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Archived questions from: December, 2007 (see latest questions)

Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I want to make out with him, but I'm worried I'll make a fool of myself!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6151 days ago

31 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i have had a boyfriend for a month, and i really want to make out with him...but im worried that when it comes time, ill mess up and make a fool of myself. Help!!... (37 words)

Is he worth being with?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6168 days ago

31 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, well earlier on today I had sent a message about how the father of my baby had proposed to me but I didn't know what to do or say whether YES or NO because of what he has done to me in the past. Well anyways in the morning I was cleaning up and then I decided to pop out,... (716 words)

I have a long problem. Please help me.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6161 days ago

31 December 2007 (?) age 36-40 - I no longer know what to do. I feel as though my BF and I are getting inside this never ending suffering... Ok, I'm 19. He's 22. I have asked for help with this before, but even though he says it hasn't I feel this has gotten worse. He has issues with my past. This is a ... (1474 words)

He slept with THREE different women while on a road trip. His excuse was "He had needs". I'm very hurt. What should I do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

31 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - this past summer my boyfriend went on a month long road trip with his buddies. i stayed home to work for tuition money, so i couldnt go along. he called me everyday and we talked for a while. i never suspected anything bad was going on. but just a few days ago one of his ... (226 words)

Is there something wrong with my weight?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6161 days ago

31 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 13 year old young woman with a lot of issues about the way I looke. I look pretty tiny. I am 5'0.5' tall and I weigh like 125 pounds. Do you think there is something wrong with my weight?... (42 words)

Everytime we have a sleep over, we end up kissing! Am I a lesbian?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6040 days ago

31 December 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - hi i have a best friend we have been friends for 5 years we are still at school and in year 7. and we often have sleepovers and everytime she comes and sleeps around mine we end up kissing and i dont know what to do i think she really fancies me but i think i fancy her to also ... (81 words)

Did he go too far or is it my fault? I feel somewhat violated although we did not have sex.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6167 days ago

31 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok this is kind of an awkward question to ask but I need to know. Today I hooked up with this kid. I'm really not very experienced but this seemed odd to me. The minute we started kissing he tried to unzip my pants and made it clear that he wanted to have sex. I told him that I ... (216 words)

My period is starting just before I'm suppose to meet my boyfriend for a romantic trip away. How can I tell him I can't sleep with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6167 days ago

31 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi! I was just wondering if anyone had any advice. I'm meeting my boyfriend for a romantic night away in 2 days but my period is just about to start. I have a really irregular cycle at the moment so there was no way i thought it would come this week. I still really want to s... (88 words)

I want a relationship with my friend with benefits. Please advise!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6168 days ago

31 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so i'm a highschooler. I've very recently started to have a "friends with benefits" relationship with this guy at my highschool...i pretty much met him to hook up with him (bad me =[ ) but anyways, before it gets too deep into it...i'm realizing i actually would like thi... (112 words)

Still in love with my first love. Can you help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6168 days ago

31 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Too make a long story short. I am still in love with my ex. We have a 5 yr history but our relationship only lasted 11 months because of his family and my church family not approving. He has a baby on the way but his girlfriend doesn't do anything for him. He shows me signs ... (88 words)

His mother STILL MOTHERS HIM and that makes it hard to accept our relationship. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6168 days ago

31 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, ok my problem is quite silly really, but i am with a realy great man in a relationship and have been for over a year now. i find it difficult to accept his relationship that he has with his mother. we are both adults, but she treats him like a child and he has to ask pe... (107 words)

Why do women love to be treated badly?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4901 days ago

31 December 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Now this will cause a stir.. and to the girls on this board. i mean no offence but someone has to say it. Why do women like/love to be treated like crap? i'm 25 years old. i don't drink, don't smoke. and i don't do drugs. i'm by no means God's gift to women however i'm ... (252 words)

His parents aren't happy because our familes are from different backgrounds. What can we do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6159 days ago

