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How do I stop my fear of death?

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16 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hi, i'm 13 and not that long ago my mum went to a funeral and the people their told my mum of how this 22 year old boy died and when my mum came home she was telling my older sisters and then i over heard my mum, it kept bothering me of how this boy died cause it just freaks me ... (117 words

Messed up big time, and I may be pregnant now! Please help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6183 days ago

16 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - hi........i need help,big time..im 16 years old living in greece but im english,got a boyfriend for 1 year.hes 17 and finishing school now.he really cares about me and i really care about him to i am in-love with him,anyway we made love one night after about 2 months(with a ... (114 words

13. He strokes my hair and flirts with me. Does he like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6184 days ago

16 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - I'm 13 years old, I'm a girl, and one time the boy that flirts with me stroked my hair. do you think he likes me?... (25 words

My boyfriends dad has just died. I don't know how to comfort him without crying. Please help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6183 days ago

16 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriends dad just died and i am about to cry and i don't know how to act or what to say no one close to me ever died what should i do?... (34 words

I slept with her, and now she's dumped me. How could she do this?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4943 days ago

16 December 2007 (M age 30-35 - im a guy and im quite sensitive when it comes to how i feel bout someone. i got with a girl and lost my virginity with her early ( too early) and she suddenly stoped replyin to my my textes. she dumped me soon after and makes out im messed up in the head because i wana no y she ... (100 words

My discharge is starting to worry me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6183 days ago

16 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hi My discharge is starting to get me worried. It's as if there's lots of it all the time and it's sort of clear but comes out a light brownish colour on my nickers. Also it smells really bad like a public loo smell. Any ideas as to whats wrong would really help.... (62 words

My ex still likes me after a year apart. I don't want to lead him on, but I would like to be his friend. What shall I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6183 days ago

16 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - My ex still likes me and we've been apart for over a year now. I can't help talking to him and i trust him more than anyone else in the world, but i don't love him like he loves me. I don't want to lead him on but i don't want to stop talking to him. What shall i doo?... (60 words

Can virgins pass on STD's?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6156 days ago

16 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - Okay so I'm going to ask the same question that I asked last time about 3-4 weeks ago becuase I really don't think I gave enough detail and no one really gave me an answer I was looking for. So, my question was can a virgin pass on STD's? Because someone told me before that s... (139 words

I like someone who's working on my house. Do guys like it when the woman makes the first move?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6184 days ago

16 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - This is a question for the men on the site. I like someones who's doing work on my house at the moment. Do men like it when woman make the first move...or ask for your number? He's back on tuesday and i want to do something about it then. thankyou xx P... (84 words

Where do guys like to be rubbed when they're given a handjob?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6184 days ago

16 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - when ur tossing a guy off, does he like to be rub from bottom of penis to the top (so upwards) or from the top to the bottom (so downwards towards his pelvis)? ... (37 words

My ex keeps texting me after I told him not to. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6184 days ago

16 December 2007 (F - Why did my ex text me last night asking if I stayed at home crying too? I broke up with him about 3 months ago because he was emotionally abusvie. The last time he texted me was a week ago when I said it was over and asked him not to contact me-he replied with asking me why. He ... (157 words

What should I be doing after I have given him an orgasm?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6183 days ago

16 December 2007 (F age - ok... so your young and you are performing things (such as handjobs or oral) with a partner for fun not as foreplay. so you finish giving a handjob, he has come, what next? do you kiss or just stop or should you carry on even if he has ejaculated? can you go into a blowjo... (95 words

We split up after 10 months. I'm really down about it and want him back. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6183 days ago

16 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - I love my boyfriend(now my ex :( sadly)very much and i really can't live without him, he said that we aren't right for each other, and he listens to other people too much, because we both work in the same company and people in there think alot of him but they don't like me for ... (312 words

How long should I wait until I introduce my children to my new boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6184 days ago

