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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I have severe trust issues...What do I make of the text he sent?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6183 days ago

17 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey,this is prob a real stupid question and i feel stupid for even askin it. Today i got a text from my boyfriend out of the blue saying "hmmm what to get what to get.." I didn't know what he meant from this as thats all he said not even hi how are you or hows work today!!Im ... (272 words)

I really like her but she is younger and taken

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6182 days ago

17 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear users I am really looking for some mature advice from anyone who can help me. My name is Nick and I have just turned 21, things at work are ok, and I have been talking and getting to know a person who I really do admire at work. The problem is she has a boyfriend a... (308 words)

I'm leaving school soon but have a big crush on my teacher, should I try to stay in touch?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6129 days ago

17 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey!! Well im in my last year at school... woohoo! well that is what the typical teenager would be saying if they were leaving school in a couple of months, except not all pupils know this hot guy, yep you guessed it a teacher... he is hot i aint gonna lie and yeah i was g... (214 words)

He's displaying all the classic signs of an affair and has even had sexy texts but denies it...Do I believe him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6182 days ago

17 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a 28-year-old woman, my husband's 32, and we have two children, a four-year-old son and a two-year-old toddler. A few weeks ago my husband began receiving suggestive text messages from someone claiming they were having an affair with him. I asked him outright if there ... (660 words)

I'm sick of being bullied and picked on!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6183 days ago

17 December 2007 (M) - dear cupid i am currently experiencing difficulties in college, due to the fact i can not fight or stand up for my self. this happened back to when i was a kid when i was threatened by a black man and was defenceless to do anything followed by being stabbed in 2004. just ... (176 words)

Is this a rebound relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6027 days ago

17 December 2007 (F)

- A guy is dumped by his wife who tells him she has never really loved him, and whilst he is stinging over that, his temporary assistant is there (unhappy in her marriage), mopping up his tears. She has to return home 1000 miles away so he tries to fill the loneliness meeting new ... (270 words)

How do I tell if I am bisexual?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6170 days ago

17 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - ummm Hi. so, im kinda confused about my sexuality. I think I might be bisexual. And if that's the case, i like a girl i know. It seems like she's always flirting with me. She told me she is not bisexual, though. But Im thinking she's confused like me, or maybe she's a les... (94 words)

My friends were shocked I had anal sex, why did they react like this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6181 days ago

17 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i confided in my best friends because i needed someone to talk about that i had just had anal sex but the reaction they gave me was one i hadn't intended on facing why do my friends think it's so wrong to have anal sex especially before having actual sexual intercou... (57 words)

Is it normal to bleed after anal sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

17 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - when you have anal sex for the first time or any time is it natural to bleed and how long should you bleed for? plz help xxx... (29 words)

Does he still like me or is he upset?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6183 days ago

17 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hiya! another boy trouble question i'm afraid! well im very worried. this guy and i have been going out for about 2 or 3 months and i c him most days at school etc. ive been out with him 2 or 3 times. and everytime hes asked me out ive sed yes of course. but a couple of ... (175 words)

I'm bored and lonely, and newly single...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6182 days ago

17 December 2007 (?) age 41-50 - I am bored primary school teacher looking for a change in carreer. I want a job which excites me. A job where both men and women work. Basically I want a job that offers social networking as well as financial stability. just gone through a break up and want to know the best ... (59 words)

His porn addiction means I find it hard to trust him...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6183 days ago

17 December 2007 (F) age 51-59 - The porn question and advice: Well, I was married for 14 years, finally could not take his addiction..he would take pics and videos of other women and god knows what else..confronted him for 8 years..than he wanted me to sleep with other men..man..could go on here..bu... (203 words)

Ideas for a special present for my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6181 days ago

17 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - wel basically im with my boyfriend a year dis cuming sunday.. i wanted make sum tin special . i alread made a scrap book wi lil tngs in it eg pictures letters etc. i already got a picture frame with two of us, im jus wondering if der is anytin else i cud do want di... (82 words)

