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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Hot to stop the teasing.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6219 days ago

11 December 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - What if you are really good friends with the boy you like and he likes you and your whole class knows and some people tease you about it how do you hang out with him with out all the teasing... (40 words)

Talk about us or give him more time.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6219 days ago

11 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I just broke up with each other. It is obvious that we both miss each other and he has even told me that he still likes me and no one else. He is always looking at me and standing around me. It's almost like we never went out and that we are back to the ... (72 words)

I'm in love with my first cousin.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6166 days ago

11 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Im an 18 year old South Asian male. Cousin marriages are legal (traditionally and religiously) and quite common in my country and even in my family. I love my 16 year old first cousin (daughter of my father's sister), I had a crush on her around 3 years ago, we used to have ... (471 words)

I suspected he is a player, but we have really connected and are taking it slowly, am I just his bootie call?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6219 days ago

11 December 2007 (F)

age - I met this guy about a month ago, hated him at first, he screamed player to me, however after getting to know him I began to like him and have slept with him twice. Both times we connected emotionally as well as sexually. I dont know where we're going or if he is playing with ... (122 words)

She says she's going to leave her husband for me, but I'm not sure, neither me or her husband deserve this, should I say enough is enough?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6215 days ago

11 December 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - i am having an affair with a married girl , i have tried to end it cause i love her but she cannot be with me . but she came right bk the next day saying she had made a mistake to let me go , and i am the only one she wants so i took her bk , and have been trying to give her my ... (187 words)

Poll question: duration of the sexual act?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6219 days ago

11 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey i would like to know how long on average a man can have sex for, i just want to compare. can you give me one number or 2 instead of saying it varies please? Thank you so much xx... (45 words)

Should I choose my boyfriend or his brother?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6180 days ago

11 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in a completely odd situation. Along time ago I met this guy I thought was so hot. I of course flirted with him and gave him my number. He called me and we talked a lot, sometimes late into the night. And then everything just ended. He never called again and we never saw ... (316 words)

Should I tell him I like as my friends advised me? I'm 13, he's 27. Worried about ruining our relationship.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6210 days ago

11 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Well for the last 3 months I've been talking to this guy. He's turning 27 soon and I"m only 13. We talk all the time and about last month I started to have feeelings for him. My friends say it's not wrong, but the age differance conserns me. They say I should tell him how I ... (74 words)

She rejected one of my invitations so I went out with another girl. Now I have the chance to see the initial girl again, but I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6219 days ago

11 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - K, so I f***ed up and need some advice on this one. 3 weeks ago I met a girl, and we hooked up that night, had great chemistry right away. I liked her pretty much right away, and we've been talking since. Well, the weekend after that I asked her on a date, but she sai... (330 words)

3 boyfriends in 4 months. I don't know if I love my boyfriends, or just having them. Please advise!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6220 days ago

11 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know whats going on in my head. Ive had 3 boyfriends in 4 months. and i dont know if i love my boyfriends or if i love the idea of having a boyfriend. not to mention people at school have been calling me a tramp because i jump from guy to guy. what should i do??... (59 words)

What should I get him for Christmas?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6219 days ago

11 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi people, as you know its coming up to christmas and i dont have a clue what to get my boyfriend! its so easy for guys but what am i supposed to get him. i was thinking about a dvd but he dosnt have any cause he gets them of the internet and burns them. Please help cause im... (65 words)

How can I get rid of manboobs?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6219 days ago

11 December 2007 (M) - dear readers how can i get rid of my man boobs, as i have tried everything from weight lifting, toning and press-ups but nothing seems to happen. Is their any other way to get rid of them as i can not afford to go to surgery as i am not rich? And i also heard its a big tur... (113 words)

Help! My husband is always talking to his ex wife!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6219 days ago

11 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have been together for almost 2 years. I have 2 daughters from a previous relationship and he has a son from a previous marriage. His son is 6 and very sensitive. His son still has many issues about his mommy and daddy divorcing, even though they ... (485 words)

Is it normal for a man to enjoy receiving anal-play during sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6220 days ago

