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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How do I get her to open up about this without fearing I'd misjudge?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6226 days ago

4 December 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - i get the feeling when my wife was younger she may have had sex with one of her female friends how can i get her to open up about this it is not a bad thing i just want her to feel like she can tell me thing and not be judged... (54 words)

Everybody says we would look cute together...I don't know what to do because if I wait too long won't he be taken??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6226 days ago

4 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. I am 13. I'm not really interrested in any one right now. I hang out with people who are mainly 15 and 16 (people my age are retarded lol). Well I met this guy; and he is 16. He doesn't seem interested in me nor I in him, but he is very sweet. Well I had a big party ... (206 words)

I am upset with her because she slept with two guys during our 'break'. But I also slept with someone else! Advice?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6226 days ago

4 December 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - My girfiend of 4yrs and I broke up for a couple of months recently, but we remained in contact throughout and even slept together a few times. We got back together which I was happy about until she admitted sleeping with 2 different guys during the short break. I was rea... (127 words)

My wife says she has never masturbated, surely this cant be true or can it?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6226 days ago

4 December 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - i have asked my wife to masturbate when we are making love but she told me that she has never masturbated before and that it is not her thing i dont think she is telling me the truth do the question is do all women masturbate and lie about it... (51 words)

How can I help her overcome her fear of sex toys?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6226 days ago

4 December 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - what is the best way to help my wife over come her fears of useing a sextoys... (17 words)

Broke up with fiancee and started dating a guy from work. Now this new guy thinks we are getting too serious,too fast! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6226 days ago

4 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi,I'll keep it as short as i can..I recently broke up with my fiance of 3 yrs. I had decided what I was living wasn't how I wanted to live for the rest of my life..soon after I began to have feelings of this, I began speaking on e-mail to a guy at work...we had got quite close ... (337 words)

I bought some sex toys for my wife, but she's not interested, am I being selfish ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6226 days ago

4 December 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - i purchased a few sex toys for my wife over a year ago to help spice thing up and she is justed not intrested and keeps saying that she has the real thing and that toys arent her thing. How can i change her mind to at least try it once or am i being selfish?... (58 words)

Hubbies away on business, he wants us to have cyber sex, but I don't know what to do!, help me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6227 days ago

4 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - hello, my husband has gone away on business for a couple of weeks and the only way we can talk is through msn. he keeps on going on about having cyber sex i`ve herd of it before but i don't no what to do, i need some help can someone tell me what to do and what to say. i`m no ... (98 words)

We split up then got back together, but she's changed, she hides what she's doing, what's going on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6226 days ago

4 December 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - i split with my wife after being together nearly six years (married for one) I could not get over her , we just drifted apart but i still loved her. we finally sorted things out but she treats me really bad now ! She is always on facebook and when i come in the room she seems ... (101 words)

My wife's past hurts me deeply

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6225 days ago

4 December 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I met my current wife of 2 yrs when we were just barely old enough to get a drivers license. I was into her right away. In fact she was the first girl I had ever asked on a date. I was 16 and she was 15 (and a few months shy of 16). She shot me down saying her parents wouldn't ... (1639 words)

My husband is a controlling and demanding, he nearly lost his job because of his attitude, should I put up with this , I want to make it work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6227 days ago

4 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am really lost. I am married at the moment and my husband makes me want to die. I feel like he is constantly trying to change me, and he is so demanding and controlling. i feel like he is the only one who has benefited getting married. i have had the same job for about 3 ... (253 words)

She claims she's never met these other guys online..so do I give her a 2nd chance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6226 days ago

4 December 2007 (M)

- Ive been seeing my girlfriend for a while now. She is away at college and recently when visiting her I discovered messages on her computer between her and a few other guys. She suggested to most of them suggested phone sex and meeting up behind my back. We havent been together ... (88 words)

I am madly in love (I even gave up porn!) but she doesn't know me... help me out... am I love sick?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6221 days ago

4 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, im 16 and what i feel is that i am madly in love with that girl. From past three-four days i have been thinking of her all the time. I do everything with her in my mind. ive given up masturbation and pornography. But on the other side it has affected me nagatively. I feel ... (139 words)