I'm underage and worried I could be pregnant, please help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5878 days ago

17 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Ive Been Seeing This Boy For Almost 1 Year Now i love him so much we are underage and decided to go further which wasa big mistake but we tried to move on not taking any risks then i let him go inside me a couple of times then he would come out before he cumed but im not ... (175 words)

He's cheated and got another girl pregnant but I still love him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6182 days ago

17 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i was with a guy for 7months and i was very happy he told me that he had a friend /girl m8t that he had prevousely been haveing sex with her but said 2 one an other that if they find someone else it would stop.anyway so i accepted his honesty and he told me she had been dateing ... (524 words)

I'm head over heels for him and need advice how to tell him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6182 days ago

17 December 2007 (?) age 30-35 - I dont really know what to say but i really really need some answers please. Im 17, about 3 months ago I started talking to a guy who lives quite far away from me, we're of a similar age and we talk and talk on messenger, and talk on the phone and text all the time. Well... (375 words)

Can a man have blonde body hair?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6181 days ago

17 December 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, not a problem here, just a question, looking for input from all you guys/girls out there. One of my wife's friends mentioned the other day that she ran into Bob, a guy my wife dated before me. When my wife told me Bob was asking about her and us (our marriage), I ask... (277 words)

Why am I getting bullied?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6182 days ago

17 December 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi all! This has been getting me down recently, I'm tall for my age (1.65m) and I have boobs etc. and I'm only 11. I am really clever (This is sounding really big headed) and I am blond, blue eyes, ok skin and I take the train. Yet I am being badly bullied and no one seems... (184 words)

My long term friendship appears to be fading, do I fight to save it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6183 days ago

17 December 2007 (F)

- hi i just wanted some advice. i have been friends with a girl for about 15 years now, since we were in primary school. in school we had a few problems as she often talked behind my back or turned other friends against me...just silly childish stuff really. after we left sch... (215 words)

My girlfriend's had over 100 lovers and I'm finding it hard to deal with

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6182 days ago

17 December 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I am having problems dealing with my girlfriends past. I have read other questions on this site where men say their girlfriends have had lots of partners but mine has had 136 and she is only 24, this is really eating away at me and I dont know what to do, she's also had a ... (69 words)

Why do I look ok at home but different at school etc?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6182 days ago

17 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i am 14 year 10 when i look at myself in the mirror at home i am happy with my appearance.but when i look at myself elsewhere like at school i always think i look really ugly and foul.why do i look diffrent i know it is a silly question is it to do with confidance or does the ... (69 words)

Christmas present dilemma...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5980 days ago

17 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - http://www.dearcupid.org/question/christmas-present-dilemma-bought-her-a-present-last.html Hiya people, go on the above link. (It's just a recap of my last post) Anyway the thing is... I've taken aboard everything that has been said, and i feel quite childish now - She's a ... (108 words)

Am I too short for my age?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6175 days ago

17 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Do you think 5 feet is too short for a 13 year old girl?... (14 words)

My boyfriend's been moody and off with me, he says he's ok, do I push it or leave him alone?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

17 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend get along great. were COMPLEATLY oposite. COMPLEATLY. dont take that lgihtly. but somhow it still works. now. last night, he was in a bad mood. and i was talking to him. i was like, "i wish there was somthing i could do to help you...:(" and hes just ... (300 words)

Is this relationship worth saving?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6175 days ago

17 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I hava a boyfriend who has a short temper who I luv very much little confused, an incident occured yesterday where he got so pissed off because he wanted my son who is 13 to help him with some bags. I told him that I would take care of it and then he threw the laundry bag down ... (102 words)

This disturbs me, my ex was a player

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6183 days ago

17 December 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I met a guy over a month ago and we've been texting each other casually with a view of meeting up over New Year. We normally text twice a week, but I was really shocked when he texted me 1am Saturday, which is out of character. Needless to say I didn't reply until lunchtime, ... (104 words)

I am so sorry for the pain I caused her when cheating on her and I'm ready to change, but don't know what to do to make her trust me again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6183 days ago