11 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it normal for a man to enjoy having his anus played with during sex? When my husband and I are having sex, he likes for me to put my finger in (just the tip) or around is anus. This gives him ultimate pleasure. I haven't questioned him about it. I'm too embarrassed to ask ... (69 words)

Why am I so worried, and paranoid?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6140 days ago

11 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, im a 17 year old male and iv been with the most amazing girl for about 3 weeks now and iv fallen already and im really scared of losing her, she tells me she loves me and i know she does but theres this thing inside me, like its controlling me and makeing me paranoid and i ... (195 words)

What happens when a girl gets turned on by a boy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6196 days ago

11 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - What happens when a girl gets turned on by a boy?... (11 words)

My fiance who I love dearly is a former cheater, now a woman at work is tempting me to have an affair. What to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6219 days ago

11 December 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been in a relationship with my woman for 12 years. We are still both not married. We were engaged early this millenium until I found out from her electronic mail that she's been cheating on me. We mended that problem and I stayed. We are in the planning stages ... (264 words)

I don't want to lose him! Can you help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6220 days ago

11 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 months. I have been hurt in the past with other relationships so in the early part of my current relationship, I kept my "options" opened (my fault) but saw how amazing of a man my boyfriend is and realized I found the one so I ... (99 words)

I think I have low self-esteem. Is there something wrong with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6219 days ago

11 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i simply asked my freinds if you could what would you change about your self (looks wise) i said i would change a lot of things. my freinds say i was saying that to get compliments on my looks which i honestly wasnt i was asking that to see how they feel about themself... (94 words)

Worried I could be pregnant!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6219 days ago

11 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi all, just wanted to ask a quick question. I started to take the pill last monday but my period hadnt finished yet, then i had sex with my bf on the tues and we used condoms, however its now a week later and im feeling bloated and im worried maybe i could be pregnant? can ... (63 words)

It's been 2 months. I think I really love her, but I'm worried we lack a "spark". Can you help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6218 days ago

11 December 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Me and my girlfriend have been dating for almost 2 months now..and i think i really do love her. but lately things have been feeling wierd between us. like there is no "spark" and i think she is thinking about breaking up with me. how do i light this "spark" and save our real... (60 words)

We broke up a month ago, but I still really love him. Should I forget he ever existed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6219 days ago

11 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi There, My ex dumped me after two years a month ago. He said he just didn't feel the same even though I was due to move in with him (he asked me) and we had been going to family dinners etc, a couple of weeks before he was suggesting routes for me to get to work and loads of ... (217 words)

Should I dump my teacher even though I'm madly in love with him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6195 days ago

11 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - ok...here goes...i havnt even told my best mates about this so i cant believe im telling the whole internet...im having an affair with my teacher and its been going on for three years... honestly i cant believe noones found out about it yet and i know its only a matter of time! ... (289 words)

My Long Distance relationship broke up recently. I love him, but now he has somebody else! I want him back. Help please!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6219 days ago

11 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex and I recently broke up... I just found out that he has another girlfriend. It hurts me because i really love him. I'd do anything to be with him again. Prolem is he lives 700kms away from me. Him and his gf recently went further than kissing and i can't stop ha... (95 words)

Is it really ok to put my hands down my pants and not worry about germs??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6220 days ago

11 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay. When i masturbate, and try new things, my penis area - testicles and bum - usually touch things around the house, like a carpet or wall or chair. i keep thinkng i need to clean these areas up and remove bacteria. but none of my friends do. not that i watch them of course. ... (164 words)

Can a penis be too big to fit in?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6220 days ago

11 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - is there a possibility that the penis doesnt fit in a girl's vagina because its too big??... (17 words)

Am I EVER going to orgasm?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6219 days ago

11 December 2007 (?) age 30-35 - Hey this may be a bit of a stupid question but here goes: I dont think Ive ever had an orgasm. ever! Im with a great bf who's VERY large down there! and great in bed! im not joking, he is the best guy ive been with. But ive been with a few guys and i've never been able to ... (152 words)

Do you think he likes me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6174 days ago

