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age
41-50,
*essleigh
writes:I am in involved with a FWB, but when we are having sex he makes constant eye contact with me or starring at me and cuddles (I’m generally not the cuddle type), also whn we have spent the night together, sleeps holding on to me like I was going to try to run away. For background info he is currently going thru what is seeming to be a messy divorce and he just got home from a long deployment where a lot happened and I have issues of mine own, and don’t want anything more than friendship with the (happens more than we had indented too) benefits. So I guess what the question is what would 1)he just enjoying himself as I am 2) I am filling a void for the time being or 3) something more?I am just confused and again going thru my own issues so I may be just reading to much into things but others people' opinoins sometimes help to put things into persective.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (11 July 2008):
 Right... signs.
He makes eye contact when you are fucking. Well, that has been known to happen, after all, it is a pretty intimate situation. You must have some pretty odd sex experiences if you thinkn eye contact during sex is a sign of love.
As for the holding part, it is generally known among the male population that women want to be hold afterwards. Even in a FWD situation a man would be wise to hold the woman if he wants it again.
Yes, it is possible he has feelings for you. But if you think these are signs I can only think that all the rest of your sexual experiences must have been as a hooker working through a glory hole.
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reader, rcn +, writes (11 July 2008):
 It's okay to experience some friendly attachment for a friends with benefits. He sounds like a bit of a romantic. Some people are the cuddle type and some are not.
Is he that bad of a guy to no seek more with at some point? Asside from just the sex, how do you feel about him and what's going on? Is it because of the acts, or because your afraid you might become vulnerable to emotional involvement?
I think fear is causing you to think too far into this.
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