17 December 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been in a relationship for 1 1/2 years i have been unfaithful to her twice with the same person who call my girlfriend and told her every thing we did .she forgive me but after 5 months she says cannot forget and trust me. we are still friend.I did a stupid thing and i ... (106 words)

I've been with my wife for 16 years now, but I have never seen her naked! Is there anything we can do so that she can feel comfortable being naked in front of me??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

17 December 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - i've been with my wife for 16 years now and we've been married for just over 7. Just when we were ounger she was very nervous and felt very insercure about being naked in front of me. Shes recently admitted that she still feels the same and gets all nervous when we are totally ... (172 words)

Please give me advice on the handjob thing!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6107 days ago

17 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - hi, i am in a relationship with the best guy ever!i need some advise however he tells me that i am great at blowjobs, but i feel like i need help with the whole handjob thing. please give me advise????... (43 words)

My wife's sexual past torments me, especially the visual side. She didn't know for ex. she was giving me a sex show (organised) by the time she dated my friend. Please help.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6183 days ago

17 December 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - ok here it goes, i've been with my wife for 13 years and we have a 7 year old son. when i met her it was with my buddy who met her the day before i did and he was ALREADY engaged to another girl. To make a long story short we all were friends and in 2 weeks in my apartment she ... (1012 words)

He have "minor" trust issues (which we handle very immaturely.) What should we do to solve them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6181 days ago

17 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been together with my girlfriend almost 10 months and she fell inlove with me after a month and I soon recipricated the feelings. We are so close with eachother all the time and in my opinion have a great relationship. We have minor trust issues with eachother and we ... (661 words)

Is it just a phase that I should wait out to see if my husband becomes all he once was to me? I only have sex with him because it's expected - and love the man I have an affair with. Please advise.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

17 December 2007 (F) age 51-59 - Ok, for background on this, please look up my only other question. I still am in love with my soul mate...the love of my life. He is everything that I want in life. Still, we refuse to leave our spouses for our own selfishness. We have thought about it but, they didn't do a... (448 words)

What can I do and say to him that could draw me closer to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6183 days ago

17 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a guy who i like and we're kind of friends right now. I can tell he likes something about me that could draw him new but then my negative actions(eg saying i'm a man hater etc) hinders him from going the full mile and liking me back. Tell me what i can do and say to him ... (66 words)

Is there any way I can show a girl that I am interested without actually saying it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6183 days ago

17 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - hi. im a single guy, athlete, and i have a lot of friends(girls) but ive never hooked up with them. I kno the attraction is there but ive never made a move. Is there any way i can show a girl that im intrested without saying it. any advice would be nice if you know what im ... (60 words)

He tells me he still loves me and wants to be with me - but he stays with her. Will he ever come back to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6181 days ago

17 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - okay, so there is this guy and I love him more than anything in the world. Well he broke up with me for another girl, and i really want him back. He tells me that he still loves me and he wants to be with me...but he stays with her. I dont know what to do! I need help!!! ... (70 words)

He never finds the time to have sex with me. Please help me make sense of this situation

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6180 days ago

17 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband cuddles with me and says that it's true intimacy, and that he is closer to me than to all those women he dated and had sex with. He has a history of having hot sex with unavailable women. Either she was a horny unhappily married wife or somebody he met online. He ... (285 words)

What can I do to calm down these feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6183 days ago

17 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay I am 14 years old and i really i mean really like this guy. I fantisize about having sex with him, giving blowjobs/handjobs to him, and making out with him. I would never have sex at this age i am just very interested in this. What can I do to try and calm these feelings ... (109 words)

Would we make better friends than partners?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6183 days ago

17 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hopefully someone can help me with this as I’ve got into quite a mess. I met my boyfriend when I was 19 (I’m 25 now) and just about to go into my second year at university. I met him at home in the summer break and he was my first real boyfriend. We had 2 months together ... (867 words)

Do I have nice boobs?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6085 days ago