I lied to her trying to catch her out but it all back fired... she wasnt cheating and she now thinks I'm a liar

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6226 days ago

4 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, me and my girlfriend have ended up on a break because i accused her of cheating. i found evidence and she has been catching up a lot with old (male) friends so i got jealous. I lied to her trying to catch her out but it all back fired. she wasnt cheating and she... (235 words)

New gf makes me feel 'weird'-I just want to hug and kiss her! What's wrong with me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6167 days ago

4 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Ive recently got a new girlfriend as after seeing her, i asked to become a couple. She said yes which was good but im very confused. She really likes me and i like her but when im not with her i feel weird and i dont know why, but when im with her i feel fine and happy, i dont ... (101 words)

I am not getting enough Sex from my girlfriend! Advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6226 days ago

4 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I Only have sex with my girlfriend once or twice a month and i want more but she doesn't.. when We first started goin out we had sex 2 or 3 times a week.. now since we have bin together 2 years its only a few times a month. Shes always to sleepy or not in the mood, but when we ... (83 words)

How do I lose these 'man-boobs?'

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6225 days ago

4 December 2007 (M) - dear cupid i am a 16 year old boy and i have the following concern which i need major help in: i have man boobs and i tried losing them but have been unsuccessful, through this proccess i seem to have also seen that one of them is upper than the other by an inch. is it... (104 words)

They flirt and then when I flirt back, the interest stops! What's with this cat and mouse game guys play?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6216 days ago

4 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - ok here it goes i guess its alot like the others posted on here but i feel when it comes to me and men theirs a bermuda triangle i can be flirtacious fun and caring and i get flirted back but when i take more of an interest its like all of a sudden it stops and when i dont show ... (102 words)

My bf and his close galpal are touchy-feely and they have this 'term of endearment' they use-do they have deeper feelings with each other?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6226 days ago

4 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend has a close girl friend..before i came in,they are best of friends. at first its ok,but suddenly I notice that their closeness came out of boundaries, they became so touchy with each other, to the extent that they both have this term of endearment, and its hurting ... (104 words)

Male Vs Female: How long did it take you to stop loving your ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6226 days ago

4 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - How long did it take you to stop loving your ex? if youve had a year and half relationship how long would it take you to stop loving your ex and move on?... (33 words)

Can relationships still work after one of you has cheated?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6226 days ago

4 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I've been with my boyfriend for over two years now. I got told he'd cheated on me (slept with someone else) just after we had been together for a year. Obviously, I can't know whether or not it happened, because he says he doesn't remember. But I just wanted to know if ... (63 words)

Why do we always hurt the ones we love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6226 days ago

4 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I HAVE A BF,BUT HE STILL KEEP HIS COMMUNICATION WITH HIS EX GF,I COULDN'T COMPLAIN ABOUT THIS BECAUSE I DON'T WANT TO MAKE HIM THINK THAT I DON'T TRUST HIM,BUT IT HURTS ME BECAUSE I HAVE THIS FEELING THAT HE STILL HAVE A "SORT OF FEELING" TOWARDS HIS EX.EVEN THOUGH WERE TOG... (88 words)

I love my bf but fantasize about this other guy? What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6226 days ago

4 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 17 and have been with my boyfriend (let's say Ashley) for over two years, and until recently I was very happy about it. We have seen each other 6 days a week since we got together, and on the seventh we spend hours on the phone. I realise how excessive that is but if I go ... (270 words)

What does this text message that he received mean, do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6225 days ago

4 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend got a message sent to his phone from a girl saying 'i'm sorry if i have ruined anything but i do really like you'. he hasn't spoke to me properly and we havn't got a long very well since he recieved this message. do you think it means anything?... (51 words)

Her parents are going away and I need some good seduction tips to use on my gf!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6226 days ago

4 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi im 19 an have been with my gf for 2 years, we currently live with her parents but once i have finished my apprenticeship and she has finished uni then we will start looking for a place of our own. Well we do have sex regularly but don't actually go to bed specially for it if ... (196 words)

I'm seeing a married man, but I really want to have a normal relationship, but nobody matches up to this married man, should I pursue it or give him up for good?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