11 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 13 year old girl and I'm still in public school. Some of my friends think this guy likes me. I'm not gonna say his name. On the first day of school he winked at me. One time in gym class I was just standing in the middle of the gym and he comes and stands up beside my hip ... (173 words)

She says she likes me too but her parents don't want her to date until she's 16 and also she says she can't bring herself to trust me. I'm confused, what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6220 days ago

11 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I like a girl a lot, and she likes me too, but her parents don't want her dating until she's 16. I feel for her like I have never felt for anyone else before, but she's new to all of this, and I don't quite understand her problems. She moved here about a year ago. She says ... (107 words)

How do people tend to get boyfriends and girlfriends?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6220 days ago

11 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey i'm just wondering here how do peole tend to get boyfriends and girlfriends? Like how do they do it and what do they do? I'm just curious... (28 words)

I'm working on getting over the break up and visuals of other women being with him, I feel robbed, betrayed and angry, help!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6214 days ago

11 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Alright I have been on this off and on for a few weeks to see if anyone is going through something similiar and if I could get some info off of theirs. Found one or two, but not exact so im just going to go w/it. I broke up w/my boyfriend of 2 years about 3 weeks ago..it st... (458 words)

How can I get over the stupid lies in the past and fully trust him again!!???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6216 days ago

11 December 2007 (F)

- I'm having a VERY hard time trusting my boyfriend. Last year around this time, he betrayed my trust and then a few months after that, he did it once again. There was never cheating involved, that I am aware of at least, but I don't believe there really ever was. It was just ... (236 words)

I want to leave my wife for another woman, I'm in the armed forces and my father in law is my superior officer. If I just run away I will be charged by a court marshal! How do I get out of this mess??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6220 days ago

11 December 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm married for less than two years and I'm in the armed forces.It's important to know,my father in law is one of my superior officers.I never really loved my wife and I'm now in love with someone else and I want to leave everyhting behind and be with her.Considering my parents ... (100 words)

He said he liked me but then went and kissed some other chick. Now I'm starting to like another guy but I don't know if it is only for rebound. I'm so confused now, what should I do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6220 days ago

11 December 2007 (F) - hey, i really like this guy. He ended up telling me he likes me to. He said he aint like other guys etc and i belived him, but then he went and kissed some other chick. I surpose the alcohol didt help. He did say sorry tho and that what he said was true. Also im starting to ... (143 words)

Does she still want him? And if she does, would it be so bad to stay with her anyway?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6161 days ago

11 December 2007 (M)

age - We are both in our 40's, I am 1.5 yrs divorced. I met her 1 yr ago. She had a BF who is 20 yrs younger than her that broke it off 6 mos before I met her. They are still best friends. She seems to need to make him happy, but swears she doesn't want him back. She talks about ... (164 words)

I'm afraid he might be abusive, but I'm not really sure it is not only in my mind, what shall I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6220 days ago

11 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi my name is lucie and i have a boy friend we havn't been goin out less then a month and he is controling adleast that wat i think. Am not really sure if am in abusive relationship. Will sometime i would think it is abuse and at other time i would think it just a mind ... (145 words)

My wife says I'm oversexed and I say she is undersexed, what would you say?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5222 days ago

11 December 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi I need sex at least once a day. My wife of 12 years is quite happy if we have sex once a month. When we do its great. She suffers from a low sex drive. It seems like its heriditry. Could her being on the pill cause this ? She says all her friends only do it once a ... (94 words)

I have fallen for another man!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6218 days ago

11 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 22 and have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. After spending the last year working away, and hardly ever seeing him we moved in together in July. I thought things were ok until I started having feelings for a work collegue. It was just a crush at first, but after a while ... (182 words)

My boyfriend has no ambition and no drive to succeed.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6171 days ago

11 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I need some help with a boyfriend and life crisis. I love my boyfriend more than anything. He's my first love and I'm his. We do everything together and spend every spare second together. we've been together now for nearly 18 months but the problem is, we are so differen... (485 words)

Is it necessary to remove the foreskin to have babies?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6220 days ago

11 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I just wanted to know that if it necessary to remove foreskin of the penis while having babies .... (19 words)

