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female
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26-29,
*ogsrock0121
writes: My boyfriend and I got into a fight a long time ago and I want to get back together with him but every time he looks at me he shakes his head from side to side. What do I do?
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (19 February 2008):
If this fight was "a long time ago" it must have been when you guys were playing in the sandbox. Also I don't think his message could be any clearer forget about him and go play.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2008): At age 10-12, dating should not even be thought about. Being with trusted friends and expanding your social circles is what kids your age should be doing..having fun and living a good, quality life. But judging from the postings we get on this site, dating couples seems to be getting younger with each generation. So I will tell you something. Any boy who shakes his head from side to side, is giving you a rather rude, but straighforward message. He's not interested in dating. So stop thinking of ways to get this guy who doesn't care, back into your life. He's a waste of your time. Forget about him and just have fun with your friends.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2008): I don't want to sound harsh. I know you love him and want to unite but whatever the "fight" was about he's unable to let it go. He probably won't ever forget it nor get past it. Ladies never believe this but sometimes to get closer you have to get away. In this case you're going to end up solo if he continues to hold this grudge. Tell him you want to give him some space so he can figure out what he wants but that you really love him and want to make things work. He will miss you and try to work it out or not.
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