4 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in love with a man who has a partner and 2 small children. I know he feels the same way and is very unhappy with his current partner and stays for the children, but I am not sure I can live with breaking up a family. However, I just cannot get this man out of my mind, and ... (156 words)

She's put up a wall with me and I can't talk to her! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6226 days ago

4 December 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - what should I do to get back with a girl if she will let me get pass the wall she has put up against me. how can I get her to communicate her feelings and thoughts with me. she cheated and I want her back... (45 words)

We stare at each other a lot, so how do I get confident and talk to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6225 days ago

4 December 2007 (F)

- Hi, I'm 17 and recently I've had a fair few guys who I find attractive show an interest in me, but I never know any of them well enough. I'll meet them at college and we'll talk for a bit, then we just sort of... go our separate ways. It never amounts to anything. I know ... (209 words)

We suddenly have problems with erectile dyfunction! I'm so frustrated sexually-I am thinking of leaving him! Advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6215 days ago

4 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Over the past 9 or 10 months my boyfriend of 5 years and myself have encountered a new problem in our relationship. Prior to this, our sex life was very active and strong, we never had any problems with ED or anything like that. But for some reason, he started having trouble ... (871 words)

Wife took me off-guard by regaling to our friends..how she made some guy's toes curl with a BJ before she met me! This pissed me off..how do I deal with this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6225 days ago

4 December 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and I were out drinking with some friends, and (don't ask why, because I don't know), her one female friend asked if all guys curl their toes when they have an orgasm. I'm assuming that her husband either does or doesn't and she was curious (again, don't know why, seems ... (457 words)

I need help because his mind games are driving me crazy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6226 days ago

4 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay I posted a question a couple of months ago and im really confused. This lad called "Liam" is giving me mixed signals. I dont know him but occasionally chat to him on msn and he stands outside my school. He stares at me most of the time but doesnt come over and talk. I ... (91 words)

Do we break up over 'jobs and relocation' issues?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6225 days ago

4 December 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I am a divorced man in my early 40's. My new partner is also in her early 40's. I have had a difficult time getting established in a career until the last 2 years. I have a good job, though I would like to live in another community ideally. I have been with my new partner for ... (278 words)

I can't get that physical attraction back for him...will these feelings ever return?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6227 days ago

4 December 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - How can I get my love life back on track and how will I know that I really want to? This seems a daft question but my partner and I split up in February and after much discussion, decided to give our relationship another chance. Since then though, as much as I've tried, I ju... (154 words)

I want my wife back..so how do I go about doing that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6227 days ago

4 December 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi me and my wife recently broke up. We had been together since we were 16 and up until this past year when we had afew disagreements and just seemed to be very distant. it was quite an emotional goodbye and was very hard. we were fine after that, we did keep in touch just as ... (377 words)

I feel like she's lost interest. How do I make myself special in her eyes again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6226 days ago

4 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - This is a follow-up to this question (http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-feel-im-never-going-to-get-over.html) My biggest problem I have now is that this girl that I'm in love with is now my friend, but it seems like everything has changed. When we first met she would hold o... (286 words)

She won't do anything more than kiss me, now--is this relationship falling apart?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6206 days ago

4 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my Gf have been going out for 4 months now and we have always been very open with each other. We decided not to have sex, so we go very close to doing it, but not all the way...our relationship has been awesome until someone told her that anything more than kissing ... (140 words)

I'm attractive, athletic and confident but I've never had a gf! What am I doing wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6227 days ago

4 December 2007 (M)

- Here's the situation - I'm 20, fairly athletic, my friends who are girls say I'm attractive, I'm fairly confident, and have a good sense of humour, and I can keep a converstaion going by asking questions and getting involved. Yet I have never had a girlfriend. What am I doing ... (51 words)

My ex is stalking me but the guy I dumped him for slept with my best friend!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6227 days ago

4 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Argh! I don't know what to do anymore. I think i'm losing it. I'm just completely depressed. I just dumped my boyfriend for this other guy as bitchy as it sounds. And he's like stalking me! The guy i dumped him for had sex with one of my best friends just last Friday. And... (140 words)

What is okay with girls and guys spending alot of time together??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6227 days ago

4 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - So my boyfriend and I have had problems for a very long time with what I would consider flirting/ mild forms of cheating. Eventually this lead to our break up some time ago. We were apart for a couple months and then discussed our problems to come up with a solution... (441 words)