16 December 2007 (? age 51-59 - I been dating my Bf 6 months.I went through a bad divorce.I'm know dating and I haven't brought my 3 children into the picture yet.Should I wait a while to introduce my children to him?... (35 words

His new girlfriend blocked me from e-mailing him, it wasn't even about him and I. He has only been with her for 6 weeks, do you think it is love or only lust in between them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6183 days ago

16 December 2007 (? age 51-59 - If a man tells a lady he loves her in just 6 weeks of dating is he in love or is it just lust? If the new Gf blocks you from emailing him she must be insecure about him.What's your thoughts?The email was about a sick family member and she went balisic.Had nothing to do with him ... (59 words

My ex-boyfriend looks me up and down in that guy way, what is going on??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6184 days ago

16 December 2007 (F - Hope someone can help me through this. I am willing to hear the truth even if it is not what I want to hear. My boyfriend and I broke up at the end of August. He ended it and I was pretty upset but have kept busy with family and friends and am getting over it. Recently when I ... (125 words

Is it possible for young boys to get an erection even by looking at a girl they like?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6184 days ago

16 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - hiya! this question is kind of aimed at guys who are 13-15 but anyone if free to answer. basically, is it possible for a guy to get an erection even if they are looking at a girl they like. cus my bf, sometimes when he looks up across at me he gets all embarased and he nor... (107 words

My mom got me a new bra, but the girls in my class frown upon it! I don't want to hurt my mom's feelings, what shall I do?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 6024 days ago

16 December 2007 (F age 26-29 - Is it OK to wear blck bras? My mum got me one the other day while I was at shcool, but girls in my class really frown upon it. I don't want to hurt my mum's feelings, that's all.... (41 words

I've messed it up with two guys and today a girl phoned me and told me to leave her boyfriend alone or she would voming after me, I'm really hurt and don't know what to do, please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6183 days ago

16 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - I fell in love with this guy in the beginning of the year. We dated but broke up. He believed that I wasn't faithful. Recently we started talking again and my love for him grew. He told me that he had been single for over a month and asked if I would like to hook up again and ... (248 words

I've fancied this boy for some time but now it seems that he might not be such a good guy, but I'm not sure what to think. What would you do if yuo were only 11 in this situation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6084 days ago

16 December 2007 (F age 26-29 - Hi, There's this boy in yr. 8 (I'm in year 7) who I have fancied since the start of term when we met - we catch the same train - and I thought I knew him pretty well. Last friday (today being sunday) I missed my train (I had Russian lessons til 4) and I went to the music roo... (383 words

My mom read my diary and now I feel all traumatized! What to do about her??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4578 days ago

16 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - My Mom read my diary this morning, I'm traumatised. She knows my sex life in huge, digusting detail, she knows that I'm a good child brought up very well and I never wanted that to change. I'm a 14 year old female who initiated sex with my previously virgin boyfriend, which I ... (90 words

This girl persists that she thinks I'm a gay, but I like her female friend and I don't want girls to be getting gay vibes from me. Do you think she is serious or only messing with me??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6183 days ago

16 December 2007 (M age 30-35 - OK, so I'm not sure if this girl was serious or if she was just messing with me, but it's bugging me quite the bit. Last night I was with my friend and two girls, I hooked up with one of them a few times, but her friend kept on saying how she thinks I am going to turn ou... (139 words

I don't want to be with him anymore, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6167 days ago

16 December 2007 (F age 51-59 - How do I tell my partner that I no longer want us to be together? My partner and I had been seeing each other for just over 4 years when we split up in February. He then kept texting me and desperately wanted to give our relationship another go. In the end we started seeing ... (162 words

Does need a break means I will leave you?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6147 days ago

16 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - my boyfriend has recently told me he needs a break. Does this mean he is goin to leave me?... (19 words

My landlord complains about my dog. Nothing was said about this when moving in and now I'm panicking, what to do??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6184 days ago

16 December 2007 (F age 41-50 - My question isn't relevant to love but I don't really know where else to turn for advice. I moved out on my own 6 months ago. You could say I've led a sheltered life and am perhaps a bit naive. I'm 22 and this is my first time living alone, and I'm learning plenty from my m... (289 words

Does chlamydia remain in your system even after treatment, being contagious?

