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writes:hi all ok so last month i met this great guy whos 22 and im 26 and we get on great and really like each other , ive met his family and we make each other laugh , the age gap between us doesnt bother me or him at all anyway a few days ago i got a call from my ex form 2 years ago , asking how i am and that he missed me and still thinking of me and still loves me. see the problem is me and him broke up cause he used to hit me and beat me. i left him one morning cause i couldnt take it. now hes asking to meet me and saying that he likes me and wants me back, and keeps talking about the fun times we had together. there is another thing, hes had a child with another girl and says he doesnt love her but loves the child . now what do i do? shall i tell my ex to go away and leave m? or shall i meet him? my new boyfriend i really like and starting to love.
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reader, missmel34  +, writes (14 December 2007):
 There are people who come into our lives and we are like moths to a flame with them. No matter how our head is telling us no...we simply keep going back for more.
Abusive relationships are so typical of this. We become co dependent in this cycle. Round and round we dance.
The fact is you have done so well to move on and make a break from this man...he was toxic in your life.
To leave a relationship takes courage, bravery and self assurance. We walk out that door because we know in our heart of hearts our life was destined for better things.
To return to that life would be denying all the work you have put in.
Keeping walking forward, never look back.
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reader, bknhrtd  +, writes (13 December 2007):
Why would you jeopardize a true love versus someone who is abusive...Abuse is sometimes fatal but true love can be forever...
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reader, SHI*SHI  +, writes (13 December 2007):
 hun, i think you should tell him to leave you alone because your happy now...you must have had a reason to get rid of him so don't go meet him.
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reader, Fairy_Lu +, writes (13 December 2007):
 Stay away from him dont even think of going to meet him you left for a reason remeber that and stay away!
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