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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He broke up with me because I did not sleep with him. Then he met another girl who got pregnant and married her. Now, 7 months later he called me to say he misses me, what is going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6177 days ago

22 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hiya, i am 21 and have a problem . I met a guy when i was 15 and was seeing him since for the last 4 years. He left me when i was 19 because i did notr sleep with him due to religious reasons. He then slept with someone else...realised that he is not happy with her, he came ... (164 words)

Should I put myself in this dangerous situation??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6177 days ago

22 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Last year i had a teacher for grade ten, he paid a lot of attention to me during his lectures, and inevitably i became increasingly atrracted to him. He was (to quote my friend)sexy, and irresistable to like. However, he did pay too much attention to me and another girl, an... (556 words)

I want my Turkish bf to come to England but don't want to have to marry me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6113 days ago

22 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help really badly! I really love my Turkish boyfriend and i really want him to come to England but i don't want to marry him as i am a bit too young as you no alot of people say turkish men only want one thing. I know he doesn't, i love him, what can i do? thanks x ... (65 words)

My bf is so loving but I just don't seem to want sex and its tearing me apart.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6170 days ago

22 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a loving boyfriend we have been together about 10 months now, but for some strange reason i just don't want sex? I don't remember being like this with my ex's, but i have never felt this strongly about anyone before. I was sexually harrassed as a little girl and ... (70 words)

How can I get my bf interested in being a dad??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6177 days ago

22 December 2007 (F) - Ive been with my bf for 6 weeks but i was sleeping with him before that and now i'm showing all the symptoms of pregnancy. The condom split 3 weeks ago during sex and i my bf is giving mixed signals first he says he cant wait to be a dad and talking of how hes going to make mon... (116 words)

When should I take my morning after pill??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6177 days ago

22 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - The condom broke at around 7pm today, what time tomorrow should I ask the chemist for 'the morning after pill', what time do I need to take the pill before to ensure no pregnancies, and do my parents have to know?... (41 words)

Is 13 - 17 too much of an age gap??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6177 days ago

22 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 13 turning 14 in a month. He's 17 turning 18 in a month. Is he to old for me? He's had sex and i havent i told him that and he is absoulute cool with it. But is he to old by 4 years? x... (51 words)

Me and my ex are best friends but he gets mad every time I hook up with anybody else and I feel jealous too.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6177 days ago

22 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I ended a year long relationship last Valentines Day. After the initial break up we were able to maintain friendship, and presently are best friends who date a little. The catch is, we both hook up with other people now, and as much as he says hes over me, hes gets very ang... (108 words)

Me and my cousin are in love and thinking of moving out of state.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6158 days ago

22 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I've fallen in love with one of my cousin, and we are thinkin about moving out of state so we can really be together,what should we do?... (27 words)

How can I stop being insecure in my relationships??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6177 days ago

22 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 15 and have always been insecure in relationships and myself, but have only just realised. I really hate being like this, I constantly feel that my boyfriend will leave me for another girl; I suppose I feel this way because I feel I'm not as pretty as some girls in... (127 words)

Any advice on getting past something like this - an infidelity? How to forgive?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6162 days ago

22 December 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I'm 37 years old and I've been with my wife for 16 years. I just found out that she's had an affair with a person at her job… We seem to both want to work things out but I’m not sure I can put that behind me, at least not anytime soon… Any advice on getting past something like ... (66 words)

Is there anything I can do to win him back or is he right and is this for the best??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6131 days ago

22 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I hope someone can help me. I've been with my boyfriend for a year now, well until last weekend. ?He's in the royal navy and has been serving in the gulf for the last 3 months - due back April next year. Before he went we had a few ups and downs due to his insecurities... (312 words)

I think I love him but he is saying he still likes my friend!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6170 days ago

22 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I used to be seeing this lad ages ago and then we broke up but he was seeing my best friend recently but now shes seeing sumbody else. I really like him still - i actually think i love him. He's sending out messages tht he likes me but his friend has told me he still likes my... (70 words)

She's under the impression it's her idea to take things slow, when in fact it's mine! I noticed strange reactions, should I be worried?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6178 days ago

22 December 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Is this girl crazy or what? So I met another girl online, but this one seems to be a little loopy. She doesnt really make sense to me. The first night we talked she was already to come over or the night. I wasnt sure If I really wanted a strange person in my house. ... (221 words)

Progressing a student/teacher relationship

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6170 days ago

22 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - when I was in 8th grade, 13 years old, I became extremely close with my teacher. He was always there for me and I spent a lot of free time with him. I truly admired/still admire him and I have very strong feelings for him. It's years later and I haven't gotten over how I feel. ... (215 words)

I had a "fling" with my cousin (he's adopted.) Now, seeing him after a year I want to advance, but how?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5968 days ago

