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anonymous
writes:I am a woman of 25 and I have big clitories. I am so shy of this to have a relationship with men. I have shown to one of my girlfriend the other day and she said I have to see a doctor so they can circumsize it. do you think it is a good Idea?
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reader, shoebazar  +, writes (12 October 2014):
Some guys will in fact appreciate a larger clitoris as it makes it easier to rub u to orgasm.
Most guys will also like to take part of the clitoris in their mouth and this oral sex will be better for both.
U must remember that the clitoris is important to the guy as he can get something between his lips during oral sex.
So the big clitoris is an advantage.
Shoebazar
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reader, crunchfoot  +, writes (6 September 2010):
Under no circumstances should you consider altering your clitoris. If the hood of this organ is removed it would leave an extremely sensitive area exposed. If, by chance, you mean "excision" (total removal)of your clitoris, you will be unable to experience great pleasure during intimate physical relations with anyone. Do not be concerned about what men think. To a man that really cares about you, it will not matter. There is also the great possibility that he may like it and think it's wonderful. Think of yourself as blessed, and enjoy what you have been given. DO NOT let a doctor or anyone change or take away your gift. Believe me!
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2007): You do not have to be ashame of any part of your body. A real man will love you for what you are, the way you are...and in sex, I believe is a plus for you. Don't you dare do anything foolish to please NO ONE.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2007): This has nothing to do with genital mutilation / female circumcision. She is asking about a cosmetic issue.
You may be self conscious about the male reaction to a large clitoris, and depending on the size and on the guy, you should be. A guy may want to be the only one with anything even resembling a penis in the bedroom, and he may find it gross. But it depends on the guy. Some are wimps who will run away screaming. Who needs them? Some will try to get comfortable with the idea. And some will find it a turn on!
If you are set on it, you should consider the risks involved: how much sensation will be left after such an operation. How likely is an accident.
And also your own psychology: is it really big, or are you just overly self conscious? Men are different from one to the next, and you shouldn't assume that it is necessary to be one restricted type of anatomy/personality in order to get along with a mate in bed. You don't have to sleep with everyone after all. You just want to find someone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2007): I think you should just grow your hair a bit longer right there to cover it a bit if it makes you self-conscious. Not many people are 100% happy with every part of their body, but you have to learn to accept it. If it's big i bet it's easy for you to reach orgasm, so maybe you can take advantage of that? If any guy ever makes an inappropriate comment about it, kick him to the curb.
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reader, Fairy_Lu  +, writes (13 December 2007):
 Dont do it! You will regret it be happy with your body and smile at the fact that atleast your partners will know where it is!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2007): If this doesn't put you off the idea of circumcision, nothing will:-
http://www.who.int/mediacentre/factsheets/fs241/en/
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2007): Surgical intervention should not be considered unless there's some physical pain or discomfort. I imagine it would be extremely painful and in all probability you'd lose sensation there, which cannot be recommended. I cannot imagine any responsible surgeon trying to alter the way you look purely for cosmetic purposes.
You are what you are and everyone is different anyway - there's no need to try to change the way you look, especially in that area.
Female cicumcision is a horrible mutilation of the genitals and in many cases further surgery is required to repair the damage, which can be severe, and will cause problems for the rest of your life.
Phil
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reader, chrissy32789 +, writes (13 December 2007):
 If it is that big of a deal for you then i would go to a doctor and get checked and see what they can do for you. All women are diffrent in that area, but if you are really shy about it then go for it it wont hurt you to see what a doctor would say about it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2007): of course it isnt a good idea, this is called female genital mutilation. your ''problem'' is not a problem, the problem is a cruel and damaging tradition and generations of people who think that a woman should not experience sexual pleasure. you do realise that you will never experience sexual pleasure if you get ''circumcised'' ??? ignore your friend, do not get this done, women and young girls have died from getting ''circumcised''
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