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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I have a happy marriage but I feel so lonely

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6215 days ago

15 December 2007 (F)

age - I am 60, retired and married to a wonderful husband, but over the years I have lost all of my close friends. I find that I have no friends at all and don't seem to be able to make any new ones. I have Social Phobia and feel faced with a lot of rejection which causes so much ... (132 words)

His dad told me he liked me, he said he didn't, but I still really like him, he's my first crush.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6216 days ago

15 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I met a guy at my uncle's party about2a months ago, but we didn't get much time to talk. His dad said to me that he liked me, but i wasnt sure whether it was true or not; but i really liked him. Since then, i managed to get hold of his number and i phoned him to ask if he... (153 words)

My boyfriend has a bad reputation, should I be worried?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6216 days ago

15 December 2007 (?) age 51-59 - I date a physician .He cheated on his wife with his mistress.He left her and is dating me and I'm a nurse were he works.The rumors at the hospital was he cheated on both xwives.Should I let this bother me?Everybody looks at me weird when I go to work.Do they know something and ... (83 words)

He flirts and says he is interested, but is he really?? What's going on with this guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6215 days ago

15 December 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - You work with this guy. You flirt for 3 months and eventually you both confess that you like each other. You're both single and not dating, though you've just divorced. You ask him out to coffee via text message, he doesn't reply. Three days later you see him and tell him ... (389 words)

My ex forced himself on me, I'm finding it hard to come to terms with

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6214 days ago

15 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i m 20, but when i was 16 my ex boyfriend had given me a few drinks and had forced himself on me. I had repeatedly askd him to stop and get off me. I even tried pushing him away. I had felt burning and pain in and around my vagina but there was no bleeding. I was a virgin then. ... (83 words)

I lied about cheating, but how do I make him believe I didn't?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6215 days ago

15 December 2007 (F) - I broke up with my fiance a few months ago. He was an emotionally abusive guy, and towards the end of our relationship I started blurting out things like how I cheated on him when we were in arguments-but I never ever cheated on him. Then, shortly after I would say that I ... (393 words)

I feel so depressed and I have feelings for my teacher, and I can't tell my Mum

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 6024 days ago

15 December 2007 (?) age 30-35 - hi i have depression and used to hurt myself bit i dont anymore. im on medication for my depression but it still doesnt seem to be getting much better, i think it has made my anxiety worse aswell. my mum knows about it but i cant bring myself to tell her about it further. im ... (231 words)

I feel on the verge of losing my job, I feel like my boss is trying to find an excuse to fire me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6216 days ago

15 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel my boss is sending me signals of wanting to get rid of me. After 8 years, I've put the program together with the help of my old boss that I miss dearly. He has put words in my staff's mouth, my friends from different departments in the organization, and it's gotten ... (175 words)

My boyfriend worries about his penis size, what can I do to reassure him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6093 days ago

15 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend's too shy about sex cos he thinks he has a small penis (5 inches) and cums too quickly. I love him a lot but i dont understand why its bothering him so much when i am happy with him. What can i do to make him overcome his shyness? ... (51 words)

He's only with me because I'm white!! Should I be offended by this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6216 days ago

15 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of nine months told me that he's only with me because I'm white. Should i be offended? [He's half Bangli and half English]... (26 words)

Do Men like it when Women make the first move?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6215 days ago

15 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - This is a question for the men on the site. I like someones who's doing work on my house at the moment. Do men like it when woman make the first move...or ask for your number? He's back on tuesday and i want to do something about it then. Any advice would be great! tha... (62 words)

I'm worried I'm ruining something good before it even starts! How can I reverse the damage I'm doing?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6213 days ago

15 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone. I posted a question recently, and it changed and changed as time has gone on, so I thought I would post something fresh, and get some new prespectives. Last night I went out with a friend, drinking. We eventually met up with a group of girls and hung out with th... (478 words)

My boyfriend cheated. Is the relationship with the other woman serious?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6216 days ago

