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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Having previously used a vibrator, will my 'first time' be less painful?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6190 days ago

9 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi Guys Just a quick one, Im a 20 year old virgin and i think me and my boyfriend will be taking the next step soon enough, Now i know about protection and not to do it if its not right, my question is i have used a vibrator before so will having sex for the first time be ... (115 words)

If I lose weight will my chest get smaller?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6190 days ago

9 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - IF I lose weight will my chest size get smaller?... (10 words)

What am I doing wrong to not be court.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6190 days ago

9 December 2007 (F) age 41-50 - I'd like to know what a woman is to do that a man would pay attentions to her. I'm with my boyfriend for three years now but I never really had the feeling he would court me. What does pursuing actually means. And what I'm I to do not to pay attentions to him put lett him do ... (80 words)

Controlling love without ignoring her.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6191 days ago

9 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear all Before I begin, this is not me feeling suicidal, lol; however such info is needed to understand the ‘scene’ I live in a rural area that has no potential for ambitions and good-living and that has few people, who stand out and what to be ambitious and decent inste... (414 words)

He left me two years ago, but still keeps in contact, should I wait for him to come back to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6191 days ago

9 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i was with someone and left me for someone else two years ago! He is still with this person and has moved in with her but he still speaks to me alot, and tells me he's still interested alot! what do i do? I love him, will we ever get back together? please help!!... (54 words)

He fought with my husband over me years ago,now we both fancy each other, its not working out with my husband, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6191 days ago

9 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I am a married woman who is very confused. I am very attracted to a man that used to be friends with my husband. They were college roommates and actually got into a physical fight over me years ago. However, the guy(we'll call him john), has finally ... (126 words)

I fancy my best friends sister.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5827 days ago

9 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello. I know this site obviously for adults with real relationship problems, but I don't know who else to turn to to answer my question. I am 14 and fancy my best mate's (let's call him John) 12 year old sister (let's call her Sarah). I am pretty sure she fancies me back,... (170 words)

Can she go to a doctor and see if she's a virgin.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6191 days ago

9 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - If a 5 year-old girl did anything sexual would she still be considered a virgin at the age of 17? For example if she were to go to the doctor to get checked to see if she was a virgin or not would the doctor say that she is a virgin or that she is not a virgin?... (58 words)

I'm 16 and want to look it.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6191 days ago

9 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - this is an odd one. Im 16 and want to actually look 16... i keep getting told i look older, as old as 26. and while i do hang out with people that age and act that age... im tired of being told i look that age!! because i have horrible distinct fetures.. but i wanna l... (85 words)

I need reassurance with my decision.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6190 days ago

9 December 2007 (F) - I've posted many times on here because I'm still struggling with breaking up with my ex. I felt that he disrespected me by asking me to smoke or drink over and over after I had said no many times. He also, made me feel guilty for wanting to stop sleeping with him since I had ... (216 words)

I'm too scared to call him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6191 days ago

9 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hey people, so i need help, i really like this lad, hes in the year above me at school and hes on study leave at the mo. i feel like im going mental without him here. i think he knows i like himand we flirt when i see him but i havent seen him in days and im too scared to call ... (75 words)

Do we have hope

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6191 days ago

9 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex boyfriend and I were together for nearly three years. We broke up a couple of months ago when I found out he'd lied and cheated- not once, but many times. But now I am thinking about giving him another chance- things were good in the last year. And whatever he did was one ... (80 words)

Is something wrong with me?

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9 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 15 and I am a boy, i feel that there is something wrong with how skinny I am because most normal people are about 2 stone heavier than me and my arms are very thin so even i am not very strong compared to anyone else... (48 words)

I'm not sur if my boobs are rite help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6190 days ago

9 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi i have 2 questions. 1 is that my one of my boobs is smaller than the other, i dont always notice it but sometimes there seems to be a big difference and i get rly paranoid that boys, if they look, mite c a difference to. and numba 2 is that i somtimes notice bumps on and ... (81 words)

Does there come a time when you say "enough is enough"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6190 days ago

