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writes: ok so i have this ex boyfriend (justin), we dated for a while but it was a on again off again thing, the last time we broke up (about 120 days ago) it was because he cheated on me, i felt like he was saying i wasnt good enough and it put me in a very depressed mood. but recently he has emailed me and appoligized to me, when i wrote back i asked him to call me when he got the message. that morning he called me around 3am we didnt talk for long and i dont really remember what we talked about but i do remember him telling me that he has cleaned himself up and him saying that hes really sorry for being an ass to me. i forgave him and now we are friends and we talk atleast once a day over email and the other night he was drunk and we got into a small fight about me not beliving him when he says i love u to me (i was joking) but he totally freaked out and was like "you think i dont mean it and im trying to save our fucking relationship but i cant because you dont belive anything i say" and sence then its been weird like he doesnt want to talk to me....i love him with all my heart........but hes changed hes angry, more ass like, and less caring its acculy kind of scary because when hes like that it makes me feel like he wants to hurt me in every way possible and yes he does still have most of the things i like about him but with the new things the old attractive things seem to be faiding away and im not sure if i should tell him how i feel (threatened, afraid, sad, upset, etc.) and if i do tell him, im not sure how to put it. or should i ignore it and pretend everythings ok?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionmay i add:
he was with her im not sure what all they did and im not sure i want 2 know.
hes 16 but drinking is way better than what he WAS doing.
and im not with him and when i was with him he was very calm and relaxed.
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reader, PoliticalyLawful  +, writes (20 July 2008):
Wait a minute before i can help you i need to know a few things?
1. When he cheated was it like sex or kissing or just being with someone
2. He was drunk???? how old is he?
3. What are you doin with a guy you are afraid of?
i think from what you said, that he is a jack ass that you should stay away from, AS FAR AS POSSIBLE.
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reader, rcn +, writes (19 July 2008):
 Even being younger, you must know guys are not always what they seem. Do you have a feeling he may be with someone else? That would explain his withdrawing from you. It would also explain his behavior in being mean. He cheated on you and said sorry before. By doing this he believes it relieves him from his responsability, and if you broke it off with him, it would be you doing it and not him. He's avoiding the finger being pointed at him with his own decisions.
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