He can't perform and says it isn't me but it hasn't happened before...what's wrong??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6227 days ago

4 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and i have been together a little over a month. A couple of weeks ago we tried having sex for the first time, we didnt succeed. He got hard but it went limp again. The next day we tried again, and the same thing happend. Finally the third attempt on a differen... (166 words)

He shows off with his friends...but when we are alone its different...does he like me??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6226 days ago

4 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Does he like me? He always smiles at me and is joking around. But he shows off when hes with friends, hes sooo nice when its just us and he acts like we've got a thing going on but he gets annoyed at me when i talk to his friend and not him!! ... (54 words)

Is he going to break up with me??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6226 days ago

4 December 2007 (F)

age - My boyfriend has been very depressed lately and he has been starting fights with me all of the time over small things......like making mountains out of mole hills. He recently told me that he needed some space and time to think about everything in his life. He added that he ... (122 words)

I feel like he doesn't give of himself....how can I tell if he cares??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6227 days ago

4 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating this guy for four months now. I do not know if whether or not he likes or care for me the way I do. I want to be in a relationship with this guy, but I feel that he is not giving any of himself to me... (51 words)

I want to go out and have fun...but he always wants to stay in....I feel like we've grown apart.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6221 days ago

4 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I've bin with my boyfriend for over a year now but i think i dont love him anymore. We have grown apart, i what to go out and have fun but he wants to stay in and watch tv. I do enjoy a night in but not all the time and when i do want to go out its always an argument on what ... (93 words)

How do I turn down one guy for another without hurting his feelings??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6222 days ago

4 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Well i am in a bit of a mess. I was seeing this boy Sean we had half a dozen dates and latly we started to have sex. He is damn good. He wants it to be more asked me to be his proper girlfriend a few times and i keep saying am not sure yet i need time. He lives 2hrs from me.... (459 words)

Do people say 'I love you' and not mean it??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6227 days ago

4 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it possible for someone to really not be in love and just use the word? I've had many relationships and last year, well 3 months ago i was in love. We had an 8 month relationship he ended it abruptly and im still in love with him. I see him all the time as he is with my ... (373 words)

I feel like I need a break from my bf and fun with other people but I don't want to lose him. Am I being selfish??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6227 days ago

4 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am currently in an almost 2 year relationship with a guy I really love. However, we are both spending a year in a different country together, and since we got here about 3 months ago, we are arguing more and more. Possibly because it's the first time we are living on our o... (130 words)

My partner with whom I've been living for 15 yrs has asked me to leave his house (but I will not.) Does he truly love the other woman? What to do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6226 days ago

4 December 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been with my partner for 15 years and have lived with him for all this time. My partner has had several affairs over the last 12 years, these have always happened at time when we have been under severe pressure from other areas whether it be business, family or financ... (426 words)

I feel like she has been living a single life while I take care of our baby...and now she wants a break.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6227 days ago

4 December 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - My gf and i been toether 4 years, we have a child, had a hard time to get a home off our own, i worked and studyied hard for her. She spent her time with her friends always leaving me at home to mind the baby,every weekend the same and she stayed out late drinking at parties. ... (448 words)

I can''t be around him because he doesn't respect me....should I just ignore him or tell him??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6227 days ago

4 December 2007 (F) - Last night I talked to my ex that I was in the process of reuniting with and dating again and I had said that I looked at his myspace and was pretty offended that he had all these pretty new girls as his top friends when I knew he barely knew them. I was also mad that he said ... (486 words)

She wants a break but I cant help thinking she wants to be with the guy from work.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6219 days ago

4 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi My girlfriend and i have been going out for 7 months before i met her she had another boyfriend who treated her badly so when she argued with him she would go and get really drunk and cheat on him she would also self harm. So when she ended it with him we got together and... (180 words)

We both have properties, if I move with her I'd have to sell what I own, is it not too big of a risk? What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6227 days ago

4 December 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Been in a relationship for a year, and now, I need to decide whether I want to take it further by moving in with my partner. She's not interested in getting married, owns her own house. I also own a house, but if I move in, I will have to sell what I own, leaving me with ... (74 words)

