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writes:I was married this feb. Since then my wife has never reached climax during intercourse but finger fucking works each and everytime. She doesnt feel any pleasure during intercourse but likes foreplay. She neither likes oral sex, which i like very much, nor uses any sex position other than missionary. Please help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2008): keep the oral going. try her being on top after stimulating her cliterous. rub her cliterous while penetrating. i perfer oral to vaginal because its better. keep up the oral and remember your one of the loving giving ones who is concerned and cares. enjoy yourself and have fun. good luck and congrats to you and your wife
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reader, Whynot  +, writes (14 December 2007):
Hmmm, I just got out of relationship that sounds just like this. It turns out I was losing attraction to the guy. Since we broke up, I'm horny as hell. I'm not trying to say she's not attracted to you anymore. She could honestly need some kinkiness but not know it. Experiment and see. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2007): My wife can have oral orgasms easily, but I have to stimulate her in some way to get her to have vaginal orgasms. There are 2 ways that work. The best is to lick her ear during intercourse. Her ear is very sensitive. The second is romantic kissing (snogging). The only real position for this is missionary, so we use that for her orgasm. We can then switch to others for mine if we want. Try to discover if she has a sensitive spot that is accessable in some position. See if that works.
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (13 December 2007):
 75% of women do not reach orgasm by penetration alone. So that's really pretty normal. The fact that she is having orgasms means you are doing something right! It's early days still. She probably needs more time to get more comfortable with sex. Don't push too hard. She'll probably come around to trying more with time and encouragement. Make sure that you romance her still, sex is entirely between the ears for most women. Good luck with everything and Congratulations on your marriage.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2007): That may be normal for most of the women in this part of the world. Tell her that having sex is not sinning, it may be hard to convince her bcoz most of the females in this part of the world are made to believe this way. The finger part is ok bcoz that's child's play. You should try going slow and nice and also don't force her into oral thing as the women don't take that easily. Any way, good luck.
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