9 December 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid, I'm 41 and I've only ever had close friendships. Well, that's not quite true as there has been the occasional intimate encounter (and I do mean "occasional"!). I'm told I'm attractive. I'm no oil painting I know, but women seem to love my emotional awaren... (254 words)

Both in a relationship, but thinking about eachother 24x7

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6186 days ago

9 December 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - To keep it brief, i dated my ex about 13-14years ago, only for a month.I was 17 she was 15, we only ever kissed, I split up with her and apparently broke her heart. She's recently gotten back in touch with me online and we caught up with the past 10 years or so. We're bot... (285 words)

How can we have sex more frequently?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6191 days ago

9 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - A problem here. We have sex once a week (rarely twice). Well, although he is very nice to me, it's just not enough. I get sexually frustrated on day 3 and cannot stop but pick little fights about things that bother me a little. Getting my frustration out this way seems to help ... (119 words)

Should I tell her what I feel for her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6190 days ago

9 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 15 yr old girl and I kinda have a problem. Recently I found a girl that's bisexual like me and I get along with her very well. She has a personality like no other that I've met. One day she asked me If I ever had a relationship with another girl, I said that I haven't ... (177 words)

My husband sits at the dinner table playing on his laptop!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6073 days ago

9 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am married to a man who is a computer engineer. He works from home. Today, I told him that it really bothers me when we eat at the dinner table and he has his lap top on. Which means we don't talk and there is no eye contact. I even told him that it would be ok if he involved ... (203 words)

I've got a crush on my boss--really need help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6070 days ago

9 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello Am looking for advice. I have a major crush on my boss and am alienating others cos of it. I keep making a fool out of myself even though i know he is gay and even if he wasn't he wouldn;t want me. What can I do to get him out of my head? Thanks... (60 words)

My friend thinks I'm straight, but I'm in love with her!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6169 days ago

9 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I think I've always been bi.Since starting soccer(the lesbian day hangout where i'm from)I've made alot of lesbian freinds. I'm a major tom-boy so most people assume I'm gay, and I tell them I'm not. I recently kissed a girl, and it just felt good(imagined it was a different ... (373 words)

Am I being paranoid here???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6190 days ago

9 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm wondering if I have some cause for concern here... I hooked up with a girl a couple times, I like her, I'm pretty sure she likes me too. Well anyhow, I was on the phone with her today, and she told me she was waiting for her ex-bf to come how with food he bought for ... (214 words)

How do I tell a boy who works for my dad that I like him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6191 days ago

9 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My dad introduced me to a kid who works in his research lab, about a month ago. I am 15, and he is 17. I really like him, and I think he likes me. He invited me to come join a club at our high school, and always talks to me (tells me jokes, asks about classes and stuff) w... (143 words)

I am not the sociable type and the girl I confessed my love eventually said she needed somebody with "more fun in their lives." Advice, please?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6191 days ago

9 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - hey everyone, i'm sure you have come across this question many times by now, and i'm sure that some of you could actually help me. I have a problem, a socializing problem, and its getting on my nerves. a lot of close people think i'm boring and to be honest, i feel like i am... (244 words)

What to do to make anal sex not painful - except for relaxation and lube? Your suggestions please?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6188 days ago

9 December 2007 (F) age 41-50 - I feel anal sex kind of painful although: I use lots of lubricant,and I em very relaxed! What's wrong? Are some women never able togo through this? It is kind of painful especially in the beginning of the anal act. Any suggestions apart from lube and relaxations, as that i am ... (57 words)

He's everything I wanted in a bf, except for the fact he smokes a lot of grass.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6190 days ago

9 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm having a problem I can't really talk to my friends or family about - so I joined this site in hopes of getting some unbiased answers. I've been with my boyfriend for about 9 months. He is totally everything that I want in a boyfriend... EXCEPT... he smokes a lot of grass. ... (118 words)

My relationship with my child's father is up and down--help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6191 days ago

9 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Sometimes, I don't know what to do without being a beotch to my daughter's dad. If I'm being mean to him it makes him want me more but if I'm being nice, it's like I've done something wrong. To make a long story short, I've been in and out of relationships with my daughter... (162 words)

I talked to a boy from a fake account created for other purposes - and we fell in love, but he didn't know I was a boy! How can I make this right?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6171 days ago

9 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I am a 17 year old male and I have done a terrible thing, something that I deeply regret and am ashamed of. About a year ago, a friend was having problems with her boyfriend and wanted to find out if he was cheating on her. So to cut a long story short we end... (867 words)

Where is a good place to meet good guys?