15 December 2007 (?) age 51-59 - My ex boyfriend and i broke up because he was seeing another chick.She had alot of baggage.She had 3 children and he has 1.Do you really think this relationship is serious? She hasn't had her children to his house and they been together 6 months.Doesn't make sense.... (47 words)

How is the right way to push out the squirt??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6154 days ago

15 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been trying to squirt during sex and oral stimulation I just cant figure out how to push out the fluid. I get to the point of feeling the sensation to 'pee' then i push but get nothing. Some people say push like you're going to pee and others say push in the sense of ... (81 words)

I like him but his english is poor, what do I do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6216 days ago

15 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 22 and i have in medical school. There is this guy that likes me but i did not take him seriously at first cos i thot he was not a serious fellow. Now getting to know him i think he is ok. THe only problem is that his English is poor and i don't know if i can cope although ... (77 words)

Do unmarried guys wear rings?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6157 days ago

15 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - This guy I know wears a silvery plainlooking ring on his ring finger, but he's never talked about it. I've seen him out at the bar, but it's always been with a guy friend, and he's not gay or anything as far as I know. Do some guys just wear rings like girls wear fake engage... (115 words)

Should I start sitting like a man with legs wide even though it makes me embarrassed?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6215 days ago

15 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - i am a 13 year old boy. i have recently noticed other boys in my classess sitting like men. - legs wide open - and am wondering weather i should start, but it embarrassess me whenever i do. i also fell dead self-conciouss when i dont. also when i do its hard for me to fight ... (70 words)

My long term boyfriend's mother can't accept me and won't clarify why. Any ideas on what I can do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5891 days ago

15 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years,on and off. We got back together on a serious basis in June. I am very frustrated cos his mum doesn;'t want to accept me.I am not allowed to go to his house. I feel humiliated by it, as I have never met the woman and I am a pretty ... (256 words)

How should I invite her out? - before somebody else does. She's always surrounded by her friends.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6216 days ago

15 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - So guys, here's the thing: I know this girl, the most beautiful one I've ever seen by the way, and I got a crush on her. We've played volley together at the club and talked by MSN like 4 times. I was wondering about asking her out, maybe go to the movies, but she's always ... (112 words)

What does it mean when the husband masturbates and looks at porn more than has sex with his wife?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6216 days ago

15 December 2007 (F)

age - what does it mean if your husband masterbates and looks at porn more than he has sex with me? [Moderator's note. Please provide more details as for example when did this situation become upsetting and when it started]... (39 words)

My wrists have been getting worse lately and it's affected my writing and fencing ability, is it family arthritis and how do I help myself?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6216 days ago

15 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I have had terrible problems with my joints. They crack and crick really easily, all I have to do it move them a tiny bit and I have days when I cant even move my neck because it's so stiff. Occasionally I will have around a week where my neck is too stiff to do anything and I ... (131 words)

I get an erection everytime I hug or kiss my gf; this embarasses me. What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5283 days ago

15 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I can't help getting an erection when I hug or kiss my girlfriend, I'll hug her and then realise hes gone stiff and then i'll detatch myself to try and stop her noticing, we've only been together for a few weeks and I dont want to have sex yet and I'm pretty sure she doesn't ... (138 words)

How should I break up with my fiancee?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6216 days ago

15 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, i posted a question awhile back about breaking up with my fiancee. all of the answers back told me that it was the right thing to do and i felt the same way going into it. Now, my new question is: What should i say to make it as less painful for her as possible? (looki... (115 words)

She leads me on and then says no. Why bother in the first place?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6216 days ago

15 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - This year I became friends with a girl who attended the same school as me. She one day asked me for my MSN and we furthered out conversations on MSN. As time passed by she seemed to keep talking to me almost every second of the day. Then one night she pushed the issue of "who I ... (689 words)

My ex says she wants me back, do you think I should trust her or not to come back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6216 days ago