Does he like me or am I just really crushing???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6220 days ago

11 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so it's been a few weeks now and i still haven't gotten an answer from him, just to catch you up i'll tell you whats been happening, " danny " and I went on the grad cruise, and met up together and started dancing throughout the whole night. when it was time to go home we ... (244 words)

I have been rejected by my friends and feel awful! How do I cope and get through my degree coursework without them bothering me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6220 days ago

11 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been in my degree about 2 months. I made a small group of friends, who seemed ok at the start, we went on a night out with the uni, i enjoyed their company, but slowly due to illness I had a few days off here and there, and they began to make plans without me. I accepted ... (473 words)

I have had a rough year

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6220 days ago

11 December 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I want to know what people think of the year I've had (relationship-wise); it would be interesting for me to find out: It all started very well in January when I was going out with a girl who lived in Yorkshire, but after 2 months, she cheated on me (she was 18, I was 27 at ... (282 words)

I got back together with my ex, but I am not sure that was a good idea. I just don't feel the same anymore!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6219 days ago

11 December 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - My partner and I split up in February. We didn't live together or anything but we had been seeing each other for just over 4 years when we split. Things hadn't been good for around 6 months before the split and I felt we were at different points in our lives. We got together ... (250 words)

My brother is having surgery today and I need some prayers and word of support

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6220 days ago

11 December 2007 (F)

age - My brother is undergoing surgery to remove a brain tumor today. He has been fighting brain cancer for 5 years. We lost our Dad at the end of September. He is only 11 months older than me, so when we were growing up, we were very close. If you know of any prayers or prayer ... (111 words)

My husband emptied our bank accounts and moved to England to be with a woman he just met!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6219 days ago

11 December 2007 (F)

age - please helpme .my husband of 7years has just told me that our marriage is over.there have been no signs of our marriage going down hill.he went home in march to build a house for us in bg.i was over in sept and everything seemed to be ok.but low and behold on nov i discovered ... (134 words)

Should I have let my older boyfriend fondle me? It made me unconfortable, but was I just being childish?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

11 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a female. I have a boyfriend called Ricky (not real name)he is 24 and i am 16 (i know big age gap but he and i get along really good). We ain't made out yet but he wants to. I went to rick's house when his parents were out somewhere and we did the usual stuff, chatted and... (205 words)

I have moved out of our house, but I really want to break up completely. How can I do this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6219 days ago

11 December 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi. I'm 40. I have been in a relationship for about 8 years. There has been allot of water under the bridge. About 5 years ago, we got engaged and bought a house together. She suffers from chronic depression(even before I met her) and it was very hard for me to keep things g... (316 words)

What should I think of her being distant and confused?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6220 days ago

11 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been dating this girl for over 2 months and previously dated her in the spring but she broke it off! After missing each other she asked me out and we got back together. I love this girl and she tells me that she wants to be with me but she doesnt do anything special or ... (98 words)

He's a cheapskate, but am I making a big deal out of his stereotyping people?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6220 days ago

11 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been dating this guy that I really like for the past month and half. There are two things about him that I would change if I could. He is a bit cheap, he will tell me to pay for stuff when we go out and I don't mind doing it but I do mind him feeling like he has to tell me ... (215 words)

He treats me more like a slave than an equal partner. What am I to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6220 days ago

11 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have moved from one country to another for my former fiance(well,now my husband)just a year ago. Before I moved, I made a good living and had a nice job etc and was very happy. Moving to this country, language became a barrier for me and so thus I couldnt work over the year ... (380 words)

Why do I think no-one is good enough?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6220 days ago

11 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently i've been through a break-up. And everytime i meet a new guy i compare him to my ex. So i dont know the good guys from the bad. Why is this happening? Why can i just get over my ex? And when i compare any guy to him, i think none of them are good enough. =(... (58 words)

What is 'Lube'?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6220 days ago

11 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - this may sound really stupid but what is this lube or lubricant that everyone is talking about using? is there any other methods of using a substitute or anything? i'm completely new to this whole thing. thanks, plz help!... (42 words)

Is it wrong to occasionally use porn?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 6147 days ago

