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writes:I'm a 13yrd old girl who needs some peoples opinions. So I'm in grade 8 and a boy in my class likes me. He's 13 as well. I think he is very nice and all but I never realized he liked me until he asked me to the movies and he told me. He started taling to me more and more. I can also tell he likes me alot because when he talks to me he looks so shy. I think it's so cute lol. But anyway... when I was away from school last week, apparently he asked my friend in gym class if she would ask me if I will go out with him. When she told me what he asked the other day I was so happy because It's nice that someone actually wants to be with me. I know I'm only 13 and love isn't what it seems at this age but I feel it abit inside my heart. I only like him abit because he is really nice to me. The thing is I'm not allowed dating until I'm 15 or 16, my mom said. It's just I want to do what's best for me. I said yes to go out with him and we are now. Should I keep going out with him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionmy mother said I could date a guy as long as he is nice. can more pple give me advice?
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reader, just-ask-xx  +, writes (22 February 2008):
 Okay, first of all, it's not right to lie and sneak around behind your mum's back. And especially if she finds out and not by you teling her.Maybe introduce your mom and this boy and she might like him. It's up to you how you introduce them; as a friend or a boyfriend.After that, she may soften up and then ask her about what she would think about you getting a boyfriend.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (22 February 2008):
 Hiding this from your Mom could come back and bite you in the butt. She trusts you at this point, do you want to lose that trust? Salad's group idea is an excellent one. Or you could have him come over to your house and meet your Mom. Maybe she would approve of him hanging at your house after school sometimes, of course when she is home that is. Sneaking around is definitely bad pizza.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2008): I don't think it's right for you to hide this from your parents. At some point they will find out and they'll most likely try to break the two of you up.
An easy solution would be to bring 1 or 2 of your friends and have him bring along 1 or 2 of his friends then go have fun as a group. I don't think you parents would have a problem with that so you wouldn't have to hide, plus you can find out more about him through his friends.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2008): I think you're sweet. If you want to be with him, why not organise a big group along to the cinema? I live in England so i don't know loads about Canada so maybe it's not safe or something but your mum must surly let you hang out at the cinema? Just have a nice big get together and sit with him!Good luck and remember to have fun!Jelly
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