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9 December 2007 (F) - Hi I hope you can help. I am really sick of being single, but I'm not desperate. It would just be nice to have someone new to get to know have fun and love. Where is a good place to meet good guys? I love sports and I'm pretty girly. I'm in high school. Thanks.... (67 words)

Should I tell him I am a virgin before we have sex or simply don't mention it?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

9 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been going out with a guy recently but it is the first proper relationship I have been in. Therefore, I am still a Virgin. When the time comes, is it a good thing to tell the guy you are a Virgin before you have sex or should I just leave it and hope for the best?... (60 words)

He watches pissing porn. Should I accept it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6191 days ago

9 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have found out that my boyfriend looks at pissing porn and I dont know what to do. I find it really weird and it makes me feel abit sick that he gets off on watching this. He does not understand why i am so upset and says that it is just porn on the internet. Am i over ... (79 words)

We hug, cuddle up, even hold hands - how can I get her to see me as a lover rather than a brother?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6191 days ago

9 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Heyy, im a 13 year old boy, and i REALLY love my best friend, she knows how i feel but she says "sorry, i just dont feel the same way" she's like a sister and i know she loves me, she just isnt admiting it,we hug, cuddle up, even hold hands but still, how can i get her to take ... (67 words)

He says he's an atheist and therefore won't buy me a Christmas present. Should I stay with him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6190 days ago

9 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend refuses to buy me a christmas present because he says he is an atheist and doesnt celebrate christmas. i have already bought him something (very nice that he has been wanting) but last night he told me he wouldnt buy christmas gifts ater i coyly asked him what he ... (154 words)

Any ideas about moving my sister into another house, maybe a hostel or a flat? She's 17, steals from us, smokes; we consider her a lost cause.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6189 days ago

9 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys, I need some help with some legal stuff. My sister is turning 17 on january 1st and my mum wants to throw her out. My sister is just awful and has made all of our lives a living hell for the past 3 years nearly. We have tried reasoning with her, setting rules an... (344 words)

"I can't get over my teacher" question...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6167 days ago

9 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello I'm writing to you because I have a huge crush on my teacher. I also think she has a crush on me. She's always staring at me even when i don't speak and she always drops her pencil in front of me and bends down to get it. I don't know if she does it on purpose or it's an ... (84 words)

Should I stay married or go with my first love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6191 days ago

9 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a 22 year old married girl. i have been married for about 5 months. anyways i hate being married and a wife. i have been talking to the first guy i have loved and wanted to date the whole time i was married and before. we never stopped talking even when he was in a relati... (318 words)

My gf smokes although she has asthma. Worried about her well being, so what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6191 days ago

9 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - ok.......my girl and I started going out like a week ago were both 17 and I absolutely love her. We get to hang around a bot and so on She smokes....I generally don't mind people smoking cause in my opinion if they wanna kill themselves thats their problem........but I cant t... (147 words)

I finally admitted to being bi...now what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6191 days ago

9 December 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - ive just told my girlfreind of 4 years that im bi and we have a child togeather although this is somthing i did not know i was until nearly falling for a lad at work now im stressed out she said that she is happy i told her and says that we cant continue we both agree on that ... (81 words)

When is too soon to say "I love you" ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6191 days ago

9 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - when is too soon to say "i love you"???... (9 words)

Does this mean I'm ready for sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6191 days ago

9 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my bf for 7 months. We have been great friends all throughout our school lives so we have been totally comfortable with each other. When i came back of holiday with a friend he pushed me down onto the sofa and we were kissing very passionatly and although we had ... (231 words)

What is my next step after she said she needed a pause? Could it be because she's unemployed, living with parents, confused about her goals?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6191 days ago