11 December 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I met my wife 10 years and married for 2. I love deeply and think she is one of the most attractive women that I have ever seen. Occasionally I watch porn.By occasionally I mean I may not watch it for a few months then I may watch it say 3 or 4 times in a month.I would rather h... (622 words)

I don't feel normal and am depressed. How can I get back to normality?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6220 days ago

11 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - ok, i feel like im giving in for asking for help here, but i need some help.Sorry if its long.Im fed up with lying to myself,pretending im fine, but im not, so heres where my problem starts... I was with my ex for nearly 2 years, he split with me in march, and met another ... (400 words)

What does his "puppy love" for me mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6220 days ago

11 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend is in his 40's an says he "puppy loves me" can you tell me what this means. Will it die off or grow into true love? I am confused! I thought this was a childish thing? ... (38 words)

I'm still slim and attractive but he'd rather look at other women. Should I leave and find someone who is interested in me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6220 days ago

11 December 2007 (F)

age - I am worried about my sex life with hubby, we have a difficult sex life anyway mainly due to him masturbating since being a boy, he is now 48 and we have been married for 29 years, I only recently found this out, and he was watching porn behind my back but says he has stopped ... (596 words)

I feel like the 'Piggy in the middle' and I'm losing friends because of her. Who's to blame?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6220 days ago

11 December 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been married for three years now and I'm 24, my wife 26. before we got married we knew each other a year, things were slightly rocky with some of my friends right before i met her, i guess i just have been very loyal to people when they still don't seem to give it back. ... (418 words)

Is he a mental case or just naturally violent?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6220 days ago

11 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My b/f of 2 yrs seems to disagree with almost all my opinions. He talks loudly and emotionally throwing hands when reacting to my opinions. This really upsets me, i feel intimidated because i do not like it at all. Sometimes I choose to keep my opinions to myself to avoid the ... (81 words)

Girlfriend upset me when she was drunk... do I forgive and forget?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6220 days ago

11 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - At the weekend i went away on holiday with my girlfriend and her family. I went out clubbing with her and her brothers. When we got back to the hotel it all got a bit strange. waiting in the lobby for her brothers to get back (making sure they made it back ok)... my girlfr... (272 words)

Can there be bleeding from penis as the male loses his virginity?? Does excessive masturbation have implication upon holding an erection easily during the sexual act?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6220 days ago

11 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I just wanted to ask for educational purpose that during sexual intercourse as male loose their virginity can there be bleeding from penis ? and how painful is sex for males and if someone has masturbated many a times before actual sex can we get an erection easily at the time ... (55 words)

Last night I cheated on my husband. Should I tell him?

This question has 34 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

11 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a terrible dilemma--I cheated on my husband last night and I don't know if I should tell him or not. We have been together for over seven years (married two), I met him when I was 18 and he's the only guy that I had ever slept with or even really kissed, until last nig... (303 words)

I don't want to end up end up comprimising our relationship because of my trust issues.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6220 days ago

11 December 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I have, almost major trust issues, with my girlfriend. she is christian and she says that its against her religion to cheat. but i have strong feelings that she is affiliated with another man. im 14 and shes 15 and we are crazy about eachother. we even decided to get married ... (140 words)

She wants out. Can I do anything?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6220 days ago

11 December 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - i am a lesbian who has been with my partner for 12yrs.i have cheated on my wife a few times several years ago and told her everything a couple of years ago.during all of this i realized how nieve and weak i was. i took people for face value. i allowed people to have control ... (250 words)

How do I avoid being made to look a fool?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6096 days ago

11 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am developing a huge thing for my ex boyfriend Mark's brother Jake. It is a very complicated situation (obviously). I kissed, and fooled around with Jake three times, before me and Mark ever dated or even met! but when Mark and I did get together...his brother wouldn't talk ... (180 words)

Do I dump him or keep him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6220 days ago

11 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Do I dump him or keep him? I have this guy i have been dating for 8months now. In two weeks is christmas. Him and me have fun and enjoy cuddling. A two months ago, his ex came back and i didnt like it. we fought alot, and i won his heart. She never is going to speak to him ... (205 words)

