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writes:Hey, this is an extended version of what I asked before - please give me opinions on this!!! The question is do I stay or go?? I met this guy a while ago through the place I live - he works here. I always had fun with him in meetings and we got on like a house on fire :) however, after a drunken night out I ended up waking up next to him. I was really worried - as was he - because if anyone found out then he could lose his job. Also, he is 29 and I'm 17 so the age gap was a bit awkward but it's difficult to tell if it bothered him. We spent the day that I woke up next to him together fooling around; he told me that I should move out so we could be together. Then a couple weeks later - during which I purposely avoided him - we were found out about; luckily he didn't get fired. We both were interviewed about the night and he claimed it was a 'drunken mistake' (I wasn't there during his interview, I was just told what he said). We didn't speak for about a month after this but now he is back to his old, chirpy flirty self (: yay! The question is: shall I move out and hope that it wasn't really a 'drunken mistake' for him or shall I move on? Thanks for reading x
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2011): Hi there, I'm also a 17 year old girl and I like a guy whose 5 years older than me, but I'm going to be completely honest with you and say that if the 29 year old said that it was a "drunken mistake" just so he wouldn't lose his job and is now flirting with you again he has probably decided that you're an easy target and is just after one thing. Sure he might be charming, but don't fall for that, a lot of creeps can be charming. Honestly I don't thnk the age difference is a problem because age is just a number, but you want to be with someone who loves you and doesn't just want to use you. There's someone amazing out there for you, so keep looking for him. Someone who truly loves you won't ask you to move in with him when you are just 17. You don't want to be with that kind of guy, you deserve beter.
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