9 December 2007 (M)

- I have been in a relationship for over a year now. I love her and she says she loves me and I believe her. Our biggest problem is she keeps going with her friend on these work trips she gets. It keeps her away from me alot. Evertime she does this I get upset until she finally ... (163 words)

How do I get a girlfriend from my class?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6191 days ago

9 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I have just turned 15+ in November , i am in high school , i have crush on many girls for the past 2-3 years since the time i entered teenage , and many of them respond very well to me as i appeal cute to them . Everyone in our class talk very frankly with girls , the girls are ... (180 words)

Is it possible to think the person you're with is lovely and shouldn't change, but you don't want to be with them any more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6191 days ago

9 December 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I have posted previously here but would love a new perspective on this so I can move on. I was seeing my girl for just 2 1/2 months after we met on an internet dating site. We prob went too fast too quick, slept together v.early, met eachother's kids and also went to Paris fo... (238 words)

It's bugging me, but should I forget the whole thing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6191 days ago

9 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm in a predicament here, met a guy on a dating site we spoke for a few weeks and I was really taken with him. Anyway he suggested we meet up at some point and he seemed so nice that I panicked a bit and cooled off. I was really bowled over, silly I know. Well anyway I didn't... (189 words)

How can I cope with this crippling feeling?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6191 days ago

9 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, my problem is this... I have just split up with my girlfriend of 2 years. God I love her but she says she doesn't love me anymore. Well, actually she says she does love me, she just doesn't think it will work (we argue alot) and that she is not attracted to me ... (349 words)

Will he realise he's losing me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6174 days ago

9 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi... I have been in a long distance relationship for 2years and I love my guy so much that I would love to have a future with him. After 2 years I asked him if there was a future but he said we need to know each other more. How can he possibly know me more when we spend on... (190 words)

Can a pregnancy test be wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6191 days ago

9 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex-boyfriend and my friend are convinced im pregnant. my period is now over 3 weeks late. after the first week, they annoyed me enough to do a test, which i only did to prove them wrong...an i did. but its now been 3 weeks since my period was due and theres still no sign of ... (129 words)

My fiance is to become a father by another woman. Will he eventually leave me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6177 days ago

9 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I need advice please - I am engaged to be married to a wonderfull man in a few months time. The problem is that he has an ex girlfriend that is pregnant and having his child. We were dating for three months and were already in love and talking marriage when out of the... (283 words)

How do I do to choose between the bunch of guys who like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6191 days ago

9 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - there are 4 guys who like me...they are all great.. what do i do?... (15 words)

We love each other and I know she is not happy where she is, but can I really ask her to brake up a 7 year relationship to be with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6191 days ago

9 December 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - i really like this girl and hav recently foind out she feels the same she is engaged and has 3 children so it would mean breaking up a 7 year relationship but i no she's not happy what do i do?... (41 words)

I want to have an affair with my boyfriend's friend, please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6188 days ago

9 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hey,need help..my name is anna,been going out with my boyfriend john 4 over 1 year now and i loved him 2 bits but he has changed so much since i started college and he hates d amount of guys hitting on me and hes so very insecure now but i do love him i think i still love him, ... (197 words)

He can't keep a job, he stays up all nights watching porn and he is avoiding talking about our problems. What can I do to improve this situation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6191 days ago

9 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of 2 years is a solitary, friendless, introverted person who has barely worked in the 2 years we have been together. He is teaching himself programming at home with the aim of getting a job he wants, although I am concerned about the amount of time this is taking. ... (250 words)

I try to help my family but I feel I'm on the verge of loosing my mind. How do I cope with being the good daughter and keep my sanity?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6191 days ago

9 December 2007 (F) age 41-50 - I'm 24 years old and I am still living at home with my parents, which is crazy in itself. My sister has been anorexic for 4 years now and for the first 3 years, I stayed living at home thinking I may possibly be able to reach out to my sister. I can honestly admit that for t... (1230 words)

He asks me to stand up for him, but I don't know how, although I'm fallen in love with him. What shall I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6191 days ago

9 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, well i'm 21 years old and I been talking to this guy that's pretty much older than me (8 years)and we really like each other i'm kinda falling in love with him fareal. It's crazy how it all just happen I'm really not tryin to move fast in a way but I wanna get a spot with ... (146 words)

I just want to end the arguments and the whole bitterness between me and my ex but don't know how.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6183 days ago

9 December 2007 (?) age 41-50 - Ive decided that this will be the last question that I write on here as this rollercoaster is getting tiring. Just wanteed to know how to end the argumement with my ex who betrayed me. I thought I had forgiven my ex for cheating on me and leaving me with his three kids for h... (619 words)

My boyfriend refuses to talk to me, do I call him anyway?

