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writes:Hello, I've been with my boyfriend now for 4 months and I love him more then ever but I'm confused. He tells me that I am the "one" always and that I'm different from all his ex's because there something special about me. Both his parents also tell me that they know that he wants to spend the rest of his life with me but recently he's been saying horrible things. He says jokes when they upset me, he ignores my messages and when he does reply he doesn't show interest. He gets very grumpy at little things I say. He doesn't want to leave me but it feels like he's getting bored. What do I do? What do I say to him without him thinking I'm paranoid?
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reader, AlexS +, writes (4 March 2011):
AlexS is verified as being by the original poster of the question Hello thankyou all for the advice its helped so much. ive spoken to him since and he's apologized and promised he wouldnt be snappy and grouchy for no reason. he' since took me out to dinner thankyou xxxxxxx
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reader, hotinlove  +, writes (3 March 2011):
You got his attention once, thats why your dating. Just let him know that you are feeling like hes not giving you much attention and hes being very snippy when you ask for some. Sometimes all it takes is for someone to fix their behaviour is to bring it to their attention. Maybe he us truly unaware of how hes making you feel. Talk to him, give him a chance to fix it. If that doesnt work, move on...your only early into the relationship, now is the time to be clear about what you want and need from him in the relationship.
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reader, xanthic  +, writes (3 March 2011):
 Just as sexless said, actions speak louder than words, and it sounds to me like he's just telling you what you want to hear. It's only been 4 months and he's already bored? Move on, find a nice guy that doesn't have the attention span of a 5 year old.
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reader, adamantine  +, writes (3 March 2011):
 I agree with sexlessintheuk. I always observe peoples actions after they give me some mouth diarrhea about how much they care/love you etc. He can promise you the world, but actually DOING it.. that's another story.
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