My girlfriend strips and I'm ok with it but the 'private room' bothers me...any advice??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6227 days ago

4 December 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend strips. She is doing it to make her way through school. She is pre med , full time credits, and doesnt have much time to do things outside of school. The club gives her an oppurtunity to make decent money choosing her own hours. im okay with her strippin... (196 words)

It's just got too boring and I don't know if I want to be with him anymore. Anybody been in a similar situation??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6227 days ago

4 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my current boyfriend for 2 years now but i think we have just grown apart i am beginning to question if i want to be with him any more. I like to go out to clubs etc and have fun but all he wants to do is stay at home and do nothing and when i want to go out i... (129 words)

The way things ended with my bf has left me confused and unable to move on.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6227 days ago

4 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf split up with me after 9 months it's been 3 months now! The problem is we met on Xmas Eve last year and i'm going to find it hard this time round. I am trying to get over him but it's difficult when it's my friends brother!! I have contacted him once spoke to him and ... (377 words)

Is this a mixture of love and lust??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6227 days ago

4 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have always loved my male friend and I deeply care about him. We have known each other for 12 years!Then, one day and out of the blue, my feelings got stronger for him and I realised I was in love with him. So I feel real love because we have been friends since a long tim... (119 words)

Anything I can do to stop these comments??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6225 days ago

4 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have two jobs, one of which is a job at a garage. I work as a consoler (authorising the use of pumps - i'm the one that presses the button to send your fuel down the hose!) and also on the counter in the garage shop. The garage is just a small town one, and we mainly get moto... (429 words)

I want to make love more frequently, not only on the "established" days... How should I tell him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6227 days ago

4 December 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I am going out with is man 18 years older than me. We only sleep together on Wednesday nights and at weekends. I want to make love to him not just on the fixed day but I've never talked to him about it. Because he says our frequent lovemaking has worn him out. I hate to ... (69 words)

Me and my bf live together and are suffering a relationship crisis (not talking). We've always had a volatile connection, lately worsening.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6226 days ago

4 December 2007 (F)

- Hi, I am in an awful state at the moment. i am living with my boyfirend for the last few months and in the last few weeks we keep fighting with each other, and now at the moment we're not talking to each other. I don't know how to sort these problems out. I do love him and i ... (123 words)

Sometimes it seems she doesn't want to talk to me at all....does she like me though??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6222 days ago

4 December 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Does she like me or not??? I met this girl who works for the same company as me on a social networking site after she seeked me out. We met properly on separate nights out with friends and we got on really well and I asked if if sher fancied maybe going for a drink sometime... (198 words)

Am I too big for her? She always complains I go in too deep and it is frustrating for her the idea I cannot climax as easily with these restrictions...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6225 days ago

4 December 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - hope you can help me I have a couple of problems 1) I am 28 years old and I am well endowed, all the woman I have gone out with have complained about the size of my member. I am in a steady relationship now and I want to marry my girl friend but she always complains about ... (174 words)

I want to tell him he is selfish in bed but not put him right off.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6226 days ago

4 December 2007 (F) - I've been going out with my boyfriend for a year now, he's had quite a few sexual partners and no other relationships and I've just had one other very serious relationship. The thing is that he has never made me orgasm, and doesn't even seem bothered about this. I told him... (140 words)

We are getting close but I'm not sure how she feels?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6224 days ago

4 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey. This girl and I have been freinds for a while. She had had feeling for me sice 7th grade and had asked me out a bunch of times. The first time it stunned me and I didn't know what to do. I told her I was gay and had a friend back me up. I know this really hurt... (688 words)

I think I've lost the ability to be horny.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6227 days ago

4 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, I am a 17 year old female with a boyfriend of too months. We are very close and considering sex. We are both virgins and he is really up for it, i want to but i just feel i have no sex drive at all. I have been in 'touchey feely' encounters with guys before and alway... (219 words)

The boy who likes me has hurt my two friends he's been in relationships with. I am scared the history will repeat itself, so should I accept him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6227 days ago

4 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - my best friend recently told me he likes me and ive liked him for ages and never even thought i stood a chance with him. most of my frieds are telling me i should go for it, but hes been out with two of my closest friends and he really hurt them. we both go to single sex ... (125 words)

What do you think about my husband's leaving because I was not able to bear a pregnancy?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6019 days ago

4 December 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - i am 36, i am not capable of bearing a child anymore for a uterus problem. my husband had left me for another woman for a reason that he wants to have a child. do you think he didn't love me anymore because he exchange me for a reason to have a child? please help me.... (57 words)

Would a 26-year old wait for the girl to reach the consent age?