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16 December 2007 (? age 36-40 - If you get infected once by chylamadia and get treated for it, does it always remain in your system which makes it possible to infect others....... (26 words

Me and my best friend fell in love, now he has backed out saying he doesn't want "us" anymore, he wants a girlfriend but still wants us to remain friends, how do I deal with this hurt?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

16 December 2007 (M age 36-40 - Over the past three and half years, my best friend and I slowly feel in love-both of us scared to death of our feelings; we both didn't consider ourselves gay. After the first year, we slowly became intimate. For the year, we have both dealt with the scary feelings of facing ... (225 words

She completely bowled me over, how do I ask out my dream girl??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6184 days ago

16 December 2007 (M - Yesterday i had one of them all over spray tans done, because it was our Christmas party yesterday and i wanted that sun kissed look. Anyway the girl that did the tanning completely bowled me over. She was like my perfect girl, i mean if i could literally create a girl she is ... (189 words

Do I have a right to be angry at my ex who I had a dysfunctional relationship with?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6184 days ago

16 December 2007 (F age 36-40 - i went out with a guy for three months was crazy about him, the first time we broke up it was because he decided he didnt want to be in a relationship and because he knew i was ending it with him as i told him we needed to talk he ended it with me in a text message. Then he ... (288 words

Does a boy teasing you mean he fancies you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6184 days ago

16 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - hi i was just wondering what people think about this... When boys harmlessly tease you do they really fancy you? I've heard sooo many people say this. Thanks x... (43 words

I love my God brother, is this wrong?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6171 days ago

16 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - i loved my god brother. i know we cannot have any relationship but i don't know to stop my feeling toward him. is it a mistake for loving our own god brother? i kept thinking of him day and night. i even sometimes thought him as my bf. what should i do??... (56 words

My boyfriend doesn't want to spend the night with me anymore!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6184 days ago

16 December 2007 (F age 41-50 - Hey all, i've been with my boyfriend for over 2years. He has always been allowed to stay in my bedroom with me on the weekends(and has many times). However lately he doesnt want to stay with me at all. He says it's because i only have a single bed and he can't have a good ... (165 words

I don't want to be with him any more. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6184 days ago

16 December 2007 (F age 51-59 - my husband has not had a job in one year. he always have an attitude and he seems jealous that i have a job and i've been on my job for ten years. i really am tired of his attitude and him not working. i dont want to be with him anymore. what should i do? ... (56 words

How can I sing with a sore throat? Any remedies?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

16 December 2007 (M age 36-40 - Hi everybody. Slight change from the norm; I have a health related question. As some of you know, I'm in a rock band for my Music course in college. I have to give a performance this Thursday in front of all my fellow students and friends. It is a fairly important perfor... (162 words

How do I get to the next level without appearing to be 'easy'?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6183 days ago

16 December 2007 (F age 36-40 - What's the best way to let a guy know you're interested without acting like an idiot or scaring him off? I'm already scared to talk to the guy I like about the potential for more. I think he has an idea that I like him because I smile, then blush when he's around, and finally ... (101 words

How can I recover from a relationship with an ex b/f who loves himself more than anything else?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6184 days ago

16 December 2007 (F - I am 19 years old and I was in a relationship with a narrcissist for a year. Its been 5 months almost now since I ended it and havent yet recovered. I am lost as to what to do. I still feel emotionaly ruined. I dont feel normal. I dont feel like i used to before i met him. ... (269 words

I've got piles but he wants anal sex!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

16 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - i constently have piles and nthing will get rid of it and mi boyfriend is reall discusted by it he keeps askin for anal sex but it would really hurt and every time he sticks his penis up my virgina it reall hurts and stings wot should i do he will dump me if i dont get rid of ... (60 words

