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writes:It was an accident!!! But... I kissed my SS teacher. Then he told me to leave. He was helping me after school cuz ive been out for a week because i was sick. And he was being really funny and nice and it was only me and him. He was sitting next to me and said "good job. You're a very fast learner." and I don't know why but i just leaned in and kissed him! Then he directly after that told me to go...his exact words were "i cant do this you have to leave now." so i left...i see a therapist three times a week already so i've talked to him about it, but i really want someone who really does understand me, not some dude getting paid to tell me how mucked up my life is.. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2011): Hi my dear, it's good to have this update from you and that you have some clarity on things, I hope this helps to share my story briefly, I did not have good parents and they did not care or treat me like royalty, take strength in knowing where you came from! Try not to be too sad, knowing that your parents loved you is a rare gift that does live on in your heart. Perhaps pray that you can spend some more time with your Aunt and try and look for all the positives that you can.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2011): Hey guys! This is me the person who wrote this story. And I wanted to thank you all. Actually today I wrote him a letter and handed it to him before I left school. And then he actually just emailed me saying that he forgives me and that he will be there for me and everything whenever I need him. My parents died in a car accident when I was 10 years old and so now being 16 and going from family to family it's all getting to my head I guess. The reason i'm going from family to family is because the first family ran out of money and can't take care of me and they weren't responsible. Now, I live with my aunt Marcia and she's almost never home. My parents had me at 18 years old but they treated me like royalty from what I remember. It was a very small apartment we lived in but I loved it, it was great. They always cheered me on, they were supportive, etc.Then..my SS teacher. He's a single man very young, you know, handsome. And he reminded me of my father (not in that sick incest kind of way haha). So I guess I was confused so I kissed him. You're right, I did this because im not used to compliments.That's my story(:
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2011): Hi there, I was not there so am unsure what happened exactly. However you put your teacher in a very awkward position, assuming they did not make any advance and it sure sounds like they didn'tSo I think you need to write an apology to that teacher or see them to apologise with another adult present. That way you have cleared the teacher name, that is only fair.I understand what it feels like to want a real person to understand you like a real family rather than a sterile situation/third person/therapist. As I pretty much grew up with no one at all.So by you saying this I wonder if you have been abandoned somehow by those that should of cared for you. By kissing your teacher you obviously wanted some kind of approval and love and went about it all in the wrong way yes, but you know this so. Take a deep breath and do apologise to this man with someone else present. Then keeping moving forward and don't worry one day you might even be able to look at the light side of this if you can.3 times a week is a lot and probably a good idea that you have that stability at your age, keep going and I am sure your therapist is not saying your life is screwed up and actually does care.Can you ask your therapist to help you look at any foster programs where you can be part of a real family?
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