17 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have 30G/32G boobs i have slight stretch marks that are pretty visible as I have very pale ivory skin do i have "nice boobs" or not because I feel ashamed of them? pls help... (38 words)

I got sexy underwear and my partner (62) told me I looked like a prostitute. We haven't had sex in years and we plan to get married. Please advise.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6183 days ago

17 December 2007 (F)

age - My partner is not interested in sex. We have been together 4 years. At first things were Ok but got worse and worse.I tried to pep things up and got some sexy, tasteful underwear, but he told me I looked like a prostitute. We have had sex about 3 times in the past two years and ... (261 words)

To my husband - all I want is sex. Actually, it's the only missing aspect. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6180 days ago

17 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband says that there is nothing wrong with him but he is never in the mood to have sex. What could be the reasons why a husband is not in the mood to have sex with his wife? To shed some light: he subscribes Playboy, watches porn (rarely according to him), enjoys talking ... (124 words)

Why doesn't he want to do it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6174 days ago

17 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I asked my husband for anal sex. He does not want to do it. WHY?... (15 words)

What do you all think about getting back with an ex? Are we handling this in the right way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6183 days ago

17 December 2007 (F) - well, me and this boy use to go out with each other, but at the time we rushed into things and it just wasnt working out. we didnt talk for a while then one day we met each other in a club aboot 6 months later.. we were chatting and there was spark, we txt each other and phn ... (159 words)

His "best offer" was that we be together after his 5 yr degree had finished. I couldn't agree. Now I feel I wanted too much and instead lost everything?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6183 days ago

17 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear agony aunts out there, I would be grateful for some words of wisdom. Here is the story: I met this lovely Canadian boy while we were both at uni in the UK. We fell in love and dated but after a year he returned to Canada to undertake another degree. Two years into ... (430 words)

Is he trying to make me jealous? He had noticed I was disturbed by him approaching my friend. Should I leave him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6183 days ago

17 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid, Lately, I feel very emotional and show anger and aggressive manner towards the one I love, my boyfriend. We been dating for 1 year and 5 months, those 6 months was the best time of my life because he was the first guy I actually had sex with and have someone to ... (190 words)

I'd like to make myself clearer . .

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6183 days ago

17 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi everybody,i have posted aquestion last week.the answers were good ,but i think i wasn't clear .the question was that my bf never says my name...ever,well let me make this clear.he haven't say it yet, not even ones,never...crazy ist it..so if enebody have an answer,feel free ... (50 words)

Why is he suddenly being like this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6183 days ago

17 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am really sad..........i was hangin out with my bf on friday and he was actin just fine.....he was flirtin with me and everything!!!!!!!!!! But then i went free-line skating with my friend and all of the sudden one of his friends come up to me and says that he is breakin up ... (78 words)

He is my first date with an uncircumcised penis and that... turns me off. I want to break up, should I tell him why?

This question has 75 answers - newest was posted 4402 days ago

17 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been dating this guy for a little over 3 months now. I think he's great and want to have a long-term relationship with him. The problem is, I don't sleep with my boyfriends until we've dated a little while aad I'm sure I really like them for them, not just attracted to ... (300 words)

My bf never gives me straight answers, his phone's always turned off and he has a history in cheating. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6183 days ago

17 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - hey i am really stuck and confused my boyfriend and i met at the age 0f 12 and are still together we are now 17.. he cheated on me a few tyms and i have once, we've let that go and have decided to be together.. the past couple of months he turns his phone off and always says ... (104 words)

She only likes me as a friend. How can I get her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6120 days ago

17 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I really like this girl but she says that she only likes me as a friend and she and has a boyfriend and i can't really stop thinking about her, can you give me some advice,thanks.... (37 words)

After all that he said and done to me I should hate this man, but in reality I still love him. Should I bring myself to hate him? How?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6183 days ago

17 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - They always say time heals all wounds. In my case I dont feel that way. Me and my ex broke up a couple months ago, well actually the end of september. We still talked but he was always so mean to me I dont understand why I put myself through it for so long. One of the last cpl ... (378 words)