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9 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for just over a month. For three weeks he hasnt talked to me. I want to call him and hesitate all the time. Im worried incase his mom answers the phone. I miss him sooo much and he's made it pretty obvious he wont call me and when I try talk to h... (79 words)

I get mixed messages from the guy I'm seeing and I'm thinking of going with another, more stable guy instead but whom I don't feel as much for. Need objective advice!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6191 days ago

9 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been hanging out with this guy for about three months, we met through a mutual friend at a party and sparks flew in a way i've never experienced before. He asked for my number and actually called me the next day, we began to hang out fairly frequently, going to movies, ... (681 words)

How can I gain confidence so that my personality shines through??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6086 days ago

9 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - My friend said some girls thought I was cute but my personality sucked. I am smart, nice, and don't see why they think my personality is so bad. I am not very confident around girls. How can I get more confident, make them see my real personality and get a girlfriend?... (51 words)

My daughters dad is in and out of our lives and I am getting sick of it.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6191 days ago

9 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My daughter's dad have been in and out of our lives. We recently went our ways, again. We agree we would start our lives fresh...all over..clean slate. Leave the past in the past. However, he would then he wouldn't. It's like he'll have a reason to come around and then ... (143 words)

Should a guy still be a gentleman?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6188 days ago

9 December 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Should a guy still be a gentleman? Should i open car doors, Pay for dinner, Give compliments or write poetry? Or should i go down the pub while my girlfriend stays home and iron my clothes and gets ready to "Give me some" when i get home? I try to do the former, but the guys... (67 words)

What can I do about my love for my boss??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5695 days ago

9 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone. Im very depressed and hurting. I am in love with a guy I mostly likely stand no chance with. You see he is one of my bosses at the place where I work. He is a few years older than me and im pretty sure he single. I dont know him well personally and i dont see him ... (245 words)

Is romance in a relationship optional??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6191 days ago

9 December 2007 (F)

- I wish I had more romance and passion on my relationship. Could a couple last long if there was never romance in it, you know like he actually going after me and trying his hardest to keep me. I think I missed that in my relationship. I want romance, passion, and intensit... (94 words)

Some days I'm sure she likes me...others I am not so sure.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6191 days ago

9 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm so confused! There is a girl at my school that I really like, but I don't know if she likes me in the same way. We have been friends for a while, and I find myself only wanting to talk to her the entire day.every day I walk her to her class and she has never had a problem ... (191 words)

I think I have annoyed him and I really don't want this to end.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6191 days ago

9 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Just as a warning, this could be quite long. So, I met this guy about 4 weeks ago through a friend. At first, we were just gonna be friends, but he kinda figured out I liked him, and he asked me out. I suppose the situation is slightly strange, in the sense I'm 17 and he's ... (429 words)

Any advice on how to tell if your guy friend likes you??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

9 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I need to know how to read my guy friend's signals. I have fallen head over heals for one of my guy friends. He is a super nice guy always complimenting me, always flashing me smiles, lots of quick --hold my stare eye contact, but I don't know if it's interest or friendsh... (180 words)

The sex is great but I just cant seem to climax. Is there something wrong with me??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6191 days ago

9 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a 22 yr old female and have been with my current boyfriend for about three months now; we have known each other for about six though. We have a great relationship that is fun and spontaneous. Our sex life is great and adventerous. My problem is that I don't seem to have ... (230 words)

Could my bf go to jail if I am pregant??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6191 days ago

9 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi i am 16 and my bf is 18. I was wondering if i got pregnant can he go to jail because we want a child and we are fixin to get married. I live in the state of tenessee and i was wanting to move out of my parents house to, i wanted to know that to. My parents don't like him. ... (123 words)

Do I risk another year of drama for the chance that she might like me??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6191 days ago

9 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a seventeen year old girl, and I consider myself bisexual, even though I've never actually been in a relationship with another girl. Only my closest friends know about my sexuality. I have to tell a little bit of a backstory to get people to understand my POV. Last y... (353 words)

Does he love me or is he just with me because he thinks he cant get anybody else??

