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writes:my boy friend and I have been dating for over a year, and we are in love. Yes, our relationship has gone all the way, as in sex. I understand he told his best friend, and I trust him too. I want to tell my best friend too, but I am afraid it will somehow, by the way my school that is, get spread around. Should I tell my best friend?? And if I do, how should I bring it up??
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reader, Capri2  +, writes (3 March 2011):
If you are afraid it will spread around, it's because you think your friend will tell this to someone else. So DON'T tell her about it. Believe that preserving your reputation is a must.
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reader, hotinlove  +, writes (3 March 2011):
It is untimatly your decision, you must trust her though. Even with all the trust in the world, you know that someone else (his friend) already knows too. You have to think about what would happen IF it did get spread around. Who would have done it, your friend or his? Can you live with the fact that your friend may break that trust? Just because you are best friends, doesnt mean she needs to know everything, she will still be your friend if you tell her everything or not. My opinion is to not tell her, if it did get spread around you could lose your friendship, but again it is entirely up to you.
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reader, Honeygirl  +, writes (3 March 2011):
 No, you dont need to tell your friend all your secrets. Your bf might have told his friend, but lets face it - that is showing disrespect to you to be discussing his sex life with his friend. So... dont spill all the beans just incase something goes wrong with your relationship and your friend tells all, and also, is this guy really worth it - telling his friend is like boasting about a conquest???How do you feel about being discussed in this way??
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