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Old bf wants me back--what do I do?

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Question - (22 February 2008) 11 Answers - (Newest, 26 February 2008)
A female Antigua and Barbuda age 36-40, *enon writes:

what should you do if an old boyfriend wants to get back with you

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A male reader, Jamer70 United Kingdom +, writes (26 February 2008):

Jamer70 agony auntwell considering thats why your not together, i see no issue with at least going out for some coffee and seeing if your still compatiable. If so go for it.

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A female reader, jabey United Kingdom +, writes (25 February 2008):

well if thats how it ended, then sounds like yes give it another shot. although you say he still has feelings, obviously you have to have feelings too. some relationships are fab second time around, you have nothing to loose, go out and get to know each other. if it does not work then at least you have fulfilled your curiosity x

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A female reader, Venon Antigua and Barbuda +, writes (25 February 2008):

Venon is verified as being by the original poster of the question

We were dating for a few months and the break-up was not his or my fault. We were caught in a compromise position by my niece and she told her mother, grandmother,etc. He still has feelings for me and now that we spoke am thinking about the times we have together. Should i let the past be the past or re-kindle the flame.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2008):

run like hell and keep running!

take care

xx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2008):

Walk away! If you broke up and he's an "old" boyfriend, as in it was a while ago, well then there was probably a very good reason why you broke up in the first place. Oh and if it was a while ago, needless to say you've both changed and want different things... always move forward!!

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A female reader, jabey United Kingdom +, writes (22 February 2008):

why did you split up? do you still like him? do you want to be with him? did he treat you well? did you get along/ ask yourself those questions then make your choice xxx

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2008):

You did not give enough info.

Why is he your EX? Has anything changed since your breakup? What was the reason for the break up? As far as I'm concerned, an EX will always remain an EX!

Grumpy Old Man

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A female reader, zoeyboey United Kingdom +, writes (22 February 2008):

Hes called an ex for a reason . you havent said why you split up in the first place ?

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A male reader, Ponungalungb United States +, writes (22 February 2008):

Ponungalungb agony auntTell him to get in line. LOL.

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A male reader, Jamer70 United Kingdom +, writes (22 February 2008):

Jamer70 agony auntThink why hes your EX, and decide if you think it was a good enough reason, and if you wanna remove EX from the title

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (22 February 2008):

eyeswideopen agony auntYou think long and hard about why he is your EX boyfriend. Has anything changed?

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