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4 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, my parents found out that i was goin out with a 25 yr old. we were really really in love but had been having problems just before they found out. They have stopped me from having any contact with him which is understandable they're parents they're doin wats best for me. ... (130 words)

My bf is still communicating with his ex, and is upset about my spying. I've also heard he's been married once, which he denies. Do I leave him?

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4 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My fiance has been hiding his cell phone from me but picks mine and reads my messages frequently. I recently read messages from his cell phone and realised that he was stil communicating with his ex girlfriend who is already married. This really disturbed me and when I told him ... (153 words)

He's a nice person but I feel like I deserve to be treated better.

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4 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating someone for 7 months. He's a nice person, and I do love him. But I have this constant doubt that I'm being taken advantage of because he wants a companion. At the start of the relationship, I felt he was taking advantage of me for sex. I was a virgin t... (225 words)

Different libidos, normal?

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4 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a 20-year-old female with a 29-year-old male. I've always been in long term relationships with very frequent sex that I was normally initiating so i suppose I'm not even sure if this is abnormal. As a little background, we work about 35 a week a piece, I go to school ful... (390 words)

What do I do if he left without explanations, even if he promised he would not?...

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4 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - what should i do if someone whom i love dearly, just left me with out even saying goodbye, i just do not know where he is, no calls, no messages, nothing. i was left all alone and seems he doesnt care anymore and it hurts me that much. i love him so much, and i cant bare it ... (108 words)

How to let him down easy without lying?

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4 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm bisexual leaning toward gay, but I haven't come out to most people yet. I'm falling for a friend who doesn't want to be with me, and now another one of my friends wants to get dinner and "talk." I'm afraid that he's going to tell me he likes me ... I don't like him that ... (142 words)

He said he would wait for me but the way he is acting I am not sure he will.

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4 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Just to recap: I was in a 3year relationship with a man I loved dearly and with all my heart. However, we fought a lot and he never understood the things I needed and I was always wrong which frustrated me a lot and was always unhappy. He is a great guy and treated me well in ... (744 words)

I want to see my one-night stand again...how do I go about it??

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4 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I slept with this guy this weekend. We were talking at a party and I was definately the aggressor, but he was into it too. Anyway we ended up back at my place and had sex and a while later niether one of us was asleep so we made some sandwiches and hung out for a while. I ... (175 words)

Should I go on and hope she changes her mind or is she just playing me??

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4 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey there, I'm pretty new to this type of thing, but I really need some feedback on a situation I am in from some people not involved. There is a girl that I work with, and we've been working together for about half a year now, that I've been getting really mixed signals ... (447 words)

My parents forbid me to see my bf but I still do.

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4 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 15 years old my halfway boyfriend is 17, we aren't supposed to be together,my parents forbidden us to see each other. We have been together for like almost two years, when the started to not let us see each other was about 7months ago, i have given everything up for him.... (269 words)

I lost my virginity , it was horrible he treated me bad, now I want to wait till I get married, but the guy will probably be a virgin too, will this be a problem?

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4 December 2007 (F)

- I'm 18 years old and I've had sex with one person before, this was my ex bf of 7 months. I felt I was in love with him, yet it turns out the guy who I was 'in love with' didnt exist- it was all an act he put on. Less then a week after we had sex, our relationship took a major ... (142 words)

I love my 18 year old cousin who I just can't stop thinking about! Is it wrong?

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4 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 13 and I love/have feelings for my 18 year old cousin. Is that wrong? About my cousin: (in my point of view) my Cousin just turned 18 and is now going to Columbia university. She has a very nice personality, funny, innocent, adorable, beautiful, smart, and tremendously... (666 words)

My wife wants to have sex with another man to get pregnant!

