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26-29,
*eacelovecandy
writes: So there's this guy a grade above me, and I'm pretty sure he's the one I'm meant for. Okay so maybe not forever, but at least for the rest of my years in high school.Anyway, ever since I moved to my current city (four years ago) I've been totally head over heels for this kid. We finally started talking two years ago, just as friends. I've always liked him and I just told him a few months ago that I did. He said he liked me too, and he asked me to be his girlfriend. Well, that didn't last long. We dated for about five days and broke up because I was "stressing him out" since I got upset that he was talking to some super pretty girl more than me. Now we're just talking again, always saying we still like each other... but I feel like it's going nowhere at all. :( I constantly think about it, constantly think about him, constantly think about how much I want to be with him again, knowing it might not work. I can't take it much longer - I love our friendship and I adore being with him, but it hurts to not be dating him. Should I just keep going along with it or should I just end it all and stop talking to him?
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reader, Amantha +, writes (3 March 2011):
Well my best friend is actually going through the same situation.you have two options
1.You can give him a second chance and see where it goes...
2.You have to move on and maybe you'll find someone better.
If you stop talking to him for a while the feelings might fade and you guys can start being friends but right now you can't be friends cause your always going to want somthing more and it's only going to hurt you. You just have to see what you want
Best of luck!!!(:
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reader, Cutexomami69 +, writes (3 March 2011):
Why stress about some kid at school your beautiful so have more than one male friend! Be single and free and leave him alone, he will come around of he wants to talk to u! Next year when your a year wiser youll look back like Omg what was I thinking! We all had funny high school stories and crushes!
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