When I met up with my online date things weren't so terrific. I still like him though but he seems to have lost his interest, what should I do to make him come back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6184 days ago

16 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - well, i met a boy over the internet, a few months ago, then we started dating, he looked really hot in his pictures and had a great personality, and he only lived a hour away in the same country. so me and my mate went to meet him. he was so diffrent. he looked exactly the ... (85 words

My ex cheated on me and now I link sex to her and haven't been able to have a sexual relationship for 4 years. How do I regain my self confidence in this again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6184 days ago

16 December 2007 (M age 41-50 - So here is my problem some of you will say its not a problem but its ruining my life. So since my ex 4 years ago i have had no sexual contact with anyone i found my ex cheating and now i link sex to her and that i easnt good enough or couldnt please her. I dont even feel like a ... (106 words

I can't seem to feel comforatble naked with my husband, post-natally. How to overcome my insecurities?

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16 December 2007 (F age 51-59 - How can I regain my confidence being naked with my husband? Over the years my husand has used a lot of porn and has made many negative comments about my post baby body (ie why did you have to get stretch marks and why arnt your breasts as perky as the woman in this mag) in coma... (109 words

I'm worried he is too big for me if we have sex. What can I do about a potential incompatibility relative to dimensions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6184 days ago

16 December 2007 (F age 36-40 - I been with my boyfriend for a year now. We have never had sex yet because we were taking this relationship slow. Now we are in love and we are ready to express that love to each other. Iam worried about one thing. Iam afraid he will not be able to fit inside me. You see, he is ... (120 words

Love in time or a hopeless romantic? I don't think she's ready for relationship with anyone but my heart is hopeful.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6180 days ago

16 December 2007 (M age 51-59 - I made friends with a girl and we got close but she was going through an extremely hard time and I seemed to become her punchbag for a while.Before this I had told her I felt and she seemed to reciporate we had kissed and almost slept together (but I stopped it)now she claims ... (217 words

I work, she parties, I get angry. Am I being selfish?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6184 days ago

16 December 2007 (M age 36-40 - Am I spending too much time at work? I am being selfish? I've been married for a year. Live together and love my wife. She has many close ties with her friends I work for the military which sometimes requires long hours. After work I get home, eat dinner and get some re... (163 words

My teacher said "there are things inside he cannot mention during classes" and I think he referred to having a crush on me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6184 days ago

16 December 2007 (F age 36-40 - well one year ago i noticed that my teacher at college is having a crush on me and i noticed that from his way of looking at me and smiles and sometimes he says things during the course which hint to me like once he said "there are things inside that i cannot say in class"and ... (229 words

I confronted my partner but he denies having cheated on me. How do I find out the real truth?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6184 days ago

16 December 2007 (F age 51-59 - This is a follow up to a question posted yesterday. I confronted my partner as advised but he completely denied having an affair. He said the woman who told me is just obsessed with him and is just trying to break us up. I dont know whether to believe him or not. I want to ... (128 words

I am scared that he will break up with me and/or never forgive if he finds out I cheated on him several times.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6183 days ago

16 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I will have been going out for a year at the end of this month. Our relationship has been really rocky until recently as we had both lived in different cities until a few months ago. Therefore, we are just starting to really get to know each other, although I ... (355 words

Do I confront her about the way she avoids me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6181 days ago

16 December 2007 (F age 36-40 - Okay so I've been seeing this girl for a few months and we have a lot in common. We knew from the first day we met that we'd probably end up really liking each other. A couple weeks ago I stayed over at her place and we went out to breakfast the next day with a friend of hers. ... (287 words

She's my superior at work and I'm her toyboy. Do I keep the status quo, or should I end it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6184 days ago

16 December 2007 (M age 36-40 - So im 21 and since augest i have been having an affair with my 41 year boss (MILF), who's husband happens to be the manager of the place where i work, so technically he is my boss where she is my superior, and they have three kids who enjoy playing with me when they visit work. ... (220 words