31 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I am currently having problems with my boyfriend. Basically, im not sure if im over reacting on an issue that has come up. Me and my partner come from different backgrounds. Im white british and he is british asian. I knew when we started the relationship the... (199 words)

Isn't his behaviour over friendly for a teacher?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5649 days ago

31 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, Okay so... this is the christmas holidays from school right? but i cant seem to stop thinking about my teacher "/ its so werid i dno wht to say or do anymore. I dont think it is all me however, as he does have his part to play in it, i may be over friendly with him... (893 words)

Should I break up by email, as it's the easiest method for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6168 days ago

31 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, i was wondering what is the easiest way to break up with my long time girlfriend? I know face to face is probably the best way but i cannot handle her crying, last time i tried to break it off i couldnt go through with it and took her back. And i also know that it isn... (83 words)

How do I make him want me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6156 days ago

31 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Im gonna be specific in this question and give detail, im 15, and i met someone a year older than me through a friend, we got chatting and everytime my friend was chillin with me, i would ask him 2 come round aswell, because at first i felt more comfortable having my friend ... (572 words)

When I am near him I either become too shy, either go in a verbal frenzy. Why? And how to ask him out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6168 days ago

31 December 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I really like this boy who I go to a club with at school. I want to ask him out I just cant, Im normally really outgoing but when Im around him I either go really shy or talking loads and I really dont know what to do. Please help I would really like it! From Tishatas... (59 words)

Why would a man remark the relationship has no future, yet carry on with it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6168 days ago

31 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - can anyone explain why my boyfriend says we aint got a future together yet he wont finish with me... (19 words)

How do I get this boy to leave me alone?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5360 days ago

31 December 2007 (?) age 30-35 - Theres this boy at School who likes me. He stocks me,fallows me and keeps calling my name. I usely ignore people I don't even like as a friend. I block them out. He keeps telling me how pretty I am and keeps asking me out. I don't even like him as a friend. HEs ... (220 words)

He's coming on strongly and I'm scared. I think I want to break up. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6167 days ago

31 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - So I have been with my beau for about a 6 weeks now. He is very much in love with me, but I don't share quite as intense of feelings. He is a great guy and amazing to be with, but I would rather him just as a friend. The problem is I know we have only been together a short ... (210 words)

How can I get rid of warts?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6169 days ago

31 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I just found out that having warts means you have HPV, im really down because im on my second out break with them within the last year,im so ashamed im now a carrier, is there anything i can do get rid of them forever?... (44 words)

Am I setting myself up for a fall?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6169 days ago

31 December 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I'm in my early forties and started a relationship with a woman in her thirties studying in a nearby city; she's from abroad, and returned to her home country after we'd been seeing each other for several weeks. By arrangement, I went to stay with her there for three weeks and ... (580 words)

I just broke up with him and he hasn't spoken since. Should I text him or what?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6169 days ago

31 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - If there was anytime i need some help i need it now, i just broke up with my boyfriend and i dont just feel emotionally sick but i also feel physically sick...like i cant breathe and my stomach is in knots. This is the worst feeling in the world and i just cant take it. We bro... (235 words)

I feel guilty after a drunken night! Help me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

31 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - okay so here goes the story....i met my partner 7 years ago and we were fantastic, we love eachother so much! but from i have been with him, he has always texted "this friend" he met on the internet ( who happens to live ten minutes away) they met once or twice before we got ... (310 words)

Do condoms really work?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

31 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so im really in love with my boyfriend and we want to have sex. Im scared the condom may break and so is he. He has everything going for him amaazing soccer player, super hot, and smart. He feels like it would be one of those " he had everything and then knocked up some ... (114 words)

How can I tell if I'm too loose down below?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6169 days ago

31 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i hear some of the guys out in the pub talk about girls being really loose down bellow, how can i tell if im 1 of them? do you get it from having 2 much sex?... (36 words)