22 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, I had a "fling" with my cousin and I think he loves me and I might love him..we aren't blood related, he's adopted. We did things but we didn't have sexual intercourse. I didn't see him for a year(trying to let him go.) but then I seen him and godly..do i want him. We ... (75 words)

In my thirties, broke, single and unemployed, my family is toxic. How can I leave?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

22 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm broke, unemployed, have to live with parents in my thirties in a small house and mother won't give me the respect I deserve as an adult professional woman I have more than 8K in credit card debt, more than 35k in students loans (I don't have to pay these for a while just ... (422 words)

He says there's not enough passion, what do I do about it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6177 days ago

22 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have just had a bit of an arguement, more a discussion. He says he feels there isn't enough passion in the relationship, and can't see himself staying with someone 5, 10, 15 years with no passion. I thought our sex life has been fine, sometimes we hav... (290 words)

My gf is ex-anorexic and has mental issues, becoming moody. If I don't behave in a certain way she gets mad and breaks up, which is emotional straining for me. How do I cope?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6167 days ago

22 December 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - hello I a a lesbian any my girlfriend is really feminine and I am too, but not as much as her. we've been together 9 months. She wants me to treat her like I was man as far as doing things for her. She is also ex anorexic and does have mental issues and becomes moody. If i do... (123 words)

14, I performed oral sex on him without a condom. He didn't ejaculate, could I have gotten any disease?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6178 days ago

22 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am going out with this guy who is 2 years older than me. The other day we told each other that we loved each other and that we never want to lose each other. because he made me happy, i gave him a blowjob, 3 times. He said that i was really good, but he pushes my head so ... (124 words)

I'm 16, we used protection but I'm nevertheless scared by the idea of an unwanted pregnancy. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6178 days ago

22 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I a 16 year old Christian. i just had sex with my boyfriend last week. we were protected but i'm still scared of getting pregnant. i'm not on the pill, but he did use the condom. i just have all these thoughts running through my mind.."WHAT IF!?" and it just scares me. What ... (57 words)

How can I stop him blackmailing me, as I am becoming scared?? We've had a turbulent relationship so far, now live together as lodges.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6178 days ago

22 December 2007 (F)

age - I have been in my current relationship for 6 years, living together for 3 of those. We have had a turbulent relationship to say the least, it has been a 'can't live with or without you' type. We decided last xmas to split, however, we have been renovating our property and ... (287 words)

My bf has trust issues for years now and I don't think any proof is enough for him. Do I stay or leave him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6177 days ago

22 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of 4 years thinks that i have cheated on him, which i haven't. This has been going on for years now and i don't no what to do. I don't think he will ever believe me and there is no way for me to prove it. i love him so much, but i dont no if he feels the same any... (95 words)

He's newly divorced and has already found a new gf. Would I sound clingy if I write him a Christmas card? - in symbol I'm there for him/as friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6178 days ago

22 December 2007 (F)

age - It turns out that the guy I really like has a new girlfriend (sure it's a rebound thing, she doesn't seem his type at all, and he's just divorced). He knows I like him, but now I feel self concious about sending him a Christmas card - I would like to remain friends, or sort... (99 words)

Is my gf trying to tell me something by only initiating sex when she knows I'm likely to say no?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6177 days ago

22 December 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - My girlfriend only ever seems to REALLY want sex on the day when it's most uncomfortable for me. I do pretty intense phsiotherapy once a week and afterwards I drive straight to pick my kids up from their schools. By the time I get home I'm really aching. Then my girlfriend ... (102 words)

Sometimes I feel I should end the relationshop purely because of age difference and people's disapproval... but I'd be so unhappy and miss him. What do you think?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6166 days ago

22 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there, I am 23 and my boyfriend is 42.We have been together almost 2 years.He is divorced with no children. When we met we became great friends and gradually got together..we are now living together and things are great. However, when people ask how old my boyfriend ... (174 words)

I cheated and now I'm pregnant but I don't know who is the father of my baby. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5822 days ago

22 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My question is... I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years and have never gotten pregnant despite how many times he has came in me. He is a huge pot smoker as well. I cheated on him and the new guy came in me (who is as healthy as a horse and does not do any drugs at all) and ... (85 words)

I cheated and everytime we are apart I think about how horrible I have been to him.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6178 days ago

22 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I cheated on my boyfriend when we first started going out 9 months ago. I told him though and he's forgiven me. Everythings perfect and i couldnt ask for anything more. But i often get upset and wonder why he's still going out with me. He assures me that he has forgiven me and ... (97 words)

My male mates tell me that my best friend likes me back - but I don't want to ruin our friendship if I tell him this. Your opinions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5967 days ago