Should I date the girl I love - even though she's pregnant with another man's child?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6176 days ago

16 December 2007 (M age 30-35 - Ok i have been trying to get the girl i love for the last year and i have sorted succeded for a while. But she couldnt stay away from her ex who is a horrible person, he uses and abuses her. And she just wouldnt say no to him in hopes he has changed. She has hurt me this way 3 ... (299 words

He tells me I'm phitt, but walks away when I see him with his mates.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6161 days ago

16 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - hi well me and this guy at school have been flirtin like mad on msn. as soon as i come online or he comes online he'll click on me and weed start chattin. were always flirtin-and saying things like i love u or things like your phitt. he is usually the one hu ses these things ... (167 words

Does he have feelings for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6184 days ago

16 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - Well I need advice. I'm 13 and I'm wondering what this guy is thinking. I think he likes me because he flirts and calls me nick names. One time he called my name in class and when I looked over and smiled. I was kind of shy but I waved at him. Do you think that he has feelings ... (61 words

We couldnt kick the drugs, so we kicked each other. Will I ever find love again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6184 days ago

16 December 2007 (? age 36-40 - Hello...I am still very much in love with my ex boyfriend of three years from college. We broke up because we both had drug problems and neither could kick the habit, so we kicked eachother. Regardless, I want to move on and find someone else, but it is SO hard. I want to know ... (92 words

I feel as if I'm being denied close physical contact. Any suggestions?

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16 December 2007 (M age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I have been dating for approx. 8 months. I go to college, and she remains near her home town, splitting an apartment. Although emotionally we have developed a great deal, and we get along great, physically, she might be classified "frigid" although I would... (396 words

She gave me oral - twice - but I didn't orgasm. How can I reassure her that I really care for her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6184 days ago

16 December 2007 (M age 30-35 - So my girlfriend started giving me oral in the car, and it was my first time. I didn't cum in her mouth, because although it felt good, i just didn't orgasm. And the same thing happened again later. What do I do? I don't want to make her feel like she's not worth anything to me ... (62 words

My friend seems a little psycho. How do I handle it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6185 days ago

16 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - I'm a 13 year old girl. I just made friends with this girl this year and shes 14. People think shes weird but I don't. I have to watch my back because sometimes she can really lie badly. Lately this guy has been flirting with me and I think it makes her jealous because one time ... (106 words

I think he is gay, but I also think my collegue is flirting with me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6185 days ago

16 December 2007 (M age 36-40 - Well...I landed a new job just a month ago and I am already having problems [go figure]. I am not really sure where I stand at this point, but I definitely like men [this was made clear on my last job]. Before I start...let me just say that I have a good judge of character. I ... (357 words

Is my boyfriend gay? He looks at gay porn on the internet but insists he is straight.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5547 days ago

16 December 2007 (F age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years. Our relationship has had its ups and downs, as most relationships do, however, I think my boyfriend might be gay. 6 months into our relationship, I found a lot of gay pornography on his computer. I was... (431 words

His ex girlfriend is a nuisance, should I befriend her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6185 days ago

16 December 2007 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend's ex has tried to come between me and him. She's just clinging on to what they had even though it's been over a year since they split. My friends tell me I need to tell her to back off. She still contacts him quite regularly. I'm not an agressive person. ... (80 words

I thought I was straight but I fell for my female collegue, but I want a husband and children also. Do I stay with my lesbian lover, or get back with my ex boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6185 days ago

16 December 2007 (F age 41-50 - im at yhe peak of my career when things started to stumble, i was introduced to a new office mate, she is intelligent, sexy and pretty, we get along very well, we became close friends, most of the time we share our pants, shoes, foods, lipstick and even tootbrush too! we became ... (493 words

I am a married woman falling in love with my lover, what should my next move be?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4751 days ago

