sometimes I worry that because her ex was a physically tall/big guy that it means he had a really big penis and ... (238 words

How do I give him head so good he will want to come back more and more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6195 days ago

6 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - hey, im planning to give this guy head. any tips on how to do it perfectly. (please be clear when explaining) thanx... (27 words

Back together with an old love, but when he doesn't call it bugs me. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6191 days ago

6 December 2007 (F age 36-40 - hey all! im in love with my best friend and my first love (the same person haha) weve been a part of each others lives since sophomore year of high school. when i went away for college i broke up with him, but i still loved him. anyways after about a 2 year period we ended up... (238 words

How is a 17 year old suppose to endure all this? Please read.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6194 days ago

6 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - i don't know what's wrong with me...somedays i feel happy and carefree as if nothing can ever go wrong and then other days i feel sad and lonely like there's somthing missing in my life...something important and i just don't know what it is. then there are somedays that one ... (222 words

My ex is so demanding that I go snowbiking with him on Saturday if not as a couple at least as friends. But can I trust him?

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6 December 2007 (F - I texted my ex last night that I don't want to be with him (we were thinking of dating again). He texted me back saying he loves me but respects my decision. Then, he called me so many times and left a message saying goodnight baby and how he loves me. Then he texted me again ... (524 words

11, My ex boyfriend told everyone, including my new boyfriend that I'm a bad kisser. Help!

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6 December 2007 (F age 41-50 - my ex boyfriend told everyone including my current boyfriend that im a bad kisser. and now my current boyfriend wants to test to see if i am good! ive only been going out with him for a week! im afraid if he is going to think i AM a bad kisser... so far we've had no ... (102 words

What do you want, or look for in a relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6194 days ago

6 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - For all you girls and guys out there what do you want or look for in a relationship?... (18 words

Is my boyfriend a paedophile?

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6 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - I started talking to an older guy at the age of 14. I am now 23 and he and I are happily married. He was 22 at the time. The problem is this... now that I am older, I wonder if maybe my boyfriend is a pedophile? I read up on the internet that there are "opportunistic" ... (405 words

Are there men who don't "Look"?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6193 days ago

6 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - I have been dating the same guy for three years (we've broken up a few small times for very short periods of time, but none recently). The main problem I have with him is that he tells me he does not look at the opposite sex "like that". meaning, he doesn't judge females. I do ... (324 words

It's been 6 months. He has never met my family and always makes excuses not to. What's going on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6195 days ago

6 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 6 months now. He hasn't even met my family yet, I have mentioned it on several occasions but he finds an excuse not to meet them. I don't know what to say to him anymore, any idea's as to why he keeps putting this off?... (54 words

I've got back involved with the man who has always had my heart... But now I'm not sure it was a good idea. What do you think?

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6 December 2007 (F age 41-50 - I used to date this guy 13 years ago, 6 months ago he sent a message to me out of town through my parents. I hesitated to call because he was one that has always had my heart. Eventually I called and i was going through a rough relationship at that time. I spoke with him about ... (1108 words

He was taken back when he found out I liked him. He's acting normal, but he keeps bringing it up randomly now. What can I do?

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6 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - hi. i like my flatmate at uni.We had a lot of fun, but recently h found a note under my mattress saying that i liked him. He was taken aback and shocked and so i lied and said that i wrote the note three months ago and that i didn't like him anymore. However, i still know that ... (349 words

He hasn't tried to kiss me yet. Is this strange?

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6 December 2007 (F age 41-50 - I have had three dates with a guy the dates were fun nice and thoughtful, he asked me out again. The problem is he hasn't tried to kiss me yet. I am fairly new to the dating thing(divorced with in the past year)I have dated other guys and it has never taken any of them long to ... (73 words

I think I want to break up, but he becomes very emotional when even talking about it. What can I do?

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6 December 2007 (F age - i have been dating a man now for six years. Two years ago he moved in with me. He is so totally needy and becomes very emotional if i ever mention breaking up. I am not working at this time and am not able to support myself so i admitt i depend on him financially. We are not ... (116 words

13, My boyfriend wants Sex from me, but I don't think I'm ready. Can you help me?

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6 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - i've been with my boyfriend for 3 wks and 5 days and he wants to have sex with me and im still a virgin and he is'nt i dont know if im ready or not how would i know if im ready or not. ... (46 words

He looks at local woman on match.com, can I trust him?

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6 December 2007 (F age 41-50 - I need advice. My boyfriend of 2 years has recently been caught checking out match.com. When I found out I asked him about it and told him how it made me feel. His response at first was to deny it and then admited that he did but only to see if he knew anyone. He finally ... (186 words

I'm 19, bisexual, and have a crush on my teacher! Help!

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6 December 2007 (F age 36-40 - This sounds ridiculous, as I thought I'd stopped having crushes years ago, but here goes. I'm a 19 year old girl and I'm in love with my teacher at university. She's special, kind, considerate and is very beautiful. I'm in a relationship with a lovely man, he treats me like a ... (115 words

Can I be pregnant and still have periods?

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