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writes:I've written about a million messages on here for help and now something else had added to the story..So to sum it up, everything was cool with a guy I was seeing, really well actually, to a point where he wanted me to open up to him about my feelings but I wasn't really ready after a month of knowing him. I didn't give him any idea that I wasn't interested. I just played it cool sometimes but he said he thought I wasn't bothered sometimes and kept pushing for my feelings. I could sense something was up the other day and I texted him saying I needed to talk to him. Then he texted me saying he was going to give it a go with his ex, who I never even knew about. He said he thought it was a bit of fun with us because I never told him my feelings. Anyway, I told him then, just got it all out. That I thought he was amazing, that I thought about him a lot etc. But basically that was it. So I was hurt and upset but I'm getting through it already and have felt positive today. I deleted him off facebook just to help me get through things. After all, I don't want to see pics or comments on there that are going to upset me. Then this evening he texted me out of the blue saying, 'Deleted me on facebook, lol. How old are you?' What?!!! Why is he playing these games? I didn't remove him to score points, I did it to help me! He basically told me he didn't want me so what am I mean to do, hang on pondering over him?! I think that's what he must want! I haven't texted him back because I think it's gotten stupid now. If you know you've hurt someone you wouldn't text them things like that would you?! Arrgh, so weird, so confusing.
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reader, lacrymosa_652 +, writes (4 March 2011):
 It's probably a pride thing, with the whole "you deleted me before I could delete you." Ah I don't know, it makes sense in my head.
You don't have to explain yourself to him, you've just done something for yourself, to help YOU move on, not to spite him.
He's probably not trying to hurt you, he just might be a bit miffed at what appears to be you moving on so fast. But I think you're doing the right thing in terms of allowing yourself to move on, so good luck with that, and I hope you move on soon.
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