15 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I recently posted a question regarding my ex-girlfriend who decided she wanted me back. Our relationship was awsome until we hit the rocks when she got snowed under with work and college work. We had a "break" which lasted a month before we called it a day. i knew during the ... (216 words)

I'm 31 weeks pregnant and the baby's movements are constant and very uncomfortable to me, what can I do to get through this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6207 days ago

15 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello everybody. This is my first time on dear cupid. I have a really unusual problem but pleeeeeeeaase can you help. I am currently 31 weeks pregnant with my second child (though my first was born at 28 weeks). I am finding it extremely difficult to cope with the movem... (145 words)

Is it alright for a boy to sit down when weeing??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6216 days ago

15 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - im a 13 year old boy and i sit down when i wee:/ i used to wee normally - standing up - but now, because sometimes the urine blasts out and splashes every where, i sit down. is this alright, and how to to it splashing?? please help, thanks:)... (55 words)

How do you tell your parents you are going out with someone??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6214 days ago

15 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - my friend has a b-friend she has been goin out with him 4 ages n she dun no how to tell her parents because they will take it serious how can she tell them ????/ please help d=she is stressed... (43 words)

He forced himself on me but it didn't hurt. Does that mean I am still a Virgin?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6204 days ago

15 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't know what happened here. My boyfriend and I were making out when he removed my clothes and told put his penis down there, he said he wouldn't penetrate that we are just playing. Before I knew it he was using force though I didn't feel any pain, then he came/cum. I went ... (144 words)

I want to ask her out but she is my best mate's ex. Is she off limits for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6216 days ago

15 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey i am 14 and i really fancy this girl, we don't talk much but when i see her we have a great time. I would just ask her out but she is my best mates ex and he was really unhappy when they broke up. I am really good mates with her best friend, and her best friend knows i ... (134 words)

I've just found out my partner of 4 years is cheating, I don't want to leave him and give the mistress the satisfaction

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6216 days ago

15 December 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I have just been told that my partner of 4 years has been having an affair with someone from his work for over a year. I have had my suspicions and have asked him but he has always denied anything has been going on. He is always very loving towards me and never spends any time ... (180 words)

Why is my friend flirting with the guy I like?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6216 days ago

15 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend flirts with nearly every boy. I wouldn't mind but she openly seems to flirt with the guy who a have a massive crush on. The over day she mentioned something about not liking her ex anymore but wanting him to fancy her anyway because it made her feel good about ... (115 words)

Is my weight normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6216 days ago

15 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 16 and weigh 10 stones is this normal?... (10 words)

My ex wants me back but his feelings are bigger than mine

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6216 days ago

15 December 2007 (F) - Latley ive been confused.. i just started getting regrets with my last relationship. he texted me a few weeks ago saying that it has been an amazing 5 months that we have been going out and that we should do something to celebrate.. this really confused me because i cannot ... (682 words)

I know he likes me and I like him. We are both shy, how do I bring it up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6216 days ago

15 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i would like to ask, there is this guy i like that i study with. i have had a conversation with him and from that converstaion he told me that he likes me and he has guessed i like him too. a while went by and we didnt speak about that converstaion however the awkwardness ... (163 words)

My friend is in a very abusive relationship, how do I handle it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

15 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My friend is in a relationship which is emotionally and physically abusive. Her boyfriend takes drugs. I've known her boyfriend longer than she has, he's a nice guy on the cover, but deep down very paranoid and insecure. He's had a strange upbringing, very rich and always ... (335 words)

I have feelings for my TA and he seems to reciprocate them, but he is in a relationship

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

15 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - First of all, he's my TA. We are both in our early to mid 20s, so age isn't too much of a factor. I've also been getting very high A's in the class, so grades don't make a difference either. I've always thought he was cute, but didn't start getting a crush on him until half-way ... (310 words)

I love him so much, but don't really miss him when he's away, is what I feel normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6216 days ago

15 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my boyfriend nearly a year. We live together and have been friends for 10 years. He works away for a few weeks at a time. While I do miss him (sometimes very much, sometimes not bery much, depending on how busy I am etc) sometimes I feel like when he's gone, I ... (96 words)