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4 December 2007 (M)

age - My wife is desperate to get pregnant. She is 39 and we have been trying for about 4 years. She doesn't want to do IVF we tried IUI and she hated it. A good friend has offered to have sex with her (unprotected) to see if that would work. (nb I am not infertile my sperm count etc ... (85 words)

How can I stop my girlfriend taking this job at a strip bar?

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4 December 2007 (M)

age - My girlfriend took off her top at a strip bar on a dare. The manager there asked her if she’d like to work there. She said she’s thinking about it!! He told her she could make five hundred a night. She works as a waitress now, but thinks she can handle this saying its kind ... (94 words)

Who do you think I should go for? They both know I like them, but I don't want to lead anyone on, I'd rather just go with one girl and stick with her.

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4 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - OK so I'm in a bit of a spot and I can't make up my mind... I like two girls, but I don't have any intentions of trying to date both of them, or to see one of them on the side or any of that. I'm having a hard time deciding which of these two girls I should go for, I'm aski... (290 words)

Is her lying a problem, or am I creating a problem?

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4 December 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a question that concerns "lies". I want to first explain a few things in our relationship. I have been dating a wonderful woman for 2.5 years. She's a great friend, and a better lover. However, I have a concern that seems to continue to come up occasionally. I ha... (611 words)

I'm single and she's seperated.

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4 December 2007 (F)

age - Several weeks ago a co-worker and I started a friendly relationship. I am single and she is seperated. We've had drinks twice and the last time we had sex. She says she feels guilty because she isn't divorced yet but we've both agreed to see one another again. We both care ... (105 words)

Is he a future romantc partner or more as a "sister-type" friend?

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4 December 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - If a man has recently met a woman and shared with her stories about his childhood, disappointments, likes, dislikes, etc., would you interpret this as him being attracted to her as a future romantc partner or more as a "sister-type" friend?... (41 words)

I'm afraid to trust him again because I don't want to get hurt again...

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4 December 2007 (F) - I met up with my ex last night (we broke up 2 months ago). He said he still loved me and missed me and couldn't get over me and we ended up making out. He said we should try dating again. I agreed to it last night, but then freaked out this morning and texted him saying we ... (364 words)

Why do I feel guilty?

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4 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been taking depression medication for some time now. Every once in a while I forget to take it, and I really can feel emotion on those days. But I feel guilty taking it most days because it feels like I'm cheating life and just popping a pill to be happy. Why do I ... (60 words)

My hormones are killing me and I want to know if it’s all right for me to date even though I’m still married officially, or is it considered cheating?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 6178 days ago

4 December 2007 (M)

age - I have been separated from my wife for over a year and looking forward to get divorced soon. My question is this: My hormones are killing me and I want to know if it’s all right for me to date even though I’m still married officially, or is it considered cheating. Of note, my ... (149 words)

Are we normal???

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4 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I always thought my boyfriend was attractive, but I never thought he would like me as he's 3 years older than me and was going to go away to university in Scotland in September (where he is now), however, to cut a long story short, he finally asked me out and we have been ... (184 words)

I live with my bf and his mum, but she hates me and even beat me, how can I sort this out?

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4 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - dear cupid, I have this boyfriend for six months now but at that span of time we always argue. Two months dating we agreed to get marry and stay in his mom's house but his mom told us not to rush and move our marriage for another five months. At that time, his mom is so ni... (378 words)

Does he fancy me or not?

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4 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm scared of losing the guy I love, I known him for a few years and for the last 4 months everything has been good between us, he has been like a boyfriend- even though we aren't. He has done and said stuff that a boyfriend would do or say but today he said he didn't know if ... (149 words)

I've been having THE worst love life these past few months.

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4 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been having THE worst love life these past few months. I'll explain it a bit first. I broke up with my boyfriend about a month and a half ago, and a week later, I started going out with this other guy who I fancied when I was still going out with my boyfriend. I did... (330 words)

I found out he cheated, he then chose her over me, but I still want him back, how can I do this?

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4 December 2007 (F)

age - I have been with my mate for 13 years, in October I found out he was cheating on me. (he was not the one told me) I confronted him and made him choose. He chose her! Since then,we talk maybe once a week, and he says he is sorry and that he did not want to hurt me. He tells me ... (158 words)