Does he have 'Courtship Nerves'?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6169 days ago

31 December 2007 (F)

age - Any body language experts reading? I've recently met a man at work and feel a powerful attraction to him. My instinct tells me he's interested too, but to be sure, I've been trying to read his non-verbal body language. He is a very self-assured, in control kind of man, spe... (146 words)

I feel so guilty, I deleted a text from his ex girlfriend without him knowing, am I wrong?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5825 days ago

31 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel so guilty, I saw a text from my boyfriend's ex girlfriend on Christmas Day saying she missed him, and I deleted it, so he has no idea she text. The background on this is that they broke up a year ago, just after Christmas. I have been with my boyfriend since ... (228 words)

My boyfriend ejaculates too quickly all the time, how do I help this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

31 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together a year. We have sex fairly regularly, between one to four times a week. His problem is that most of the time he comes to soon. He likes to make sure I have an orgasm everytime we have sex, he's a very generous lover, but it's quite s... (216 words)

We are 'friends with benefits'...Is that all he sees me as?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6169 days ago

31 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hey all! Ok this might sound confusing or something but id really like your veiws... K....... I met this guy on the internet around 5 years ago he's 31 and im 20,and he's what you can call a friend with benefits. We've been sleeping together since then apart from when i star... (190 words)

We've been together 6 years but he's told me he loves his ex as much as me, and he wouldn't be able to resist her if the chance came up. Do I stay or leave him??

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5454 days ago

31 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My partner and I have been together for 6 years and I have a Daughter from a previous relationship who calls my partner Dad(No contact with my ex).When we first got together he explained that he and his ex were still friendly and i accepted that.Then his ex met someone else and ... (237 words)

I told him how I feel but he doesn't take me seriously, what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6169 days ago

31 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - this sounds rather silly but im a confused teanager, ive grown up to quickly. and theres a boy i like alot. were close freinds, and he said he likes me to. but hes got a girlfreind, who doesn't like me. hes breaking up with her soon though. ive already todl him how i feel... (80 words)

My friend is 7 months pregnant and in denial, after hiding the pregnancy from everyone

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6169 days ago

31 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I've just found out my friend is 7 months pregnant - but she's kept the pregnancy a secret from everyone - family, friends, the father of the child (it was a one night stand with a friend). She's in total denial and won't talk to anyone about it. No one knows if she wan... (252 words)

My girlfriends want sex but I'm scared I'll feel guilty

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6169 days ago

31 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am 23 I have two girlfriends who wants to have sex with me. but i fear guilty after having sex with them. although I am interested in sex with them. We dont have a long time plan or marriage plan as such. but fear of guilt after sex is stopping me. Kissing or... (121 words)

What is adequate wear for a wedding, please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6148 days ago

31 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been invited to a wedding, please excuse the fact that this isn't entirely a "dear cupid" question, but I would really asppreciate some advice as to what I should wear! I haven't been to a wedding since I was 10...I'm just really stuck as to what I'm supposed to wear... (62 words)

I ejaculate too soon, please help!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4564 days ago

31 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi I've just turned 17 and me and my girlfriend have started having sex. Everythings fine and i have an erection and then we start doing it and i ejaculate in less than 1 minute. I dunno whats going on. Sometimes i can only last for 30 seconds and i dunno why. I reall... (131 words)

I want to know whether my husband's comments and attitude towards me are "normal" or whether they are an indiciation of an inappropriate temperament.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6169 days ago

31 December 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I want to know whether my husbands comments and attitude towards me are just 'normal' or whether they are an indiciation of a much worse temperament. It seems ridiculous of me to ask but, having put up with things for so long I feel somehow incapable of knowing for sure. Its ... (402 words)

I've wanted her for just under 5 years, she's been in a relationship all this time, should I tell her how I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6169 days ago

