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writes:i have a phobia of sex and cant sleep with a man at all. im very loney as i cant have sex so a relationship will not work out and i am scared to give birth so will never have any children. i have no idea why this is because nothing bad has ever happen to me at all. i cant ever go for a smear test as well as i dont like anything inside me. what is wrong with me? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2011): thanks everyone some good advice there i need to look into to. i have never had anything bad happen to me so really have no idea why i am this way. i cant even have a smear test im too scared.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2011): hi everyone, thanks for your answers and is it free to get help for this if i went to the doctor?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2011): If you were abused in the past and that is a contributing factor for your phobia, get therapy...
At this point, it seems you are letting your fear dictate your future, your relationships, your potential for marriage, and how you handle (or mishandle) your health. Your fear is getting in the way of you living a normal, healthy life. Please seek professional help.
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (3 March 2011):
 I agree with TEM, only a professional will be able to help here. If you are sincere about wanting help, please ask your GP for a referral to a qualified therapist, psychologist or psychiatrist. We can only guess. Why not get qualified help? We get only one life, you deserve the best, go get it!
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reader, TEM +, writes (3 March 2011):
 I think you have a phobia. I don't know which one, however. These thoughts are irrational, and it sounds as if they are interfering with your well being (you won't go to the OBGYN doctor). Please make an appointment with a competent therapist. I believe this is something you will need professional help to resolve.
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