16 December 2007 (F age 41-50 - i have been married for 12 years there has been nothing between my husband and i for about 2 years and I have been having an affair for the past 12 months with a man who is also in a relationship. Iam falling in love with my lover and think he has also i want to know if he ... (70 words

I like a Canadian girl but I'm afraid she'll reject me because I'm not Canadian.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6185 days ago

16 December 2007 (M age 30-35 - I want to ask a girl out, but I'm afraid of something. She's popular, not too popular but not a noname. This might seem stupid but, i'm afraid she'll reject me because i'm not Canadian. Shes Canadian, and was born here etc. I was born in Ukraine and came here when I was 5. I ... (95 words

I still have feelings for my first love, and I've heard she has feelings for me too, but she has a boyfriend.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6182 days ago

16 December 2007 (M age 36-40 - hey i been thinkin alot recently and its about an old girlfriend of mine that i broke up with bout a year ago now n she has a new boyfriend now but i hav heard from my best mate.. hu is also her best mate that she still has strong feelings for me n i do really still like her... ... (139 words

Is my cousin bi curious or just awkward around me because I am a lesbian?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6185 days ago

16 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hi i am female 18 years old and also a lesbian, i just got back in contact with my cousin who is also female but tells me she is not a lesbian, she has been acting very weird around me. its sort of like she's trying to tell me she fancies me, i am really confused and have no ... (133 words

How do I initiate french kissing? We had a kiss and it was a disaster...!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6182 days ago

16 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - so heres the deal. im sixteen. so its not like im 12 or 13 and asking this question. dont judge me for this either. HAH. but yeah. up untill recently, i have never had a REAL boyfriend. ive only had 'things' like.. little unofficial relationships. but now, i have my boy... (244 words

I love him but I think I would be better off without him, should I listen to my heart or my head?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6185 days ago

16 December 2007 (F age - have been dating a guy for 6 months i fell in love with him.he says he loves me but we hardly spend any time together or even talk.i feel like i am being used by him but don't know what i should do i love him.so should i listen to my heart or my mind telling me to let him go. ... (62 words

He calls me Baby and Honey. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6184 days ago

16 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - I'm 14 years old (girl)and I need someone's advice. This guy always flirts with me. This year we kind of started talking and he's been showing alot of things. One time he said hi when we were at our lockers and he called me baby and whats up? and he has called me honey before. ... (80 words

It seems my fiance is missing the relationship he had with his ex, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6184 days ago

16 December 2007 (F age 36-40 - My fiance and I have been engaged since sept 1.07. His ex girlfriend sent him a message on nov 27 just saying she was going through her contacts and ran across him and that he is not on her hate-list anymore. Well he was excited to hear from her and that he does not hate her ... (342 words

Generally how soon do guys get bored in a new relationsip?

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16 December 2007 (? age 51-59 - How long does it take the new to wear off when you begin dating someone new?Is it true guys get bored after 6months and look for something new?... (28 words

I have a huge crush on him and can't get him out of my head, but I know it's not going to go anywhere...

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16 December 2007 (F - theres this boy that i see now and again that i cant get out my head. theres just something about him that makes me feel all happy inside. well i use to see him then we started talking on msn again and we started seeing each other again. but he dosent seem to want to be in a ... (174 words

My girl friend keeps coming onto me, and my boyfriend too! What do we do?

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16 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - I feel that one of my best mates that's a girl fancy's me. She has been trying to get me to enrol in certain sexual activities with her and i don't really swing that way. She been trying to flirt with my fella constinally telling him how 'hot' and 'good looking' he is and i ... (70 words

I've had a crush on her for ages, she's now single, do I make a move?

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16 December 2007 (M age 30-35 - I've had a major crush on a girl since september. Before she had a boyfriend. Now shes single. All I've been able to do is concentrate on her for the past months. Like, back in the day, I used to not want to go to school if I didn't have to, I used to look for an excuse not to ... (118 words

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