22 December 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey, I like this boy and my male mates say that he likes me back. I am sure he doesn't i really don't know who to belive. Should i tell him or what. If i tell him i am scared that it will ruin our friendship as best mates! what should i do? please i need answers. We are... (66 words)

I'm a 32 yr old male who uses a wheel chair, and I am in love with my best friend. How should I tell her? Advise please.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6174 days ago

22 December 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello everyone. Bit nervous. Never done anything like this before. Never needed this kind of advice before. OK, here’s the (ridiculous) situation: I’m a 32yo male who uses a wheelchair (very relevant detail), and I work with my best friend, a wonderful happy-go-lucky girl of ... (249 words)

How can I get over my Christmas grief??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6178 days ago

22 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya, I'll understand when you read this is you just tell me to grow up and get over it but i really need some help. Around November my dog that i'd had since i was 6 got quite ill and we didn't know what was wrong with her and in December she went to an animal hospital ... (369 words)

How do I tell my partner I no longer want us to be together? And will I regret it if I end it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6177 days ago

22 December 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - How do I tell my partner that I no longer want us to be together? And will I regret it if I end things? My partner and I had been seeing each other for just over 4 years when we split up in February. He then kept texting me and desperately wanted to give our relationship ano... (168 words)

I feel I'm betraying my best friend because I fell in love with her bf. If I distance myself, they will be suspicious, so which is teh best solution?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6030 days ago

22 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hey..im kind of new here but there is a question i gotta ask to solve cause i feel so painful.. I fell in love with a guy and that guy happened to be my "Bestest sister in the world"'s boyfriend. Can someone help me? Tell me what to do?! Im really confused and stuff,cause ... (305 words)

Instead of waiting for my doubts to be confirmed I blurted out, now she is super defensive and I am paranoid. Ideas?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 6159 days ago

22 December 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - recently- 6 months i have thought my wife has being playing away i have 9 pages of doubts what finnaly confirmed it for me was receiving some weird almost abusive, scary jokey texts from my so called friend then having their communication verified by finding his n... (154 words)

My friend messes me about but I really like him, even though I have a boyfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6178 days ago

22 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am mates with this guy who is a year younger than me. We have done loads of stuff together over the past year but we never went out. He stopped talking to me for a month and then started to text me again last night. He wants to get with me and is saying to me that he loves me ... (136 words)

She said she'd like to go out with me but I'm not her type. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6178 days ago

22 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I've like this girl for about a year now and she just recently told me that I was "super nice, cute, and a really good guy" and that she would go out with me but I'm not her type. She says that she usually dates guys who give her butterflies and I don't give her those. So what ... (61 words)

I'm always super-frustrated when they go out together, my gf and her cousin. I'm afraid her cousin who is dishonest and promiscuous will trick her into being the same way.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6178 days ago

22 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I don't want to seem to be a shallow, judmental guy, but I need to get opinions. I have a major problem with my girlfriend's cousin, whom she spends a lot of time with. The first thing is that she is untrustworthy. We are both adults, and I am Christian. At church, she ... (337 words)

How can I compete with my 'cute' friend??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6178 days ago

22 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - We are a group of three friends...2 guys 1 girl...problem i like this girl, my friend(other guy) knows it...we all hang out a lot...i like it when i am with her only because she notices me....but when we are all three together...it just seems she pays more attention to him a ... (206 words)

We have verbally abusive fights that spiral into rage and tears. Can we learn how to fight and how to negociate? How??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6177 days ago

22 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'm a woman who is very much in love with my boyfriend of 3 years. He loves me very much too and we have become entangled in a deep, intense, but complicated relationship. I say complicated because there are extreme highs and extreme lows. We go through phases where... (319 words)

My boss told me to do something and now I feel like I'm going to get fired

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6176 days ago

22 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - For the past few days, I have a feeling I may get fired for something my boss told us to do, knew about and therefore, continued on doing. We had a meeting this past Wednesday and denied 90 percent of it. His boss believed him. He made me look like a liar. He also g... (245 words)

Should I be happy for them, or jealous?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6177 days ago

22 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of almost 2 years recently broke up...it's has been about a month...and we are both in new relationships..but the only problem is that i think i'm still in love with him...i like my new boyfriend but i'm really not into him...but my ex says he is in love with his ... (105 words)

A Christmas present adequate for a recently started relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6176 days ago

22 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - So I have been with my bo for about a month now and he is quite the sweetheart. I really want to do something special for him as a Christmas present, but I don't want it to be something too serious, but I also don't want it to be lame or cheesy either...any ideas? If it hel... (82 words)

Help with emotional issues and complicated relationship. I don't know what to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6178 days ago