I've just moved in with my boyfriend. What should I write in his christmas card?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

17 December 2007 (F)

- Hi I have recently moved in with my boyfriend of 2 years. It has been hard going but its pretty good now. I have got him a card for xmas and i was wondering if someone could give me some suggestions what to write in. I want to make it nice.. not too lovey dovey but just so ... (75 words)

My friend nearly made out with me until I asked him to stop. What was he thinking?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6181 days ago

17 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I moved to a new city one year ago and my former flatmate from my old one visited me last weekend. While the weekend was fun, it got kinda weird on Saturday night. We were watching TV and my friend sort of started touching me. We nearly made out till I asked him to stop. I ... (147 words)

Should I move away, or stay with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6183 days ago

17 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i live in kings lynn i have been depressed since my son has been born and me partner doesnt understand that im sad all the time i wonted to move to cumbria where i no that i will be happy but he wont go with me. we had a big fight last night he said if i go he will take me ... (151 words)

He gave me a 2nd chance and I've blown it! I love him so much and would be destroyed if he left. What can I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6182 days ago

17 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i kissed a boy 8 months into my 3 year relationship with my bf and i told him the next day and he was very upset and i begged him to take me back so he did and i swore i would never hurt him again like that and i had sex with the same boy about a year later i dont even like him ... (232 words)

Help! My ex is dating again, and I still love her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6181 days ago

17 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Help! My ex is going out with another guy only a few months after she broke up with me! We were together a year and a half, and I can't believe she's already moved on! The break up hit me really hard initially, and now this has made things even worse. I don't know what to do.... (116 words)

My boyfriend of 2 years went on a christmas party with work... Now I'm a little concerned about text messages he has recieved. Am I reading too much into this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6180 days ago

17 December 2007 (?) - Hi aunts, just want to say thanx for your advice in the past and just some more advice and info on another question.... My boyf of 2 years went to his Christmas party with his boss and few other guys last week. It was one of them huge party nites with lots of other groups/... (273 words)

My best friend wants to marry her man... after 1 month. Do you think it'll work out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6183 days ago

17 December 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi my best friend has met a man only a month ago and he wants to marry her. He is 42 and she is 28. He is a military officer (Colonel) high rank in the army and she just graduated as a medical practitioner. Her parents are encouraging her and her mother is telling her that she ... (106 words)

She doesn't contact me, but she contacts my ex! What does this mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6183 days ago

17 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - iam a guy who is 22 yrs in love with a girl aged 19.The problem is i recently found out that she does not at any time call me but instead she calls her ex-boyfriend as i found a text message she wrote to her exboyfriend using my phone and this has stressed me out since i love ... (87 words)

Is my online guy worth fighting for?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6183 days ago

17 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i met this really nice man online we hit if off straight away and met not long after since we have seen each other every weekend and rang and text each oher every day without fail he seemed so keen we even went way for the weekend he met all my family and i was going to meet ... (242 words)

Early 20's, virgin, and suffering from anxiety. Can you help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6182 days ago

17 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am a virgin in my early twenties.I was suffering from anxiety for an year or so. This was due to working continually for night shifts in my job.I could not get out of it.My health had gone down.I remained away from friends and work. I am close to my mom and discusse... (305 words)

Why does my mum and sister seem HAPPY about my downfall??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6183 days ago

17 December 2007 (?) age 41-50 - Why does my mum and sister feel happy with my downfall. Ive always been a naive character but recently broke up from my husband and father of my children. When we were happy together my family always seemed jealous, never came to visit me or share any happy moments with me. ... (194 words)

He says I need "someone on my own level". What does this mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6183 days ago

17 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - What does it mean when a guy says you need someone on your own level and that should be just mates? please help i really like this guy but thats what he said to me,when i asked him out?... (39 words)

My dad has a problem with my friends. Can you help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6183 days ago

17 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear cupid, my dad frowns upon me having friends if they are not up to par with my sister's standards. All she cares about is looks and "coolness" by her standards. I am not like that and never have been. And I don't necessarily think that the things that she thinks are cool ... (364 words)