His friendship with his ex is a big cause for concern for me...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6214 days ago

15 December 2007 (F)

age - I have been living with my significant other for about a year and a half, and his best friend is his ex-girlfriend, whom he used to be deeply in love with, and she with him. He told me they never officially broke up, just sorta drifted apart when he saw her and her girlfriend ... (1600 words)

His ex can't let go of him, I can't stop checking up on him and her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

15 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my boyfriend for 9 months. We had alot of hassle from his ex int he beginning, who even after 7 months of being broken up, could't let him go. He gives me open access to everything, emails, phone bill, etc. I trust him that he wouldn't cheat but I can't he... (263 words)

He seemed to only want sex, but I wanted to get to know him. But does his friend have feelings for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6216 days ago

15 December 2007 (F)

- Hoping the agony aunts can help me here. Same old story. I met a guy and he wanted to go to bed right away. I wanted the time to get to know him. He did not want to wait so that did not go anywhere. Problem was that I was really interested and a little let down that he did not ... (244 words)

My ex says he wants to be friends but ignores me...Should I just forget him and move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6216 days ago

15 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I broke up but we still talk and go out together. He moved into a new apartment and had a party. He didn't want me to go. Then on his birthday he made plans to do things and I wasn't included. He asked me to understand but I can't. He says he wants me around ... (77 words)

Does having anal sex mean you are not a virgin?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6216 days ago

15 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - this may sound stupid but if you have bum sex with your partner or anyone for that matter of fact does that mean you have lost your virginity or not? plz reply thanks... (35 words)

I feel like I have no luck, I feel down and unhappy

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6127 days ago

15 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i am not sure if i have depression, i feel really down all the time like there is nothing worth while in my life,i feel useless in evrything and a string of bad luck lately has added to that.my mum has been taken into hospital and may now need a carer, my boyfriend dumped me ... (145 words)

I've heard about guys going limp, what does it mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6216 days ago

15 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hey to all... well im just a bit curious to what limp means. i was looking through the site and i often came accross questions about how guys start to go limp when their girlfriends go down on them. so can someone please tell me. thanx and happy holidays xoxo... (66 words)

I've been holding out on sex for 6 months, is it a possibility he might start looking elsewhere?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6216 days ago

15 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of 6 months is very affectionate with me i.e holding my hand, kissing, etc, but at the same time I am confused. I know that relationships settle down after a while, but we haven't yet had sex. This is in part because my ex-boyfriend lied to me about wanting a ... (340 words)

I can't seem to reach orgasm

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6216 days ago

15 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - i cant reach orgasm!! when i masturbate, sometimes i will place my penis between a pillow and a mattress and pump as if havin sex. but however long i do this for i cannot reach orgasm! it will feel as if i am about to when i fantasise but then it will go again, and this ... (87 words)

Can pre-cum cause pregnancy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6216 days ago

15 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I penetrated my girlfriend without a condom [I regret it...] and now we're worried whether pre-cum can cause pregnancy? I had not discharged earlier, i.e, before the penetration. She did take the NorLevo pill the same day, but could someone tell me whether the pill[morning ... (55 words)

My fiancee snooping in my emails, can I trust her?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6194 days ago

15 December 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I am a little unsure what to do about my fiancée who reads my emails. She first did it while I was in Iraq for one year. She read an email from an ex-girlfriend of 6 years before, which I always had some contact to. In the email, we discussed her relationship with someone. At ... (458 words)

What should I do about my emotional rollercoaster relationship with my daughetr's daddy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6215 days ago

15 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been on an emotional roller coaster ride with my daughter's dad. We've have been off and on in our relationship. When he gets mad at me, he doesn't talk to me for a few days. I would have to be the one calling him back. Then he decides he wants to call it quits ... (144 words)

I feel like my teacher is flirting with me, I've had a crush on him for a while now