It wasn't my first time, but it was horrible. Is something wrong with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6220 days ago

11 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I had sex last night and I didn't enjoy it the least bit. It wasn't my first time. But for some reason it was boring and horrible. It didn't hurt of feel bad, it just didn't feel good. Is there something wrong with me?... (47 words)

Scared to ask my husband for more children!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6220 days ago

11 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been marrried for 7 years and have a 3 year old daughter. Before I got married I told my now husband that I wanted children. He said he was not interested in having any. I told him I couldnt marry someone who didnt want children. To cut a long story short he c... (172 words)

What was my best friend thinking?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6220 days ago

11 December 2007 (?) age 41-50 - A few years ago, I met an incredible guy who I ended up becoming fast friends with. We're what's called kindred spirits. We are so much alike in our personalities that we joke that we must have been siblings in a past life. We talk to each other about anything and everything. ... (538 words)

My wife masturbates in her sleep - is this normal?

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11 December 2007 (M)

age - Hi over the past several weeks i have been woken up by my wife masterbating in her sleep. she say she wasnst when i question her about it is this normal or is she wanting somthing... (42 words)

How messy will a hand-job get?

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11 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm super inexperienced, as in I've never done anything for a guy. My bf has done some things for me, but I haven't returned any favors because I dont know how to! I've been reading up on hand jobs, I think i have that pretty figured out. So my question now is, how messy will ... (130 words)

Does she have a disease?

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11 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - hello, I'm 13 years old; I think this girls likes me.At school she acts funny and cute. But on aim she like goes all crazy when she talks to me like if i dont talk she keeps saying my name over and over and if i answer shes like i gotta pee im like just go.... shes like i cant ... (87 words)

I think I may be gay or bi... but how do I find another man to find out?

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11 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey, Been thinking a lot lately, and can't stop thinking about doing somehting with another guy. Don't know if I really want to have sex yet or anything, but I've really fantasized a lot about giving a blowjobto another guy, and also curious about having a threesome with 2... (93 words)

Has anyone been in this situation? What's the answer?

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11 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a wonderful 3 yr relationship but we are from different countries (Australia and Canada). We have spent the last 2 yrs living and working between each country. We've reached the point where we want a permanent home rather than the transient lifestyle. The trouble is ... (103 words)

3 yrs of dating, and suddenly he hangs up the phone on me. Why?

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11 December 2007 (F)

age - I've been dating this guy for almost 3 years, but here's the problem. He went to his country which is Haiti, we talked a couple of times over the phone, but all of a sudden after Thanksgiving I have never been able to speak with him again. When I try and call him, he would ... (72 words)

Will it always hurt if we have sex after a pause, as it's happening now?

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11 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - my b/f and i havent had sex in awhile.. then today we had it again... but it hurt this time.... why and will it always after we wait a while between?... (31 words)

Should I invite her to the party?

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11 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - My ex split with me at the beginning of November. She wanted freedom at uni but she still cares about me. We text every now and then as friends but I really miss her and love her. I don't know how she feels. Anyway, it's my birthday tomorrow and I'm having a house party. I... (99 words)

How can he make me orgasm?

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11 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - wen having intercourse... how can i make my b/f enjoy it more... or can a guy orgasm n how can i make this possible...n ive never orgasmed in bed how can he make me?... (34 words)

Does he hate me? Did I do something wrong?

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11 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - There is a guy I met this summer, he was just so amazing. At first he annoyed me with several of his childish gestures. But I dealt with it. We appologized to eachother then became friends, sorta. The last night at the camp, he opened up to me a bit, he told me about how he was ... (307 words)

I didn't find swinging as thrilling as he did, and I don't want a bloke touching me. How do I get to understand why he likes it?

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11 December 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - ok i will be as detailed as i can, been with my partner 20 years in the summer he told me had been with a few prostitutes he only told me coz he had fallen for one!!!! anyway i said i will try and forgive him we have talked and talked it turns out the one of the reasons he ... (241 words)

She is teasting me. Does she like me?

