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writes: hi i know you have heard loads of people say this but i really am in love with my teacher. i love him because to me he is perfect though he has faults but i love them anyway. when he smiles at me it makes me want to smile and i feel really happy and high around him. i have depression because i love him and i cant tell him. ive started medication for it but i think it has made my anxiety worst and sometimes my depression gets really bad due to the anxiety and my feelings for him. when i talk about him my voice has expression that it doesnt have when i talk about other things. he always makes me feel better and happy. i want to know if he likes me the way i like him. in class i catch him staring at me and we catch each others glaze and then look into each others eyes for a long time. on a trip i was ill and he was really kind and concerned about me. he would always ask if i was ok. when he looks into my eyes it feels like he is looking deep inside me. he nevers tells me off in class andthis when he is talking to me directly, do you think he knows i like him or does he have feelings for me (unlikely) and sometimes he random smiles really goofly but sexyly at me for no reason. he is always nice to me. do you think he likes me? sometimes when we are talking either together or with another person with us he doesnt want to look into my eyes and it feels like he is trying to avoid looking at me, he even does i want to tell him how i feel or if not that i would like to tell him about my depression as i think these two things would help me and how i am feeling. so should i tell him how i feel about him and about my depression? if yes how do i tell him. i know telling him could make things akward with us. thanks i really need the advice.
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reader, rcn  +, writes (14 December 2007):
 I probably would not tell him. He's a teacher, and even considering relationships with students aside from being their teacher and cause them to loose their jobs and their license to teach in any school. That's my advice.
Now aside from your teacher, hows everything else going for you? do you have a positive relationship with your parents? are they still married or divorced? do you have brothers or sisters, and how is your relationship with them? Is there anything else other than your teacher that bothers you?
I ask this because just having feelings for a teacher, generally causes a medicated level depression. It may fuel it, or what's called a trigger. That's where something is all ready present, but an event takes it from a managed level to a not managed level. Coming on here and asking for advice, I wouldn't feel right to just answer your question when there are other areas that may need look at as well.
Take care.
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