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6195 days ago

15 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a junior in high school and I've had a crush on a teacher since my freshman year. He's always looked at me and been nice to me, but now he seems like he's going out of his way to see me and talk to me. During his prep period and my off period he always comes to the ... (139 words)

We barely do the nasty 3 times a week now!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6216 days ago

15 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi im having a bit of relationship problems,i have been with my partner for 4yrs now and i have quiet a high sex drive to b honest(well im only 22) we used to have a great sex life but lately we dont. i know hes not playing away because we r always together. we barely have... (254 words)

Where do I find decent girls with morals? Do they still exist?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6214 days ago

15 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi all, I have been a little troubled lately. Yesterday I was chatting with a guy 4 years older than me online and I found out that he is a rich sex hound. Sex-crazed, no morals, rich, conceited and he doesn't give a damn about screwing around. As for me on the other hand, ... (158 words)

Should I let her back, or should I move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6216 days ago

15 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - First, thank you for reading. Please bear with me; I have a lot on my mind. It's also a pretty screwed up situation, but then again, why else would I be writing for advice from strangers? I am a good-looking college grad, 22 y.o. who is in law school right now. I met my ex... (1031 words)

Why did I feel such an urge to tell my boyfriend I did things that I really never did, like cheating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6216 days ago

15 December 2007 (F) - What is wrong with me? When I was with my ex I sometimes used to make up stories about guys hitting on me. And once I even said I cheated but none of this stuff was true. I told him a few minutes later that it wasn't true. But, my question is, why would I say these things? I'm ... (203 words)

Keeping the pubic area "trim" and avoiding the sore irritation! Suggestions?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6216 days ago

15 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - hi i heard that it is good to keep "trim" etc down below so recently shaved my pubic area a tiny bit, just mainly around my vagina and at the edges of panty line however it is now really sore and itchy and i was wondering if there are any others ways I can go about just "cont... (77 words)

I'm out of the country and wrote an e-mail to my friend's boyfriend who I like, but he didn't reply. When I get back home I will have to be around him, what shall I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6216 days ago

15 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been out of the country for 4 months and a guy who i really really miss and i think i may like him as more then a just a friend also happens to be one my friends boyfriend, anyways i erote him an e-mail about over a month ago and he hasnt replied to me yet, i dont know ... (86 words)

I'm scared of confrontation! How can I feel more comfortable with disputes with my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6215 days ago

15 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guys, I'm petrified of confrontation and argument, I don't know where this has come from, I came from an okay home and no one has been abusive to me, but I systematically avoid disagreements at all costs-i even broke off things with my ex only because I wanted to avoid ad... (312 words)

I have a crush on another girl, but I didn't admit to her I am bisexual too. Don't feel ready to tell her, so what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5498 days ago

15 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so ever since I was younger I've been attracted to both boys and girls. So lately I've been hanging out with my friend who is Bi and I have a crush on her. The problem is I haven't came out yet about being bi. And a few days ago somebody asked me if I'm bi too because ... (171 words)

Is it true that if a boy says gross stuff to you it means he likes you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6216 days ago

15 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay well I'm a 13 year old girl so I am still in Public school. This guy has been like flirting and bugging me. First hes all sweet and when he is with his friend he gets all sexual towards me. Today when I was in art class he called my name and I looked over and he smiled and ... (99 words)

I have feelings for him and want to regain the friendship, but how?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6216 days ago

15 December 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - i have gone to school with this guy since i can remember. our parents were friends and we were as well. i have had feelings for him that seem to be off and on. i really like him and want us to be close. the problem is that now we are in highschool we have drifted apart and i ... (102 words)

Would you say I'm addicted to porn? And is it illegal to watch porn when only 13 years old?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6216 days ago

15 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello i have been watch porn for maybe 5-6months..I know at my age with just want to learn about this stuff but i seem to be addicted like ill be watching tv and then ill get a sence that i should go watch some Is this against the law in virginia for a 13 year old watc... (66 words)