We've been having anal sex, but there's a few embarressing problems... Help?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5361 days ago

17 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear cupid, Recently my boyfriend and I started having anal sex and sometimes (usually doggy posi) I get the urge to fart which as you can imagine is highly embarrasing and noisy to say the least. If we are doing it my bedroom which is quite small it often smells of egg or... (98 words)

13. I've been with my girlfriend for a month. I want to kiss her, but I'm too shy! Can you help me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6182 days ago

17 December 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, I am a 13 year old male and I have been going out with a girl I really like for just over a month now. We have so much in common and I think it'll work really well. Theres just one problem. I am shy to kiss her. I have hugged her! But I am just too shy to kiss ... (81 words)

28, and still gets nervous when it comes to meeting women! Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6182 days ago

17 December 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear, I am 28 years old and still i get nervous if i meet woman and if anybody insults me. This causes lots of trouble to me. I raised in a familly where my parents did not have very good relation. I lived in the middle of anarchy. Then one of my cousin tried to make a ... (107 words)

Lately, we've not been having much sex. What's up?

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17 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, I've got this problem. Lately me and my girlfriend are not having much sex. There's always a cause for this. Either she is not in the mood, or no time, or because my or her parents are at home. This became a big problem for me with the parents, I mean there is no chanc... (118 words)

My ex-boyfriend tried to rape me! What should I do?

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17 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi there i was wondering if there is anyone out there who can help me out with this back in august i was almost raped by my ex boyfriend i dumped him excatly for this reason and im now with someone who respects me and loves me well my ex boyfriend came to see me the oth... (91 words)

Confused, hurt and upset. Please help me figure this guy out!

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17 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - It's a long story but he has sent me mixed messages for a long time. I figure he is not into me because of his inability to be direct and he now has a gf. six months ago when my bf and me took a break and I told him I think I liked him HE DID NOTHING so I'm sorry but a month ... (376 words)

No word from him in a week! Help!

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17 December 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - okay, i got out there and dumped the 26 year old and met someone who i thought liked me. he came for a weekend and we got on like a house on fire, or so i thought.he said that we sould see each other soon, but i havent heard from him in a week and although i know he has been ... (130 words)

He is scared of commitment?

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17 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am currently seeing a man that I have a wonderful connection with. He is from South India, and I am a white American woman. One of the main reasons that I love him so much is for his willingness to be open and communicate. We have been seeing each other for about 4-5 months. ... (178 words)

I'm 17, and totally depressed. Please help me!

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17 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright I dont really know what to do anymore. Im only 17 and I am totally depressed about a ton of thing to its not just one thing. There is school, ive got like 9 credits as a junior pretty much im goin to fail in life. I cant look for god cause I dont think there is one. and ... (74 words)

She seemed like a wonderful woman... But it seems like she'd have sex with anything with a pulse! I don't know what to think. Please advise!

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17 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm troubled that I'm currently a father, 35, of a special needs son. I have custody of the little guy. In May, I met a seemingly wonderful woman, who was about to turn 34 years old. She has no children. She's wonderful with my son. After about two months into the ... (575 words)

Do all men prefer anal sex and why? I do it to quench my husband's curiosity that drove him to an affair.

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17 December 2007 (?) age - please do all men prefer anal sex and why, i dont care for it my husband does....i am having a hard time because he was in an affair in trying this anal stuff out i think this is the curiousity that he proposed to some whore on the net and ended up trying the experiment which ... (93 words)

Why do men become distant when they're having an affair?

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17 December 2007 (?) age - Why do men become distant and stop being intimate with thier wife when they are having an affair is this not a way that they will be suspected of cheating do they feel this will make thier wives less suspicious please enlighten me I want to see if it is the same answer my ... (58 words)

It bothers me that he is talking to his ex. What can I do?

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17 December 2007 (F)

- My bf broke up with his ex about 2 years ago, but they still talk almost everyday (I check his phone, so is a fact). She dumped him after he cheated with others girls and finally with me. Well, we started to date while they were having problems in their relationship. His br... (195 words)

He doesn't know what he wants! What am I suppose to do?