31 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - A few years ago in high school I met a girl who was wonderful, beautiful, intelligent, etc. We hung with the same crowd so we were friends and spent time together as a group. I guess I developed a crush on her. I always wanted to ask her out or to dance with me at the school ... (315 words)

When should I tell a man that I have HPV?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6166 days ago

31 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a 21 year old single female and i was just wondering when to tell a man im interested in that i have an STD. I dont want to scare him off (im pretty sure i have done that in the past) by doing it too soon, but i dont want him to think i was hiding it. I have HPV, and i ... (93 words)

My partners daughter resents me, how do I handle this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6168 days ago

31 December 2007 (M)

age - Dear Cupid. This has got to be a recurrent problem. I adore my partner. We met at work, and our feelings grew from there. She has 3 children, the eldest, a boy of 18, and the youngest, who is a girl of 8, have presented, and continue to present, some challenges - qui... (204 words)

My 24 year old son has started drinking again after 7 years of sobrioty

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6169 days ago

31 December 2007 (F)

age - My 24 year old son has started drinking again after 7 years of sobrioty....What should I do?... (17 words)

Is there too much of an age gap? Should I ask her out or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6104 days ago

31 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - there is this girl that i work with, she is very beautiful and very nice as well, me and her have lately been talking about some things flirting a little bit and i really would like to see if there is anything there between us, and ask her out on a date but there might be a ... (151 words)

Where is the clit?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6169 days ago

31 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, im 13 and i would like to know... what and where is the clit (clitoris) please be specific when explaining thanx... (39 words)

How do I tell if he has feelings for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6169 days ago

31 December 2007 (F) - For New Years Eve I am hanging out with a group of my girl friends, my neighbor, and a bunch of his friends. Secretly, i have had a crush on my neighbor for the past 4 years. It's not a steady crush because I have had boyfriends in between, but i always end up liking him after ... (291 words)

I don't want my ex to be hurt that I've found someone else, and I don't want my church group to think I'm a slut

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6168 days ago

31 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - So I met my ex through my church youth group. We dated for a little over 3 years, but then i broke up with him. Only a few people in the youth group know that I have a new boyfriend. I'm afriad that if someone finds out, they will go and tell my ex. I don't want to hurt my ex ... (158 words)

My newly single neighbour is 15 years older than me, I'd like advice on how to get her into bed

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6169 days ago

31 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I have known this very beautiful and fun woman in my neighborhood for about ten years. We have been friends and have enjoyed doing many things together. I am 20 and she is 35. About a year ago she was divorced and her ex is not in the picture. She has not dated much since. As ... (359 words)

Should I choose the high school sweetheart or the stable friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6168 days ago

31 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am getting married in a couple of months. Today we had a high school class reunion and I saw someone I kinda liked back then. The thing is he kinda liked me too. He is still single and we started talking and I got to asking myself whether I should get married to my bf or ... (140 words)

My boyfriend's Mom gets into our arguements and doesn't like me, do I tell her to butt out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6169 days ago

31 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend been dating for 1 year and 4 months. last night i got drunk and talked to him about everything and how i feel about him, even the bad stuff. so we got into a fight and his mom got into it. She is pathic... shes not a good mom here's why: She got ... (402 words)

He likes me alot more than I like him, should I settle for him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6166 days ago

31 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have had the ultimate worst luck with men! From being in a serious relationship for 6 years, to being with another guy for 2 years who ended things with me cos his mother controlled his every breath and hated my guts for some reason :o@ Now I have met a guy.. who likes me way ... (122 words)

16, mature for my age, dating a 25 year old for a year now. His parents approve of our relationship, but I have difficulties with my parents who've only recently found out. Suggestions?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6151 days ago

31 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - ok i am 16.... i'm mature for my age and look like im 19-22.... i hooked up with my friends brother who is 25... when we first hooked up he didn't know how old i was but assumed i was at least 18... i'd known him for awhile but we had never spoke... he found out my age abou... (232 words)