22 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been in love with a girl at my school for my entire High School carrer and im in my last year and i was with her off and on this last year. Because she wont stay away from her user and abusive boyfriend who has never had a job and for the last half a year he broke up ... (875 words)

My boyfriend has a split personality

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6177 days ago

22 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - ok me and my bf have been going out for the last 2 months and i have found out he has split personalitys and one side is my bf and the other is another girls bf a long with girls online bf i don't know what to do i am in pain knowing when he is with another girl talking to ... (86 words)

My (and her) biggest problem - lack of sex. She is already in a relationship but we plan to act upon the mutual sexual attraction. Should we do this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6178 days ago

22 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I need help. I know what I plan to do is wrong, but it doesn't make me wanna stop. I met a girl, across the net on a game, long story short, both her and her partner share the account, he has become a good friend to me too. Although a good friend to him, she has opened ... (196 words)

Once hurt very badly by a man I loved, now I run a mile everytime I'm in a relationship getting serious because I'm terrified I'll hurt again. This way I'm hurting others as well. Advice?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6171 days ago

22 December 2007 (F)

- It's 3 A.M. and I have just got back out bed. There's something I can't get off my mind so I felt the need to ask my friends on 'dearcupid' for advice. It all started two years ago when I met a guy called Jay* we were seeing each other for around 5 months and I fell in lov... (411 words)

I can't see why my parents won't accept my boyfriend only because he used to go out with my sister. She has gone away to have their child with another man anyway, so what's the problem?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6178 days ago

22 December 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 15 and am currently dating an 18yr old boy. But my family wont accept him because he is going to be the father of my sisters baby. I started sleeping with him when she was with him but then she caught us and dumped him. She's also moved away to have the baby so i don't see ... (81 words)

My neighbour's husband suggested me to have sex with his wife. My wife may be suspicious. Do I tell her or stay away?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

22 December 2007 (M)

age - Hi over the past few month my neighbour has been giving me the come on with thing she dones. eg flashing and making sagestive conversation. last weekend i was helping her husband with a job in the garden. she was there and flashed her boobs several times. her husband asked me... (129 words)

My problem is that I'm always falling in love with girls who are my best friends or becoming friends with girls I really like. Am I going about things the wrong way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6175 days ago

22 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Im 20 and I've never had a girlfriend. My problem is that Im always falling in love with girls who are my best friends or becoming friends with girls I really like. Things normally go wrong at this point and I've been hurt this way a few times when Ive asked them out or they've ... (122 words)

Is it ok for me to date a girl that my friend had or has liked?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6178 days ago

22 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok my friend obsesed over a girl for the last few months and seemed to really like her. Well i went to a party with him and met her. We talked a lot and messed around together and had a lot of fun. Then this entire time my friend kept giving me ugly looks because she would ... (574 words)

I'm autistic and I start thinking I wasn't meant to be with anyone, not even have a real first date. I feel very sad and lonely, what can I do to feel better about myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6177 days ago

22 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Well I try to talk to most girls, some just ignore me, some turn me uninterested.I believe it is my facial expressions or the way I look, or what I say sometimes... I understand that everyone has a busy life and don't get time to meet, and stuff. whats sad is that I'm autistic ... (173 words)

My ex since 5 yrs and I now work next door to each others. She is acting in a way that makes me think she might want to go out again but I'm not sure if I'm getting the signs right, what do you think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6131 days ago

22 December 2007 (M)

- Okay, Well, my ex of 5 yrs. and I are working right next door to each other. I often stand in front to get some air, and we have run into each other at least 7 times now, in the last 3 weeks...today i saw her....she doesn't run off and cut it short, but she will talk to me.... (213 words)

My wife's sister is giving me wibes she wants me to initiate something, and since I'm in love with her and not my wife I would really like to, so why do I keep blowing my opportunities every time I get the chance??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6158 days ago

22 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - i am an unhappily married man wanting very badly to have an affair with my wife's sister...but i keep blowing the opportunites that i am getting. i am feeling very regretful and angry. i know she wants me to initiate somthing, but every time i get an opportunity i fail...i wish ... (91 words)

My boyfriend watches porn and visits gentleman clubs. I don't know what to think about all this, and what are the gentlemen really doing in their clubs??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5394 days ago

22 December 2007 (F)

- Questions, specially from all the guys out there. Do all men have to watch porn? Is it OK for a guy, who is in a relationship, to go to gentleman clubs. The thing is that I've been having problem with understanding why my bf watches porn or go to gentelman clubs (he does not ... (494 words)

The guy flirts, then ignore me, then acts shy around me, what is going on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6178 days ago

22 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I'm a 13 year old girl. This guy has been flirting with me and hes ignored me for 5 days. what does it means? but he talked to me today and he looked kind of shy when he was speaking.... (41 words)