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9 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay. So I'm dating this guy and we have been dating 7 months. He thinks he's ugly and that I could do better, but gets super jealous when I even talk to another guy. Recently he asked for a 3 sum, and I'm bisexual. So of course I said yes. But why would he want one if he's in ... (88 words)

Our marriage is amazing but sex life is frustrating.

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9 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in my early 20's and i have been married for 2 years. We have a great marrige, but our sex life sucks. His penis is small(like maybe 3 inches) i knew that before i married him and was willing to accept it he preforms oral sex on me and its good but im not satisfie... (125 words)

My ex says I kept bringing him down.

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9 December 2007 (F) - My ex says that I bring him down because he loves me so much but I constantly complain about the things he does that hurt me. I think of myself as a pretty positive person, but I broke up with him because he never respected me and the times I was "negative" were because he was ... (82 words)

How can I get him a gift that really comes from the heart??

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9 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey readers, I'm sure you come to this question alot, but i have apsolutly no idea what to get my boyfriend for Christmas. We have been together a little over a month, but we have been bestfriends for a few years. I asked him and he gives me the typical "oh i dont want anythi... (129 words)

Slept with the ex...but I am not sure if it was just sex to her.

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9 December 2007 (M)

- So I'm very confused, and looking for some guidance... I recently slept with an ex. We had dated for a year and were planning on a long future, when we had a bad breakup and for a LONG time we weren't talking. Recently I ran into her one day and she asked me out for a cou... (208 words)

How do I deal with my ex saying I'm bi-polar??

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9 December 2007 (F) - My ex is crazy! When we were together he posted a video of us on youtube. Now, one of his comments said I am his ex fiance and I had some emotional and mental problems. Yeah right! I broke up with him because he was emotionally abusive and he just can't accept that! Just bec... (158 words)

How can I tell my friend how I feel about her so that she listerns to everything I have to say??

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9 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I want to tell my close friend about my feelings. I want to tell her i really like this girl, and explain how long and also that i'm afraid she won't feel the same and risk of ruining the friendship and ask her. What do you reckon i sholud do? She wud say ask her still i know, ... (104 words)

Shes a fun girl...but her last minuete cancellations throw me off.

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9 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Met this girl on a dating website. Talked to her a few times over the phone. I've tried to get her to go on a date with me twice. Both times she's said yes, but both times she's canceled and been really apologetic about it afterwards. She's a really fun girl and seems like the... (84 words)

My ex husband cheated on me and I was laden with guilt for seeing a married man - so I ended up confronting his wife. Opinions?

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9 December 2007 (F)

age - I am a recently divorced 57 year old woman. I met a man the same age as me through work. We started a friendship which ended up being very passionate. After about three months he told me he was actually married. He said his wife lived in another state for the past 2 years, ... (228 words)

My gf has a habit of hiding her arms during sex or when it's hot - probably covering old signs of self-harm. How do I talk to her about this?

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9 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend has this wierd thing about covering up her arms, even when it's really hot and during sex she always wants the light off or be under the covers. I thought she was shy about her body at first so i told her i didn't care what she looked like, but she got upset and i ... (172 words)

Any useful tips on how we can spend time alone so our first time can be special??

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9 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girl friend are both virgins living at home with our families. We have recently decided we want to have sex but we want to do it properly (in a bed unlike a lot of people or age that are happy to use any old street corner!- using most of our friends as examples!!). W... (125 words)

Am I normal? I can flirt with strangers but not with my bf.

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9 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Is there something wrong with me? When im talking to strangers i have the ability to get very flirty and talk suggestively and feel more confident with the physical things as well. As soon as i get a boyfriend i suddenly become really frigid! I dont know why. Anything suggesti... (151 words)