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17 December 2007 (F) - Hey im 22 and the guy im seeing is 32 him and me use to work 2 gather at the same company and i recently quit there back in may well we kept in contact by texting he hates talkin on the phone anyways with him being a manager and havin a second job on the side its been hard ... (226 words)

My Husband is always thinking of just himself. What about me??

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17 December 2007 (F)

age - My husband only thinks for himself, he never seems to think about my feelings or what I might like him to do for me today. What I am getting at is that I cook dinner every night. I take care of the bills, I run my son to Band at night and pick him up on Tuesday's and ... (539 words)

Married and tempted by a co-worker. Help!

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17 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in need of some advice...actually am relieved to have come across this site to find people are in similar situations...makes me feel so much better to know that I am not alone in this. I am happily married to the love of my life but more recently have found myself ... (189 words)

Dating someone from another country, what things do you usually say to let the other person know you are interested?...

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17 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm from Argentina, and i met this american guy on work. We speak different languages so we have different ways to express our selfs.. I realy like him, we go out couple of times, enjoy each other company and had a realy great time, but nothing happend yet... What things do... (67 words)

I think I'm falling in love with a 21 year old, and I'm only 14

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17 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm 14... i have these really strong feelings for a 21 year old. he says the sweetest things to me and makes me feel so good. i don't know what to do about this. but i'm not aloud to see him because i got in trouble with the police for being with him in his car at night (we ... (112 words)

How can I avoid choking on it?

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17 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Godness, the only reason why I dare posting this is because this is anonymous. I'm in a long distance relantionship with my beloved boyfriend and I love him lots. We both got tested and are noh healthy and I'm on the pill. We have a very explosive (literally) sex ... (157 words)

Could I get in trouble with the police?

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17 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, I'm 15 y/o My mom is okay with me dating a 20 y/o we've been dating for 1year and I'm pregnat, my mother knows , could I get into trouble with the police if anyone else finds out besides these three ppl?... (55 words)

Cousin marriage in canada?

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17 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Is It Legal in canada to marry your own cousin? And is it legal to have kids with them?... (19 words)

I really like him but he is 5 yrs older than me and going out with my sister!

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17 December 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - hey. i like this guy but he is 14-15 and i am 10. he is soooooo cute but hes is sooo much older than me. i have not told him but he comes over all the time. he thinks i am funny and smart!!!! does that mean he likes me? but if he does that would be really akward because he is ... (107 words)

What advice should I give her?

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17 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - ok so i have a crush on a really cool girl. we are both 14. but the only problem is she has a gf. her parents are trying to hook us up. although she has a gf me and her have kissed whilst she was going out with her gf. she doesnt like being gay but she loves her gf. it ... (155 words)

Any advice on topics for conversation?

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17 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - K so I'm looking for a bit of advice here, I like a girl who I know likes me back, but we can never keep a good conversation going. We hooked up once at a party (we were both drinking, so we don't really know each other) but ever since we've been talking to each other on MS... (156 words)

We broke up 9 months ago, but what are his feelings now?

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17 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, I am very confused about a situation regarding my ex. We broke up after 3 months together around 9 months ago. We hadn't spoken, even though we study the same degree, and have the same friends. A few days ago, I got an email from him, explaining he hadnt talked to me ... (222 words)

I had a contraceptive rod put in 6 days ago. Could I now fall pregnant?

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17 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I'm 16 and this is complicated. I have been seeing my boyfriend quite a long time now, we're soon planning on moving in together, we love eachother and everything is fine. On the 4 day of my period I had implanon put into my arm (the progesterone rod mean to protect... (206 words)

Should I go for therapy or separation?

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17 December 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi. I have been married for 8 years. My wife was a virgin at 23 when we married (I was 30 when we married). We have not had sex for 5 years because of lots of reasons (too many to get into here), but I have looked at pornography out of frustration. My wife hates it. I mean rea... (249 words)