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11 December 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - there is a girl in my class and sits in front of me and i like her. i wnat you tell me if she likes me or not. she says she hates me but my friends say she likes me. she always smiles and laughs and play mean and act weird when i'm around. she always touches my foot and stares ... (82 words)

Did I act foolishly by suggesting if she is wasting my time... ? How can I mend this?

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11 December 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, I was dating this girl - we have gone out about 15 times. Every time was great and she showed real interest. She told me once she was falling for me so her walls were going up. The last couple times we hung out she was distant but we still would kiss. I asked her straig... (148 words)

I met a great girl but she has just discovered she's pregnant by her ex. Should I support her or break up?

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11 December 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I just recently met a great girl and I connect with her like I never have with any other girl and we really really like each other.. but she just recently found out she is pregnant from her ex. it happened about a month ago before she met me. should I say forget it or support ... (63 words)

He's a two-faced hypocrite. How do I deal with it?

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11 December 2007 (F)

- I don't know whether my bf is bad or if its all my fault. I am 18 years old, my bf and i have been together for 7 months. At first our relationship was great, i felt so happy...but things have changed now... My bf says that if I leave him, know other guy would put up w... (1139 words)

We're both confused - what do we do?

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11 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of over a year totally just dropped off the face of the earth, he does not return any of my phone calls or texts. He has depression issues where he has done this for a few days or so, this is the longest i am really worried or has he just moved on the last time i ... (103 words)

I am not sure how I feel for my wife, she loves me and we have a young daughter together, what should I do?

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11 December 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - im not sure how i feel for my wife now.i don't want to hurt her,but at the same time i had feeling for someone else.we had been married for 7 years and had 5yrs old daudhter.my wife love me a lot and she did't want this marriage to end.what should i do???????... (52 words)

How do I overcome being sexually frustrated whilst trying to build up his confidence?

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11 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am married to a computer geek who is afraid of intimacy (it's hard for him to tell 'i love you', he'd rather fill up my gas tank.) He also developed a sexual disfunction a few months into our relationship, retarded ejaculation, and because of it his sex drive is low and he'd ... (221 words)

I don't want anything heavy. What's the advice?

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11 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey met a girl off the internet twice now she lives a while away but i love her and she loves me genuinely just when i get train home from meeting her it hurts real bad and i miss her like crazy the thing is i wana go travelling in couple of years which upsets her cos she wants ... (176 words)

Was I wrong - or was it him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6216 days ago

11 December 2007 (F) - Ok, I'm going to try and have this be the last question I post because I'm getting a little out of hand with posting questions on here. Anyway, I need reassurace like always because I have a lot of self doubt now that I broke up with my ex fiance who was emotionally ... (607 words)

How do I get over hating my best friend's boyfriend?

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11 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My best friend and I have been friends for 16 years. We grew up together. We never needed guys because we had each other. Now she has a boyfriend that i hate. I honestly don't know exactly what I hate about him, but I can't stand hearing his name from anyone! I refuse to hang ... (126 words)

Why does he always go "limp" when I go on top?

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11 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been having sex for over a year and we have never had any problems. Until now, he will get hard but as soon as I want to be on top he goes limp. Any advice as to what's wrong?... (44 words)

I still talk with my ex teacher of a few years ago, now he's declared his undying love for me...

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11 December 2007 (?) age 36-40 - a few years ago I was madly in love with my teacher- we become good friends. At the time I was 15. Now I am in my twenties and we still talk on the net etc.. Recently he declared his love for me... now I don't know what this means....xx... (50 words)

I feel he's on the other side of the computer laughing at me...

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11 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 13 years old 14 in June. I've met this guy who lives like five states away online. He's 18 and I told him I was 14. But that's not really the issue because in my heart I know we'll never meet. He's so great I almost get confused sometimes. He has a great personality, he's ... (157 words)

Where to go for sex tips now that porn's out of the picture?

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11 December 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey, I used to be addicted to porn so I have eliminated it from my lifestyle and now that I'm starting to become sexually active I feel more inexperienced. When I watched porn I felt (among other things) like I knew what was going on and now when I do things sexually with a w... (121 words)