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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes: I have liked this guy this year. His class is next to mine and we are friends. He is a really friendly guy and talks to everyone. He is more close to girls than guys, but he is not a player type. He also has this habit of staring into to peoples eyes when talking (so its not just me haha XD). So he has a lot of activities in school that he is really busy and just smiles to me when he sees me. Sometimes when he is free and alone he will come to me and mess around with my hair or have some small talks. He will also come my class and sit next to me even though his other friends from my class were sitting somewhere else. I realise that he tend to ignore me when he is with his friends. Like that day after school, he and one of my girl friend were like old mates so they were talking about a subject that I weren't taking. So they were so busy talking that they left me behind. So it kinda hurts. He barely even notice and so is my friend.One time when my friend dared me text i love him to him. He told my friend that he didn't like me and does not want to start a relationship but then later on the next day, he came to me and say you know everytime I pass your class I will think whether I will see you. Then I was like okk? then only I told him it was a dare.HAHAMy another friend who is same class with him told me that he seems to talk about me, to her, a lot(like almost everyday). She told me that he thinks i'm pretty and smart and all. He doesn't reply my message(I usually text him asking for work stuff) but he doesnt always reply others message. His reason is he didn;t realise =.= So i just want to know does he like me or am I just another girl to him?
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reader, Abella +, writes (22 January 2012):
Sounds like he really did like you back then. Did things progress? Not sure why there were no answers. But I am trying to make amends now.
Maybe the following two articles from Dear Cupid can help you go forward more confidently in the future?
Accordingly here is an article on the power of Positive thinking. It can be done, even when things look bleak.
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/tunnel-vision-positive-thinking---used-to.html
this is an article on Self Confidence from Code Warrior is also worth reading. I think it is an excellent article from Dear Cupid:
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/what-is-confidence-and-how-do-i-get.html
My best wishes to you
Abella
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