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I wasted my chance of happiness!

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Question - (3 March 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 3 March 2011)
A male Philippines age 30-35, *nonymous12295 writes:

I used to date this girl a year ago. I knew she was special from the start but i didnt take her seriously. So ended up not talking to each other for a year. Little did i know that she was actually really in love with me when we were dating and even after we broke up. So i feel really guilty that i broke her heart. And so after a year i kept on trying to forget about her but ive always felt that she had a grip on my heart from the very beginning. So now ive finally realized that she's always been the one ive truly cared about and truly loved and that she's always been that one special girl in my life. But sadly, she does not love me anymore and is actually seeing this other guy. So here i am, heartbroken, hating myself for not taking her seriously before and feeling depressed because i wasted my chance of being with her. Should I tell how i feel or should i just let her be?

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (3 March 2011):

aunt honesty agony auntIm sorry that you have ended up heart broken. Its a shame you realised to late what you had but I think the best thing you can do now is to move on. She has moved on with her life and she is with somebody else now. I think you need to accept the fact that she is now in another relationship and move on with your life. Goodluck.

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A female reader, StarryEyes101 United Kingdom +, writes (3 March 2011):

StarryEyes101 agony auntTo be honest I think you should let her go. It's taken her long enough to get over you, so telling her all that may be a big strain on her. Be happy for her, If it is meant to be it will happen. If they break up then maybe you should try being friendly again then ask her out or something. But while she is with him, I'd stay well away.

I hope this helps

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