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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:there is this one guy in my university, who is so hot, sexy and so nice at heart who is two years older to me. he is irresistible for every girl. he is a real boy friend material, he is really too sweet with me. but the problem i have is he is girl crazy. he might have slept with many girls, might have had fun in bed infinite times. i know this but cannot help falling for him. he might be playing with me as well but i tried going away from him which is bothering me more and more.we had physical relation but not sex, yet. and he agrees not to have sex. but still the thing that he might just not be into me, bothers me. i am so very much into him by now. can anyone please help me out to know whether he really is into me? whether he really loves me? or how can i make him fall for me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2011): thank u so much for ur kind replies. whatever u'll said is true, i will curse myself later on if i let him get what he wants. but i am really into him. should i ask him to go away from my life and not to meet him before anything wrong happens?
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reader, xanthic  +, writes (3 March 2011):
 This is going to sound harsh, but it's something I think you need to hear: guys don't fool around with women they want to be in a relationship with. If he really cared about you or loved you, he would've asked you out on a proper date first, rather than take advantage of the feelings he knows you have for him for the sake of getting off. He's using your feelings to get your body, and you're using your body to get him to feel something for you. It's not going to work.
Guys like him are very, very good at making girls think there's something real there. They know all the right things to say to make you fall for them. Once he's gotten want he wants, I guarantee you'll never hear from him again. He has a reputation and every instinct and gut feeling you have is probably telling you to run away, so listen and do it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2011): So far I don't hear any reason that he's BF material other than your sexual attraction to him.
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